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Subject: Mother in law spanks


Author:
Karin_ven
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Date Posted: 14:04:54 05/27/24 Mon

When did you first hear your boyfriends mother or mother in law say something about spanking ?
I mean a treat or announcement to the younger children in your present.
Or did she mention that she spanked your boyfriend.
Or did she ask if your parents where strict ?

Iam curious if that happend and what your reaction was?
Where you suprised or uncomfortable?
Did you ever witnes a spanking in your in-laws house ?

I hope someone has a good story:)

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Patty (Happy)
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Date Posted: 13:22:55 06/06/24 Thu

I was able to move in with my fiance and mother in law seven months before the wedding in order to get a job and get set up, since I had to relocate from about 150 miles away and we hadn't found a place yet that I could have moved into.
My fiance was mouthy with me at times but I noticed how different he was with his mother. (Just figured it's his mom so that's how it is.) I realized it was more than a couple of times that he was warned or threatened by his mom such as;
You're still under my roof so it's still my rules.
You're not too old for me to take in hand.
If you don't stop there's going to be some painful consequences.
Do we need to have a serious discussion upstairs?
She even said, "My hairbrush is right upstairs young man."
I figured he may have been disciplined growing up but not now!
I heard her on the phone with someone and she mentioned my fiance by name saying if he ever did that he'd be over her knee so fast his head would spin!
I'd heard her talking to my fiance, saying it had been way too long and he was going to get it. I thought it was just talk until she asked if I could go to the store to pick up a few things. I asked if my fiance wanted to go and his mother said she needed him at home for now. So i was really suspicious but did as asked. When I returned my fiance was really different and more quiet.

About a month later after getting a job in the area, my schedule changed and rather than working until about 8PM I was allowed to leave at 6 or so. When I entered my mother in law to be house I knew what I was hearing coming from upstairs. It was definitely a spanking!
I made my way up the steps quietly, they were heavily carpeted so it wasn't an issue. Her bedroom door was open and there was my fiance over his mother's lap, pants and underwear down getting spanked hard. He was squirming and apologizing, promising to do better but his mother kept spanking and scolding her son.
Not sure what to do I decided to speak up, I asked her what he'd done. She was a little startled, stopped for a second then resumed spanking my fiance' while telling me he'd been sarcastic and ended up cursing at her.
My fiance on the other hand was startled out of his skin and tried vigorously to get up, begging and almost ordering his mother to let him up. She had him tight over her lap and he wasn't going anywhere.
She said he'd been needing that for a long time. She stopped, he simmered down, I guess thinking he was getting up but instead his mom asked if I'd get her hairbrush off of the top of the toilet. I went to the bathroom, there was a wooden hairbrush which I brought to her, my fiance was fighting all he could and loudly begging me not to give the brush to his mother. I did as she asked and my mother in law went on to beat my fiance's bare butt until he was in tears and crying like a child. I felt badly and went out shortly after giving her the brush.
He was sent to his room afterward and his mom and I spoke at length about it. She explained how he could be and let me know as of then a sound spanking was the only thing that worked on him and even then it wasn't always a permanent fix. I spoke to my fiance, comforted him, his butt was dark red and torn up! (Really sore looking) I let him know he didn't have to be embarrassed and that it was still his mother's house and rules.
He got a couple more spankings that I knew of while we were there and I don't know if he knew it then but his mom had spanked me once over her lap on my panties. It was just her hand but it hurt.
Our place fell through 2 months before we got married and we had to stay at his mom's for 4 months afterward. He was spanked once and we both were spanked one night when we came home late from drinking and we had drove and we got really pissy with my mother in law. It was definitely her house and rules!
My new husband got mouthy with me once and she threatened him. He apologized sincerely to me but his mother told me I should take the brush to his butt. (And I'm pretty sure she meant it)

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Karin_ven
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Date Posted: 13:57:56 06/06/24 Thu

Hi Patty,

What a great story.
Was spanking a surprise to you or where you raised with spankings to ?
In what time was this happening? Are you stil married to him ?
Do you spank as a mother ?

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Fran1587
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Date Posted: 19:26:33 06/06/24 Thu

I agree with Karin that this was a great story! I'd love to hear more about the spanking your mother-in-law gave you. Why? Where? How? And also about the time she spanked both of you together. How old were you both when this happened? Have you ever taken your mother-in-law's advice and spanked your husband?

Looking forward to hearing more. Thanks.

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Patty
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Date Posted: 09:36:55 06/24/24 Mon

Hi and no I've never spanked my husband. I've been spanked by him. It's not often but I have to admit that when he finally had enough and spanked me he got my attention. Probably every time since that he's given me a spanking I'd have to admit it was deserved and corrected something that needed correcting (at least temporarily if not permanently)
He threatened me once at his mother's so that was the first that she found out that I'd been spanked in our marriage, as far as I knew. She reminded him her brush was upstairs and luckily it wasn't used and I didn't get it while we were there. She obviously had nothing against marital spanking for me. I can share experiences if asked and as time allows me.

