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Subject: Message from Big Daddy


Author:
Charles Kuentz
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Date Posted: 03:38:03 02/22/03 Sat

Mr. K. Dear Former Ram Band Members:

BAND, ATTENTION!!!

What a joy to open up the web site and read all the letters that have come in. (Thanks to Robin). It’s so gratifying and heartwarming to hear from so many of you.

The time that I spent with you as your director will always be the highlight of my career and some of the most cherished moments of my life.

After reading how well so many of you are doing, I thought it might be neat if I reminisced and shared some of the memories that still and always will remain with me.

Some of you will remember that my first year at Northside was teaching a beginning band class at Leon Valley Elem. Later in the day, I traveled out to Helotes Elem. to teach another beginner class. Right before lunch I came back in to town to Hobby Middle School where I spent the rest of the day being an assistant to Mr. B. B. McKinney. During this year, I met many of you as 6th, 7th, and 8th graders who later came of Marshall.

That summer, Mr. Lewis asked if I would assist him with Freshman Summer Band at Marshall ( I believe this was held in June). Also duing this summer, Stevenson Middle School was nearing completion. After interviewing for the Band Director’s job, Mr. Bill McCullough, (Prin.) decided to hire me. I was instrumental in ordering new instruments and helping with the design of the band hall.

Some time during the middle of this same summer, NISD decided to create a District Supervisor of Music position.The most capable person to handle this job was Mr. Bob Lewis, of course(He had been doing it unofficially for years). I remember getting a phone call from him informing me of the pending situation at which time he asked me if I would be interested in the Marshall job. Of course I said yes! I worried about the Stevenson job since I had already been accepted for it, but Mr. Lewis assured me that things could be worked out. He said a Mr. Jim Cain was very anxious to move to Northside.

Within a very few days an interview with the Marshall Principal, Mr. John Thurman was set up. Mr. Thurman was with out question one of the most supportive principals I ever worked for. I never will forget a question he asked me during my interview. He asked, “How do you handle discipline?” My answer was “I use an iron fist covered with a velvet glove.” He said “You’re hired.” He went on to say that he wanted a big band, lots of flags, and wanted the band to play “March Grandioso” at every game. I guess he must have been a U.T. man.

This letter is getting rather lengthy and probably boring to some of you, but I must impose one more precious memory on you ,our first half-time show.

The show started with the band lined up in the end-zone (I believe in company fronts). The fanfare I chose was from the classical “Invocation to Albrecht”. You will remember that French horns turned side-ways so their bells faced the stands. The band stepped off playing the march “Bravura”. Marching down field the woodwinds turned, formed a long line down the side line and were featured playing 2nd strain.

While this was going on, I was nervously observing the band from the top row of bleachers at Northside Stadium. (about to throw up would be a more accurate description.)

Mr. Dan Schreiber (now deceased), the director at Jay was standing beside me. (It was customary for other band directors to visit half-time shows to see what was going on). He turned to me and asked “How big was that stick you used to whip those kids into shape?” From then on, I knew this was going to be a trip that would be the most rewarding journey of my life. God bless all of you!

BAND! DISMISSED!!!
Mr. K

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Author:
Alan D. Valentine
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Date Posted: 19:56:46 02/22/03 Sat

Dear "Big Daddy":

How absolutely wonderful to hear from you, and no, the letter was neither boring nor too long. You could write a book and it wouldn't be boring!

I don't know if you'll ever really know what a profound influence you had on all of us. It doesn't even matter what we ended up choosing to do with our lives, I would wager that nearly every one of us succeeded, and you (and Bob Lewis) had a BIG hand in that.

Every moment of my band experience is etched in my brain and on my heart permanently - the good, the bad, the funny and the sad. Thank you, thank you, thank you for the incredible gift you gave us all!

- Alan

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Rick Valentine
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Date Posted: 20:10:18 02/22/03 Sat

Mr. K, It was great to see your posting today. I must tell you that after I left high school and went to Univ of Houston, I was so disappointed because the Marshall band was so much better than the U of H band. While to other horn players in my section were talking about how great it was to be in such a fine band, I was secretly longing to play in the Marshall band again. I am now the General Manager og the Houston Location of Pender's Music Co. so I still have a band connection. My wife and I hope to make it to the reunion... I look forward to seeing you then!

