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Subject: were you spanked as a teen


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Rainy
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Date Posted: 16:37:23 10/04/23 Wed

Were you spanked as a teen. Tell us about why and whether the spankings helped you.

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[> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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JenniAnn
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Date Posted: 00:21:40 10/06/23 Fri

Yes I was spanked bare bottom across both mom's and dad's knees in my teens. I got spanked for breaking curfew, fighting with my sister, misbehaving at school or misbehaving in general. It happened a couple of times that I bullied another girl at school and those times belonged to those few times I felt I really deserved it.
Did they help? No, I felt humiliated, diminished and shame. In my teens I had huge complex for my big bottom and feeling my panties being pulled down was really awful. It have been difficult to have a good relationship with my parents as an adult.
I am sure that the spankings contributed to that I am a spanko today and I am not sorry for that at all but that's the only positive that came out from it. I know many other women have very different experiences.

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[> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Alfred22
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Date Posted: 16:19:25 10/06/23 Fri

I think that they do deter. Spankings really hurt, even our beltline runs in scouts left your bottom sore. But, as for really teaching WHY right actions are right, I don't think they went very far. They did deter wrong actions and that is not to be scoffed at.

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[> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Corrected
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Date Posted: 23:00:44 04/08/24 Mon

Same here, JenniAnn. The few spankings I got as a teen made me feel very shamed and humiliated, and that was mom's and dad's intention. The idea was that if we had done something bad, then we were supposed to be ashamed and feel very bad about it. My parents did not get super weird, but they also did not do much to spare us our dignity.

I hated those experiences, but they made me the spanko I am today.

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[> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Thea
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Date Posted: 11:32:31 10/08/23 Sun

I was spanked once as a teenager. I was in a very dark spot mentally and threatened to hurt myself after a vicious argument with my mother. She was at her wits' end, I suppose, and had my father hold me down while she spanked me with a belt. I didn't repeat the threat, so I suppose it technically worked. I resented the things she said to me more than the spanking. Most of the spankings in our family were given before age ten. I don't think my siblings were ever spanked as teenagers, either.

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[> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Rainy
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Date Posted: 11:50:54 10/09/23 Mon

I at times have very conflicting feelings about spanking which probably happens when a person has a spanking fetish.

Do you think it is appropriate to spank a teen for trying to hurt herself?

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Thea
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Date Posted: 18:21:42 10/09/23 Mon

I don't actually agree with spanking children or teenagers at all, honestly. But, she spanked me because I said it mostly to hurt her, which I didn't make clear in my comment. The spanking I got at age four for drawing on the walls hurt me more, emotionally, than that one. I don't think she should have done it, but I've also already forgiven her for it. I was pushing pretty hard that night.

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[> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Alfred22
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Date Posted: 06:44:08 10/11/23 Wed

In scouts we had to run the beltline gauntlet so my bottom felt spanks as a teen. But it was somewhat consensual since one was in the organization of your own free will.

What do you think of teen spankings that are the punishment of choice by the teen? Or in the cases under discussion here in 243310 or what we might term "young adult" spankings. What made your teen spanking so obviously abusive was the restraint by your father. He is more to blame than his wife, imho.

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Grumpy
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Date Posted: 17:42:28 10/12/23 Thu

I think being spanked as a teen girl is more about being taken down a peg than about the pain. I remember reading of one young woman’s man who complained as she was put over a lap, “mom, I’m in heels and hose!” Which brings up twice questions for the forum’s consideration: 1- is it more embarrassing for you to get spanked when you are all dressed up?; 2- what not to wear for a spanking? A female friend I would play spank said being spanked over nylon panties was more painful than getting it on the bare. And I wonder what it was like in the 1950s when lots of females wore girdles - merely to keep their stockings up as one told me when I asked why they wore those contraptions. Did girdle spankings hurt more?

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[> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Dee
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Date Posted: 02:18:57 10/13/23 Fri

Yes, I was spanked as a teen till 18 and today my teen girls are spanked.

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[> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Uncle Bob
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Date Posted: 16:27:16 03/12/24 Tue

Good for you. Are they spanked bare bottom?

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[> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Dee
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Date Posted: 01:19:50 03/13/24 Wed

Yes all spankings in our house are panties down followed by a lecture and then it is otk for my hairbrush.

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[> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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ts92
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Date Posted: 08:39:45 10/14/23 Sat

Oh yes, my sister and I were both spanked all through our teenage years. Mom did all of the spanking and she always spanked bare, no exceptions. Dad never spanked or witnessed as he did not think it appropriate to see us with our pants down once we were around 12-13.

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veena to ts92
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Date Posted: 16:08:07 11/14/23 Tue

why
my dad spanked me since i was a little girl and he still spanks me
when he spanks me i am without panties

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Luna to veena
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Date Posted: 17:00:54 02/15/24 Thu

And how do you feel about that?