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Patty
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Date Posted: 09:39:54 06/24/24 Mon

A reply to you and others is below

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Patty
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Date Posted: 09:35:29 06/20/24 Thu


I've rec'd replies to this post so I'll answer here.
This happened in the early 90's. We were both early 20's.
We're still married. Yes the spanking was a total shock every time but especially when I saw my fiance getting it that first time. There had been multiple threats but I thought they were just that and nothing more.
I was not raised with spanking but it was still around with some of the families I knew. Didn't usually hear too much about it but it definitely existed and was used. I'd had a boyfriend in high school who had me over his lap once for a few smacks, and I'd received a birthday spanking from friends that I felt but nothing serious.

When I was first spanked by my mother in law (to be) was a w/e my fiance had gone away with some of his buddies, it was just guys. I didn't disagree when he told me about it but it rained most of the w/e where I was, I was bored and getting upset with him though it wasn't his fault. I started complaining a little and it increased and got worse as the day wore on. My mother in law made suggestions of things to do, offered me her car to go out etc. but I wasn't accepting any of it.
I have to admit at this point I was being bratty. By late afternoon, early evening I was really a handful and snapped at my mother in law. She scolded me but I snapped back and went off about my fiance which included cursing. That was the last straw and she let me know it.
She grabbed my wrist, (I knew I'd gone too far immediatly) she pulled me into her, bent me at the waist and smacked my butt hard a dozen times or so. She stopped, i apologized thinking okay I screwed up and wouldn't do that again and it wasn't too bad but glad it was over. She ordered me to get my shorts down, I resisted and she said it again but now she started unbuttoning them. She was really angry and you knew not too give her crap at that point. m I was protesting but didn't try to stop her either. She dropped my shorts and told me to step out of them then she took my wrist again. She smacked my butt hard on my panties acouple of times and told me to get upstairs. I went, she followed and told me to get in her room.
For all intensive purposes it was pretty evident what was happening but in my head I hadn't fully accepted that I'd get another spanking. I wanted to believe I was going to be yelled at or lectured or put in my room.
In her room she got the same hairbrush as before from her bureau and said I needed a good dose of it. I freaked remembering when my fiance was getting it. I begged and apologized profusely, backing away but with no where to go unless I jumped onto the bed. She stood there and sternly ordered me to her. It took a few times, I was aware I wasn't talking her out of it and she asked if I wanted her to get her belt offering to give me the whipping of my life. my MIL started counting and for whatever reason the counting caused me to reluctantly go to her. She didn't sit on the bed but put her foot up on the bedrail and told me to get over her leg. I did as told, she pushed me forward so my feet were off the floor, my hands were on the bed and my butt was facing my mother in law or the ceiling. ( Very embarrassing!)

Without a warning she brought the brush down and I involuntarily lurched forward and let out a scream that did nothing to stop her. She brought the brush down again and again all over my butt! I was a kicking crying mess with a very hot and sore rear by the time she stopped. She had been scolding me as she spanked me but none of that was registering. When I was let up I grabbed my butt and couldn't stop rubbing. I was then scolded to my face and told that I got exactly what she thought I'd probably needed for a long time and that was what I'd get in the future if I needed it as her daughter in law. She told me to turn around and she moved my hands from my butt and pulled my panties down in the back.
Turning me to face her she said that would be with me for awhile and warned that if she hears language like that again I'd get my mouth washed out. (I took her threat seriously) She hugged me and told me I needed to go to my room to think and get calmed down. I said I was sorry and this time I meant it then I quickly went to my room panties were still down.

In my room I went onto the bed and cried then processed everything. Checked my butt in the mirror and couldn't believe how red and sore it was. (I really felt sorry for my fiance, he'd gotten it much longer than I did.) Later on I was downstairs, things were back to 'normal' I asked if I could use the car to go to the movies, so I went. I was almost wondering if she was going to say I was grounded or something. But all was forgiven and after we'd talked briefly after I went downstairs nothing more was said. I'd also totally stopped obsessing about my fiance going away and my boredom. (Me, me, me?) I guess it worked because I wasn't upset or anything when he came back which I may have done previously and have done after getting married. I don't think my mil ever said anything to her son about the matter either.
He did hear about it though and actually everyone did to my embarrassment.