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Author:
Diego Pena
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Date Posted: 18:29:37 02/24/03 Mon

Glad to hear you're doing well. Regarding your discipline, I think Dan Fogelberg said it best in his song about his father, the former band director at UCLA: "...a thundering velvet hand." Please stay in touch. May God bless you...
diego

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Author:
Kathy Valentine
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Date Posted: 03:59:04 02/27/03 Thu

Mr. K,
I whole heartedly agree with my brothers. You were a profound influence on my life. Thank you for sticking to principles and handing out discipline where it was needed, while still always showing that you cared about each of us as a person. I have had three of my four children in band and choir and they love all kinds of music. I am a registered nurse and manage the pediatric program for CHRISTUS Santa Rosa HomeCare. I try to show my staff and patients that same care and direction that I learned so many years ago. God Bless you.
Love,
Kathy

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Author:
Donald Michael Coy
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Date Posted: 05:00:07 03/14/03 Fri

Dear Mr. Kuentz,

I recently found out about this site and was pleased to read your note.

I certainly recall the early days of your career from a little different perspective. I met you when I was in the 4th grade and singing in Mrs. Kuentz's choir back at Oak Hills Terrace Elementary. You came to watch us perform and you asked which of us planned to join your band one day.

A few years later when I was learning to play the saxophone at Pat Neff Middle School, you asked me if I was planning on joining your band one day.

Finally in 1980, you helped me answer that question when I tried out for the band, and you let me join the ranks. You truly had a great impact on the way I appreciate music today.

I live in Illinois these days. My wife and I have friends whose kids are in the marching bands around here. Occasionally they invite us to watch their kids perform, and I can't help but grin as I reminisce.

There is a lyric that says, "Careful what you say, children will listen...." Please know that all of us listened, and we are very grateful for what you said. You made each of us feel special. Such a gift you have. Take care.

Donald

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Lisa Yeh
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Date Posted: 20:23:01 03/22/03 Sat

Mr. K,
It was wonderful to read your posting and to see your picture on the site. You are the teacher that had the greatest influence on me throughout all my schooling (undergraduate and graduate school included). I remember once you telling the band that most of us would not go on to have a musical career and probably not even ever play our instruments after high school... (I remember thinking, no..no.. I will always play my flute - which of course wasn't the case)...but that there were many lessons we would learn from our experience in band. Well...you were so right. Some of my greatest life lessons were taught by you....how to work well in a team...the importance of giving your best... to name just a few. I so appreciate the openess in which you shared your feelings and expectations of all of us during our band years. Besides passing on your appreciation of music, you gave us many other gifts, ones that I can only hope I now share, as well as you did with us then, with others in my life.
Hope to see you in April!
hugs.
Lisa Dean Yeh

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Bob Teal
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Date Posted: 06:25:38 03/25/03 Tue

Dear Mr. Kuentz,

I would never, even in my wildest dreams, imagine that I was one of your favorite pupils. I am sure that I did make some of your days more interesting though. I was fortunate enough to be there at the very beginning of your days at John Marshall. I was also fortunate enough to have been in your presence the year before you came to J. M. H. S., during my eighth grade year at Hobby Middle School. Oh, we go way back.

Since graduating in 1979 (by the skin of my teeth I must say), I have from time to time looked back in my mind and relived some of my high school memories and waxed poetic about my four-year stint with the John Marshall Ram Band. It was after all, the only real notable accomplishment of my academic career. I must say too, like many of the other posted testimonials I have read, that of all the teachers that I had during my days in the public school system, you had the most profound effect on me. You showed me (and many other kids) many honorable traits. You were intense, honest and caring.

From my perspective, I thought ‘Hey, didn’t everybody get kicked out of band rehearsal at least once a year’. But after thinking about it a little while I realized that I was exceptional, I mean, the exception.

