I realized that my dear ol' dad had me in a hellish state of mind only because I ALLOWED it. Nothing about our relationship is different, except for my state of mind, what I allow myself to experience, my perspective. He is no different than he ever was, but thru the years, I have experienced a myriad of emotions simply by changing my perspective of things. I believed it so much at one point that I really thought his evilness was real. But I have come to know that it was as real as I wanted it to be. Make any sense? So whatever ex-man is doing right now, please don't buy into it, even tho your children are most certainly involved. Put all your energy toward focusing that they will return to you safe and sound. Then help them to process their experience so that they don't have to carry around the weight of it. -- Spirit World

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Date Posted: 17:04:15 08/15/03 Fri
Author: Lissa
Subject: I realized that my dear ol' dad had me in a hellish state of mind only because I ALLOWED it. Nothing about our relationship is different, except for my state of mind, what I allow myself to experience, my perspective. He is no different than he ever was, but thru the years, I have experienced a myriad of emotions simply by changing my perspective of things. I believed it so much at one point that I really thought his evilness was real. But I have come to know that it was as real as I wanted it to be. Make any sense? So whatever ex-man is doing right now, please don't buy into it, even tho your children are most certainly involved. Put all your energy toward focusing that they will return to you safe and sound. Then help them to process their experience so that they don't have to carry around the weight of it.
In reply to: Lissa 's message, "hahahaha Jennifer, how on earth to answer THAT assertion! I cannot argue with you, even without knowing what's new in this summer's visitation adventure. I was going to answer John Scott that hell is a state of mind. That being said, your ex most certainly lives in a hellish state of mind most of his waking hours, as proved by his insistence on thinking of more and varied ways to be hellish. Now the question becomes, should you join him in that state of mind, even though he does as much as he can to bring you there with him, to claim your soul for the demon side? The choice is yours. Heaven or hell. I mean that seriously." on 17:03:09 08/15/03 Fri

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