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Date Posted: 23:31:13 03/01/06 Wed
Author: chico781
Subject: Re: Advice
In reply to: chico781 's message, "Advice" on 15:59:14 02/28/06 Tue

I know that by what I said it may seem like I should move on and that she's playing me but in my heart I don't feel that way. One thing is certain, I need to go for it. I can no longer sit back because it's totally killing me. So what I am doing is laying it all out on the table. I expect her honesty and I know that I will get it. I still feel that what we have is real. I feel like she's letting all of her fears control her instead of just allowing her heart to lead her. It's kind of the same situation with Chrys where there's that fear of letting go of yourself because we're not sure they'll accept us as we are.

So I am laying it all out. There's no way I could move on without doing that because there would always be those "what ifs" for me. I wouldn't be at peace with myself if I didn't follow my heart and my gut. My heart tells me that she's the one for me and my gut is telling me to fight for her.

I just want to thank all of you guys again for your kind words and advice.

Much love,

Sergio

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[> Re: Advice -- chrys, 00:00:44 03/02/06 Thu [1]

go you. it will be better once you know, whatever the outcome. at least thats what i keep telling myself. i am glad you are going for it. once you know you have laid it on the line, then you can see where that goes and whether you need to move on or not, but w/o all that regret and wondering what if for the rest of your life!

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