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Subject: Re: Need help with self- spanking Author: Mork and Mindy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 14:36:55 01/13/24 Sat In reply to: Annie 's message, "Need help with self- spanking" on 16:08:45 01/03/24 Wed Hi Annie, This may seem off the wall to you but I assure you it can be helpful and effective. I suggest you start with a 1.5 quart warm, soap suds enema. You can set it up and vow not to end it until you've taken it all. You can stop for cramping but must leave the nozzle in place and open the clamp when the cramp passes to take more until the bag is empty. When the soapy enema is in you, hold for five minutes, and then give yourself a 2 quart tap water rinse enema. All the time you are taking the enemas you will tell yourself, out loud, what a naughty girl you've been and that's why you're getting the enemas and further, when the enemas are finished you'll be getting a good hard spanking on your bare bottom. You will find when it comes time to spank yourself, you'll be better able to again force yourself to take it all, just as you did with the enemas! After each smack you're to say out loud, "I've been a very naughty girl and I'm going to get a long hard spanking. If the most swats you've been able to give yourself in the past is 10, this time tell yourself, out loud, before you start, what a naughty girl you've been and now you are going to get 15 hard spanks on your bare bottom to teach you a lesson. After the first smack you'll say out loud, "That was one, Annie. You need this. Hold on Annie, here comes a hard one!" You'll do that after each spank until you've had all 15. I predict the enemas followed by the spanking will be a great success. The enemas are a great way of forcing yourself to take something that you'd rather not take and taking it all. If prior enema experience tells you 1.5 quarts won't be enough to push you when it comes to "taking it all," then do 2 quarts. You CAN be successful with taking it all and that will set the pattern in your mind that you can, and will take it all when it comes to the spanking. Good luck! Mindy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> Subject: Re: Need help with self- spanking Author: Annie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:58:09 01/13/24 Sat Hi Mindy, I can honestly say that I never considered incorporating an enema into a self spanking session. Not sure if that is something I want to try, but thank you for the suggestion. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Need help with self- spanking Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:32:01 01/14/24 Sun Hi Annie, As I understand it your problem is you feel a lack of commitment to the spanking process. When the going gets tough, you're not keeping it up long enough to cross the point you want to cross. Understandable. Spankings hurt and enough hurt to be as effective as you want them to be is one thing to want and another to self-administer. The enema plan I suggested is to create a winning mind set. That when it comes to self-administered beyond the point you really want to stop, an enema is tough enough to take to be a win and yet doable. Then, when you start the spanking and reach the point you just can't take anymore, your self talk will be, "I can do it! I did the enema and I can do this! When it comes to tough, I'm a winner." The first time you might only be able to self talk your enema success to another three whacks. The next time you have two success --- pushing yourself to take all the enema and the extra three whacks. So, you push yourself to again take all of the enema and pledge you'll take four whacks, not three. Maybe even an extra five whacks. To have a proper count you'll need to know how many whacks you're able to give yourself now to build the first extra three on top of. I take it from your response you have experience taking enemas? So, you'll have a bag? Why would you not try it then? What have you got to lose? Go for it! Good luck, Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Need help with self- spanking Author: Rainy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:33:43 01/20/24 Sat Annie, let me get it straight you would like to be able to get a spanking beyond your threshold that you can take the pain. What happens if you simply cannot bear the spanking you are getting? Do you want to be spanked until your butt reaches a certain color? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Need help with self- spanking Author: Annie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:48:33 01/21/24 Sun Hi Rainy, I guess I just want to be able to get beyond my body's instinct to stop when it starts to hurt too much. It doesn't feel like a real punishment if I stop then. I'm not looking for a certain shade of red, lol. I suppose I want to trick my head so it doesn't feel like I'm in control of what happens, if that makes any sense. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Need help with self- spanking Author: Rainy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:45:36 01/21/24 Sun A real disciplinary spanking stings really hard. What happens if the spanking keeps going and going and going, but you really, really want it to cease. The spanking keeps going even though you are sobbing and begging that it stops. It goes until you have an evenly dark red colored bottom That is the real old fashion spanking given generations ago to wayward children of the pioneers who came to settle and till the soil. Is that the kind of spanking you would like? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Need help with self- spanking Author: Rainy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:52:23 01/27/24 Sat I am sorry if I scared Annie. Perhaps, she was looking for a "kinky" spanking. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Need help with self- spanking Author: Annie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:00:58 01/27/24 Sat Hi Rainy, You didn't scare me off, lol. I've just been kinda busy and didn't check back on the forum. I have nothing against a kinky spanking. I daresay that can be fun solo, or with a consenting partner. But that wasn't what I was really looking for. I know a self-spanking will probably never feel like being at someone else's mercy. I just want to be able to push past my instinct to stop when it starts hurting at a higher level than kinky fun. I want it to hurt enough so that I feel punished. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Need help with self- spanking Author: Patrick [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:20:47 01/27/24 Sat so you need somebody, a good friend or parent to ask, no problem I think [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Need help with self- spanking Author: Annie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:46:18 01/27/24 Sat Actually, that is exactly my problem. I don't have anyone that I could ask. My mom passed over a year ago. My bio-dad lives far away, and I wouldn't trust him to punish me if he was the last man on earth. I love my step-dad very much, but I never knew him until I was an adult, and I think we would both be deeply uncomfortable with me asking him to spank me. And, no, I don't have any friends that I feel I could ask. I suppose I could try to find a reputable professional Dom, but (1) I'm not sure that I have the courage for that, and (2) I'm sure it would be expensive. Hence, the reason I'm exploring ways to make self-spanking more effective. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Need help with self- spanking Author: Patrick [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:37:08 01/27/24 Sat I think that you may change mind about your step-dad or à friend [ Post a Reply to This Message ]