I’ll never forget the day that, I mean, one of the days that I was asked to leave a rehearsal. I was sitting quietly in the back of the band hall with my fellow tuba players while you were going over some musical passage with either the flutes or the clarinets. Any member of a concert or symphonic band knows being in a large band like this requires patience. You have to be able to sit quietly while the director works with other sections of the band and be ready to go when you are called upon.

I was sitting next to Jon H. (we’ll leave out last names to protect the innocent). I was sitting on a standard school issue brown folding chair while Jon was sitting on one of the larger, much taller, clunky metal stools. Actually I was situated behind Jon. We were wearing our sousaphones at the time. We must have just come in from the practice field. Anyway, Jon was wearing a pair of overalls that day and had unhooked the straps on his overalls to get more comfortable. I must have gotten bored while sitting there because I suddenly grabbed one of the overall straps and tried to tie it to one of the legs of the metal stool upon which Jon was sitting. I tried a few times but it kept slipping off. Jon finally noticed that I was up to something turned around and gave me a look that said, “Hey, knock it off, bonehead!” I gave up and figured it wouldn’t stay tied. A few minutes later you announced that you were ready for the entire band to join in and you wanted the tubas to stand up for this one. It was only then that the missing element to my overall strap/metal stool connection attempts was added: the necessary tension. Suddenly, for what seemed like an eternity, the stool on which Jon had been sitting, was now swinging to and fro from Jon’s rear end, all the while hitting and bouncing off the floor, clunking and clanking. Jon, thinking quickly, bent his legs at the knees and pretended to be standing while he was actually sitting on the now stabilized stool. By this time, all of the eyes in the band hall were now focused on the rear of the band hall. You used your lighting quick Sherlock Holmes like skills of deductive reasoning and barked out “Rabbit, did you do that?” to which I replied sheepishly, “Yes sir.” You then instructed me to put up my horn and leave. As I was putting up my tuba on the back shelf I remember how you accurately explained to the rest of the band what had just happened. You said “Rabbit thought it would be funny if he tied Jon's overall strap to his stool so that when he stood up it would interrupt our rehearsal”. As I was making my way to the exit on the clarinet/trumpet side of the band hall, I felt dejected and ashamed. I remember as I walked past Mr. Briggs who was standing near the top of the stairs. I looked up at him and he had a grin on his face and looked like he trying really hard not to bust out laughing. I knew at that moment that everything would be all right and tomorrow would be another day in Band land.

You always seemed to forgive me for letting my stupid hang out. I am forever grateful. Thanks for the memories and God Bless.

Robert "Rabbit" (now Bob) Teal

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Author:
Debbie
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Date Posted: 19:56:39 03/25/03 Tue

Hey Rabbs, I never heard that story before -- like a few more I'm only finding out about some 20+ years later... Must have come from the Secret Archives section of The Teal Family Classics Collection. However, I do remember hearing about and seeing photos of you and your mates at the band banquet, wearing leisure suits accessorized by the tablecloths on your heads secured by neckties around the top, looking like faux Bedouins, with you going by the name "Sheik Aba Rabba Dhu". Still, that's not as bad as me looking back at my photo from a band banquet and realizing that I looked like Marcia Brady. At least you guys MEANT to look silly.

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Author:
Juli Perry Briggs
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Date Posted: 08:54:50 03/25/03 Tue

Mr. K, loved you then, love you now. Guess for me it all started with my mom and dad stumbling across you and Judy at a Pat Neff band concert when Ray and I were both 8th graders... suddenly, I learned that you and dad had gone to Jeff together and your first band job and his first church had been in Rocksprings, TX and that you two couples had hung around together "in the early days." Your beloved Ray was truly my oldest friend in the universe... after all, we shared a playpen together! I was so proud of him when I saw what a great family man he had become at the point of our 1977 reunion. God rest his soul.

I'd venture to guess that it wasn't just everyone in Stage Band that heard you chide me occasionally with, "ok, little girl, I used to change your diapers," it was the whole damn crew!

