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Date Posted: 21:58:01 04/20/16 Wed
Author: Sue
Subject: Re: It's everywhere.
In reply to: L 's message, "Re: It's everywhere." on 00:52:22 04/20/16 Wed

L, so do you feel as if wit (unknowingly) is directly towards the straight spouse in most situations? Like the GID is not aware of their wants and needs sexually and emotionally? That, because of society they have carried a burden that MUST be put upon another in order to sustain their. very. life?

"No one sexual orientation has a monopoly on narcissism. From reading all of the stories on here I have absolutely NO DOUBT that a lot of the straight spouses here were/are married to very cruel, manipulative, damaged, and narcissistic people. I don't believe, though, that every GID spouse is doing this to inflict pain, or to merely get what they want at the expense of everyone else."

neither do I, but from what I've read about this on this forum and many topics on said subject., in many cases this does stand true,and is the case, narcissistic complete.

"Anyway, my point was more that I don't think homosexuality itself is the problem, it's the people involved. And I do hope that if it becomes less stigmatized, there will be fewer unwitting straight spouses."

Explain further please. Less stigmatized does not in any way render the past forgiven..especially when many straights feel as if their entire lives were stolen by a complete negligence on their spouses part to tell the truth to the ones they supposedly love and married or co-partnered with. The very core of whom they were/are. Or whom they thought they were/who/are.

No homosexuality is not the problem if you keep yourself to that core of your very being, however it does become a BIG problem once you involve others in your deception of your very CORE being, a very Big problem that effects spouses, male or female.. and the children of such relationships that have to live a reality which isn't exactly reality. I will not say that I hate gay apologists in any way ..but I do like to keep it real!

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Replies:

Re: It's everywhere. -- L (clarifying), 19:07:49 04/21/16 Thu
- Re: It's everywhere. -- Sue, 19:46:33 04/21/16 Thu
- Re: It's everywhere. -- lily, 23:31:13 05/03/16 Tue