It was at a bridal shower his mother gave me for mostly his family because they were all in that area. My mom had one for my side of the family and friends back at home. ( It was women only so my fiance wasn't there)
The living situation came up (Me with my fiance and his mom, I had my own room) My MIL was saying how everything had worked out great, we were able to save the money we were making, we all got along great etc. Someone asked if I was a good houseguest? My MIL said that I was a good house guest and usually very easy to live with and added that she did need to have me across her knee but it was only the one time, saying "the hairbrush really did a good job" and that "I was a quick learner". She mentioned her son saying he was another story and he's still learning. My mom and sisters were present so later on I was asked and had to explain what happened. I didn't give details but had to admit I really got spanked.

This is longer than expected so I'll answer the other questions later.
Patty
PS the night I got spanked, I went to the movies but almost left early because I was so uncomfortable sitting down. I squirmed a lot.

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Karin_ven
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Date Posted: 15:12:47 06/21/24 Fri

Good story.
Looking back, did your mil do the good thing to spank you or was she out of line?
You were never spanked growing up at home, but do you think it would be better if it was done ?
Is spanking stil a part of your relation, or in your life in some way ?
Was that the only spanking you ever got ?

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Patty
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Date Posted: 10:15:13 06/24/24 Mon

I guess my MIL did the right thing but it's weird to admit that. That's how she dealt with certain behavior and she has always treated me like a real daughter so it's understandable why she would treat me like a real daughter when she felt I needed correcting or disciplining.

I don't know if being disciplined growing up would have been better, don't really understand the question. I replied to someone else that I have been spanked after we got married for r/l reasons and I can't argue with them. I offered to write more about that if it was wanted and I had time to write.
No living with her after we married we both got it one night as I wrote and yes after that time as well.
It was very eye opening when you think your all grown up and married and next thing you know your getting spanked.
Looking back I definitely realize how young you still are in your early 20's and I know how cantankerous I could be.
I guess I should admit that I still needed guidance then and I won't argue that I'm a work in progress (Like most of us)
so what I've rec'd from my hubby has usually, if not always,had positive outcomes. I think I answered your questions?

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Fran1587
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Date Posted: 08:19:21 06/22/24 Sat

Thank you for sharing that with us Patty. It sounds like your MIL is definitely a no nonsense disciplinarian and literally subscribes to the "my house, my rules" theory, regardless of age.

It was obvious that you needed that spanking and it certainly brought you back down to earth. The fact that your MIL will not hesitate to spank you in the future should cause you to think before you speak. As embarrassing and painful as a spanking can be at your age, you're very fortunate to have your MIL in your life.

Hope to hear more from you in the future.

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Patty
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Date Posted: 10:22:24 06/24/24 Mon

I won't argue with you on any of that Fran.

You're absolutely right, I do think before I speak or especially lash out if I'm upset.(Usually)
I know I tend to be more cautious, careful and respectful around my MIL even more so than my own mother.
I see how my siblings and I at times can speak harshly or a little disrespectfully to our mom. If our mother ever took a paddle to our bottoms like my MIL did mine I think we'd all behave differently.

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Stephan
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Date Posted: 01:45:11 06/24/24 Mon

Wow, I wish my Mother In Law would give me a good spanking. She has threatened to on several occasions but mostly joking. I would pick on her and she would straight up threaten to pull my pants down and give me a good spanking on my bare butt. She and my wife have both talked about the spankings she used to get growing up, including the last one she gave her at 19. She still threatens to spank her and is not always joking. I have told my wife on a couple of occasions I would love to see that happen. She tells me "I bet you would". The first time "Mom" threatened to pull my pants down and spank me was about six weeks before our wedding. I don't mind saying the thought of getting a spanking from her while my wife is watching or maybe even getting spanked herself, is pretty arousing.

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Karin_ven to Patty
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Date Posted: 23:21:11 06/26/24 Wed

Your mil was a women that believed in Corporal punishment.
She involved you by getting the brush for your fiancée and you did that without any questions.

I think when she grasped your wrist and slapped your behind was the moment for you to protest and refuse the spanking, but you didn’t.
I think it’s very good from you to accept her punishment, your behavier was out of line and you were living in her house.
And you knew how disobedience and bad behavier was dealt with by your mil.

I was wondering if the slaps you got on the spot were painful, did she spank hard?
Did she lead you upstairs by your arm or ear, did she slap on the stairs ?


The position you describe she put you in was over one knee with you banging over her leg with your arms and legs free.
Getting the brush like that must have hurt very very much.
You told that it was embarrasing getting spanked at 20, I got it my last at 24 and as a punishment it worked very good.
Age is no issue, if it hurts like it should.

Was there something said by your mil after your spanking when you came downstairs or the next day?
You must have had difficulty sitting, where there no remarks from her ?

Did she treat with giving a spanking in the months after that incident?


Were there more brothers or sisters living in the house ?
Where there more signs of discipline ?

I wonder what happend when your husband started spanking you, how did that go ?

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