Please stay well and know that I wouldn't even want to bother defining who I am without tossing a lot of the credit to the glorious sense of family I experienced being around you Kuentzes. Thanks so much for the intense musicality you instilled in all of us, too. Still wish NISD had been able to have an orchestra program in place back in those early days, but we made do, didn't we?????? If you ever drop into the band hall, please give Bertha a pat on the back for me.

Hugs,
Juli

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Author:
Cecillia Dohrn Rivas
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Date Posted: 20:02:53 03/25/03 Tue

Mr. K,

It was great to read your message. The longer, the better! I am filled with emotion as I reflect on my time with the Ram Band. I remember wanting to quit when I was in Middle School because I wasn't enjoying my instrument (clarinet). However, I owe my mother a debt of gratitude for making me stick with it until I went to High School. Fortunately for me I did persevere and was able to have the awesome privilege of learning what it was like to be a part of a team that was the Pride of their school and city.

Your loving leadership gave me the desire to be my best and to get up early every morning ready to march. Marching is the only form of exercise that I have ever enjoyed, still to this day! Surely the time that I spent in Band and all of the numerous fund-raising events, etc... were some of the very best of my life. Thank you so very much for all of the effort that you put into molding us and instilling in us the importance of being our very best.

Although I did not pursue the clarinet after JMHS, I do still play the piano and keyboard and am fully involved in church music. I have 4 children, and the oldest 2 both play the violin. My husband went to H.S. in El Paso and had a very similar band experience to mine, so we are hoping our children will also get to participate in a fantastic band/orchestra. Our daughter is in the Nashville Repertory Symphony Orchestra and will be starting High School next year at the magnet school which focuses on the arts, Nashville School of the Arts. We are excited for her opportunity. She has had some wonderful mentors thus far.

Please know that you were my very favorite teacher and still hold a special place in my heart. I am really looking forward to seeing you again. It's great to have this opportunity to come together.

Hugs from "Seniors Try More Harder"!!

Cecillia

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Susan Taylor Jolly
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Date Posted: 17:00:07 04/03/03 Thu

From the eighth grade at Hobby MS, to graduation at JMHS, to the present, you have been a great influence in my life. Thank you for being such a good friend and mentor. And for not getting too mad when you got your behind chewed out by someone in administration every time I got hauled in for being off campus during peprally periods (it honestly never occurred to me that I would get YOU in trouble...) And for semi-permanently wiring the battery to the starter with jumper cables in my green-bomb wagon at 1:00 a.m. in the torrential pouring rain somewhere the other side of Pleasanton so the wind-ensemble could finish the drive home from a concert at Del Mar College (good chance you remember that one, huh?) Seriously, life would be considerably different for so many kids if they had one teacher in their entire school experience who would lead, befriend and discipline their students the way you did with us. Many thanks! love, sue

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desiree alcocer-scott
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Date Posted: 16:52:01 04/09/03 Wed

mr.kuentz, not to worry, I turned out OK- as far as i can tell. don't know if you would even remember me but you were more important that i certainly thought and am glad to have the chance to tell you so. ram band memories were the best! saw the photos of kim and she looks beautiful as do you and your wife. can't make it this weekend but hope to make one sooner or later. wish i could be as eloquent as alan v. but as for me, i was always proud to be a part of the ram band...desi

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Frank Hipchen
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Date Posted: 04:51:13 04/15/03 Tue

You are one of the rare men in this world...

Talking with you makes everyone feel like they have something to look foreward to.

What could be possibly be more valuable or remarkable than this?

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Author:
Lisa Black
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Date Posted: 03:17:45 04/30/03 Wed

Dear Big Daddy Kuentz,
Thank you so much for sharing your story and sharing your life with us. I know that the discipline I learned in my years with you has helped to shape my entire life (or at least the best parts of it.)I am now a sort of teacher myself, teaching lawyering skills to law students, and I hope that I can bring even a tiny fraction of the patience, leadership, creativity and respect that you brought to us. I have a six year old daughter who seems to have more natural musical talent than I ever did, and I hope one day she will have the blessing of a music teacher like you. Thanks for so much than we can say. Lisa Black

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