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Date Posted: 12:45:31 06/09/24 Sun
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Gary Steven
's message, "Re: Do you think most kids are spanked bare bottom?" on 07:22:20 06/09/24 Sun
You did answer my questions sufficiently and I appreciate you being open to more questions because I certainly have plenty of them. Answer whatever you feel like at your own leisure.
You exclusively spanked your children bare bottom the same as your own mother. Were your reasons for this the same as hers? That being said, you never spanked outside of the family or family friends including sitters it seems. If attitudes toward this type of punishment were still positive, do you think you would have spanked your children publicly in front of strangers? You openly acknowledge that it was very shameful being spanked bare bottom in public and a very important element is you say this was a deliberate part of the punishment your mother inflicted. Did you want to spare your boy and girl that element of humiliation you experienced in your upbringing?
What was the age gap between your two kids? Were they close in age or far apart? How old was your son the last time his sister witnessed him get a spanking? How old was your daughter the last time her brother witnessed her? The last time you spanked them at age 11 and 12 I am assuming they were not private, but you belted your daughter in the kitchen where her brother may well have also been, and while it appears you had no explicit goal to embarrass them you did spank them in front of each other and in front of other people. You no doubt knew this would be very embarrassing for them, but was this in any way a deliberate part of the punishment like what you experienced or more of an unfortunate coincidence for the youngsters? What age was your son when you gave him a bare bottom spanking in front of his friend’s mom? Did you use an implement or was the spanking by hand? Almost a rhetorical question but, did your boy cry as a result of this punishment?
You mentioned you used a belt when your daughter was 11 while I remember your mother tending to use an open hand. Did you most often use an implement like that belt or were you more of a hand spanker?
I’m curious, what had your son done when he was 12 to earn that very last spanking? Was that punishment with a belt or by hand?
A quick break from the questions to quickly compliment you, because I love how you had a heart to heart with your daughter and told her that you did not ever want to spank her but you had no choice and would continue to do so if she gave you no choice. I like that you told her that it would continue to always be bare bottom no matter what, which I’m sure was a major deterrent for her for a reason you openly discussed with her: as she gets older it’s going to be a very embarrassing punishment. With older children like that, I think it’s appropriate to acknowledge the embarrassment factor because once they turn around 10 it becomes naturally embarrassing because they have developed a sense of modesty by then. If you had spanked your daughter completely clothed she likely would have been embarrassed as it’s an embarrassing punishment at the baseline, but enforcing a bare bottom spanking is a very powerful deterrent and makes for a very effective and memorable punishment, being both painful and embarrassing. This increases ten fold if other people are watching, particularly opposite sex witnesses. It leaves no doubt that both what they’ve done and what is now happening as a result is shameful. That being said, it seems spankings for your two kids were most often private affairs. Bottom line is if parents are going to spank they need to look their kids in the eyes and tell them they don’t EVER want to do it but will if they are left with no choice. Kudos to you on that.
Finally, if I still have you, I want to ask about you personally. When you were last spanked at age 15, what exactly had you done that made your mother spank you? Was it with an implement or by hand? Was it private or public? I’m drawn back to that public spanking you described in the store, I believe you were 7 at the time. I have a strong feeling that was not the last time you were given a bare bottom spanking in a public place in front of strangers. Am I wrong? If I’m right, how old were you the last time you experienced that type of punishment? Also, a very harsh element of that punishment was the fate of the two oldest kids. You remembered being embarrassed being spanked in front of those witnesses but I recall you saying the embarrassment the oldest girl must have felt must have been enormous and I completely agree given the context. I also feel especially bad for the oldest boy, as I’m sure as tweens those two kids had developed a significant amount of modesty by then, as your mother was no doubt aware, which was completely disregarded as part of the punishment. For goodness sake you remember the embarrassment you felt and you were just 7. I can’t remember if they were your older brother and sister or older cousins, perhaps one and/or the other, but I do remember the 12 year old girl was named Carmen. The oldest boy (I believe 11 years old) and Carmen had to wait while the 3 younger kids were given over the knee bare bottom spankings by hand, knowing they would soon be getting the exact same very soon, while they watched the crowd of strangers steadily grew, all of whom were going to watch them take down their pants and underwear and submit to a bare bottom hand spanking. Extremely humbling for them I’m sure. Extremely humbling for you all I suppose but most especially Carmen. Despite being the oldest, and a girl, your mother enforced her humiliation in front of over 30 people, and it seems that was no accident. Anyway I digress, because this incident has stuck with me ever since I read your post about it (a post that has disappeared into the void it seems). I really just have one question about it: was Carmen at 12 the oldest child you ever witnessed spanked bare bottom in a public place like that?
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