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Date Posted: 22:15:15 05/22/16 Sun
Author: lily
Subject: Re: And still nowhere
In reply to: Todd 's message, "Re: And still nowhere" on 13:49:56 05/22/16 Sun

I did it Todd. I fell in love, cheated on him, and went off with the man. now I'm just pleased with myself for doing it. I don't feel remotely guilty now but I felt terribly guilty back then. It would have been alright if I'd just stayed away from him but he came and found me and said he loved me and wanted me back. So I thought he must love me and went back, oh the guilt! looking back, he made the most of it. Me feeling guilty meant he was cushioned from feeling guilty for deceiving me.

funnily enough I wasn't feeling guilty about it at all, til he came back into my life.

sometimes it's hard to deal with feeling angry with someone you've loved. it can be hard difficult and painful. and the fear is that you will never be over it. but it goes. it goes when you've got something else to be happy about. That's stronger. and that is in your future. Right now you need to limit your availability to your ex. Emotionally speaking, she's being hurtful to you.

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