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Subject: Re: Boys who babysat


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Zoe
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Date Posted: 21:13:37 06/04/24 Tue
In reply to: Zoe 's message, "Re: Boys who babysat" on 22:41:37 06/02/24 Sun

I'm pretty sure that I was 10 for that one. Definitely not one of my better moments and I can't really disagree that the spanking was deserved.

I remember it as one of the longer car rides of my life because he told me right away that I would be getting spanked when we got home and I realized pretty quickly that I had really crossed a line.

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Dana
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Date Posted: 22:40:56 06/04/24 Tue

I can appreciate the argument against trying to teach non-violence by using corporal punishment. However, I remember getting a spanking at home for fighting at school, and I wasn't so philosophical about it. I went from thinking I was powerful to the maximum in vulnerability, and there may be times in life where some humility is the answer.

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LauraS
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Date Posted: 02:06:54 06/05/24 Wed

On the face of it the "That will teach you to hit people" seems absurd but I kicked one of the boys when I was losing a fight and I never did again after the hiding I got.

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Rebecca
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Date Posted: 07:54:14 06/05/24 Wed

Children understand the difference between spanking and hitting. Actually any kind of punishment involves treatment which would otherwise be unacceptable. I suppose this is why many modern "experts" now preach no punishment at all, ever.The timeout is out! Ridiculous!

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