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Re: Decision To Make

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Melanie

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Date Posted: 10/ 2/06 1:03pm
In reply to: Amz 's message, "Decision To Make" on 09/27/06 2:30am

Wow... I'm almost at a loss for words, which is rare for me. In your post I get a sense that this isn't what you want, that you are just feeling stretched beyond your limits. Having two children so close together can be a real challenge in the beginning, especially. However, after a time it is not unusual for two so close in age to be closer in other ways.

I know things are really difficult for you now. It does seem that pregnancy is poorly timed more often than not, yet more often than not it does work out. It's that fear of what will happen tomorrow that can get the better of us.

You said that you would be doing this for your little girl, and if that is the case, you might want to rethink a little. Your little girl will have to see you go through the loss, and she will likely notice that something is wrong. How will this affect you overall? Because your emotional state after an abortion will affect her as well.

If an abortion is not really what you want, I would urge you to seek out assistance instead. There are Crisis Pregnancy Centers in the UK that can help with some physical needs, can offer emotional support and referrals to other resources in your area.

Hang in there. And I agree with Pat in that we will be here regardless and praying for you.

--Melanie

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