| Subject: Up's and downs of life - actually, LAB |
Author: Bruce Wilson [ Edit | View ]
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Date Posted: 20:53:21 03/28/03 Fri
greetings all you former fellow band members -
i just finished reading alan valentines biography of success, and i can tell you first hand, life has it's share of ups and downs, sometimes more downs that ups. well, don't get me wrong, my life for me is pretty good overall, but, i've known a few others who were in band, and some have had a hard time getting all of life together.
funny thing is, i would have expected alan valentine to have been one of the lesser blessed in life. yet, i did not know him hardly at all, just my impression from a distance. i seem to have this memory of him burning rubber in that old volkswagon of his...
for those who do not remember me, i was the youngest of the 3 band members, Scott (drummer), Bryan (trumpet), and me, trombone. I will not be attending the reunion for several reasons, the most major being that my wife's sister is getting married that weeked (and it is a BIG - HUGE - Wonderful event!).
But, my purpose in writing is to just make this statement, those who read these really wonder biographies, of various classmates, and how successful they've been, ultimately, what makes a life success is your eventual outcome. many would consider Elvis Presley to have been a huge success, and yet, dying on the toilet, with a feeling of near hopelessness, is in many eyes near a total failure.
Me, i have had my shares of ups and downs, but when i consider that i am still married to the same person (Valerie - a NON bandie!), since 1981, i know that having love of someone you love is far more important that any of the millions i have made (just kidding).
No, probably the most important thing in my life is hearing the whisper of God in my heart, telling me his little secrets, his quiet words of love and appreciation, and, knowing the love of your savior is more that any success or promotion, or any kind of huge bank account.
So how has your life played out these 20+ years? do not be ashamed of your life of averageness, as it is not the bank account, nor the number of limo's, nor the number of names you can drop (and please, i do NOT mean to say anything against alan valentine!).
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- Re: Up's and downs of life -- Debbie, 13:57:12 03/29/03 Sat
- Re: Up's and downs of life - actually, LAB -- Susan Taylor Jolly, 18:17:54 03/29/03 Sat
- Re: Up's and downs of life - actually, LAB -- Alan D. Valentine, 21:25:12 03/29/03 Sat
Re: Up's and downs of life -- Debbie, 22:19:55 03/29/03 Sat
- Re: Up's and downs of life - actually, LAB -- Kim Kuentz Melchert, 14:20:55 03/31/03 Mon
- Re: Up's and downs of life - actually, LAB -- Bruce Wilson, 19:34:22 03/31/03 Mon
- Re: Up's and downs of life - actually, LAB -- Juli Perry Briggs, 14:00:29 04/03/03 Thu
- Re: Up's and downs of life - actually, LAB -- Angela Sexton Varoff, 19:14:51 04/28/03 Mon
- Re: Up's and downs of life - actually, LAB -- Lisa Black, 03:44:37 04/30/03 Wed
- Re: Up's and downs of life - actually, LAB -- Carl Speicher, 23:41:31 12/28/03 Sun
- Re: Up's and downs of life - actually, LAB -- Carl Speicher, 04:32:55 12/30/03 Tue
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