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[> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Michael
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Date Posted: 12:49:00 10/14/23 Sat

My last ever spanking was when I was 13 because I threw sand in my cousin's face. It was an accident and I was so sorry but I was sentenced to humiliation and retribution in the form of a bare bottom handsmacking in front of my cousins, all but one of whom were girls. So I ended up way more sorry. Without a doubt the single most shameful experience of my life. It was painful, but that was nothing compared to the embarrassment I felt being seen naked from the waist down as a teenager who had not hit puberty yet. I wouldn't say the spanking "helped" me, and it wasn't intended to.

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[> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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DisciplinedLife (Thoughtful)
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Date Posted: 20:27:13 11/24/23 Fri

Both of us were spanked well into our teens. They were humbling experiences that helped us realize we needed to make better choices about our Attitudes and Behaviors before leaving home to be successful in Life. The spankings definitely helped us!

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[> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Nick
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Date Posted: 15:45:19 02/14/24 Wed

I was spanked when I was 14 3 or 4 times buy I think mom was dealing with me trying to push boundaries. They helped my behavior for sure because I knew what would happen if I didn't.

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[> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Meg
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Date Posted: 10:07:16 02/15/24 Thu

I leave teenage years behind next week, but i still get them now and then :(

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[> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Nick
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Date Posted: 14:08:17 02/15/24 Thu

I got threatened if I got too bratty by mom asking if I wanted a spanking years after she stopped at 14. I never knew if she would follow thru after saying that.

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Megan
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Date Posted: 15:09:02 02/15/24 Thu

I've learned over the years, my parents never threat.

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[> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Lindsy
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Date Posted: 19:56:20 02/15/24 Thu


Megan, Sorry to hear you still get spanked. Any chance spankings will stop when you turn 20?
In my family/church we weren't adults until 21, and discipline included bare bottom spankings.
So both parents spank you? For me it was my father and step mother. Both of them spanked me and in my teen years often both, with dad hand-spanking me then going over my stepmother's lap or a spoon or brush.
How do you get spanked? Happy to share if you have questions.

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[> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Luna
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Date Posted: 16:55:20 02/15/24 Thu

Yes.
My first spanking, as far as I can remember, was at the age of 6. We are talking about the real spanking, not about several smacks. Since than I was spanked regularly till now (I am 16). Both of my parents spank me, about once a week. All spankings are administered on my bare bottom.
Was it helpful?
Of course. Girls can have a lot of benefits of a regular spankings.

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[> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Louise Vancisic Vancisic
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Date Posted: 13:46:36 02/17/24 Sat

Hi Lina. Does that mean that you get spanked twice a week? Or do your parents alternate? You have found healthy way to alleviate the discomfort and embarrassment that results from a spanking. Are you spanked nude? always or sometimes?

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[> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Peggy
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Date Posted: 19:50:14 02/15/24 Thu


Luna, Thanks for sharing, I know the embarrassment of being spanked as a teen. I noticed you asked others about their emotions during spankings so I'm wondering about yours?
For me, along with the typical fear/shame of being spanked as a teen I also felt cared-for and "taken care of" so after begging "don't spank me" and bawling/kicking I'd end up feeling cleansed, guilt-free and forgiven.
I did resent the whole "panties down" part. At your age I remember feeling way to old for bare bottomed spankings but my parents disagreed.
Once-a-week spankings? OUCH! I got spanked at least once a month- sometimes more and that was plenty to let me know I was a "spanked girl" and could have my panties pulled down for it on any day.
You know that feeling?

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[> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Nick
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Date Posted: 20:46:53 02/15/24 Thu

I may have got 2 or 3 a yr but between that and hearing my siblings get them also, that keep me well behaved. I also could be spanked at any minute if mom decided so

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Luna to Peggy
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Date Posted: 17:19:25 02/16/24 Fri

I have pretty mixed emotions.
I know that my parents take care of me and my discipline, and I am very thankful for that.
After a proper spanking I feel the relief and I am relaxed.
Between us, girls: latter on, when I am in my room in my bed, I usually masturbate.
I also have not a particular problem with full nudity before, during and after spanking, especially when I am spanked by my parents.

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[> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Louise Vancisic Vancisic
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Date Posted: 13:53:45 02/17/24 Sat

Hi Peggy. Thanks for sharing. Your emotions mirrored mine. I always took comfort in my mom's practice of rubbing my back and shoulders as I lay over her lap after a spanking.

During ages 11-14, I was also spanked about once a week. Mostly for issues of responsibility, less so for bad behavior.

How about you?

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[> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Peggy
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Date Posted: 19:31:13 02/19/24 Mon


Thanks for responding - Luna, I'm jealous you aren't much embarrassed being naked, having my panties pulled down was dreadful! My spankings were too embarrassing and painful to get me excited. But when ever I heard or saw someone else get spanked I liked to think about it when I played with myself.
Do you get aroused before/during your spankings or only after?

Louise, like I said I got spanked about once a month - a bit more 313/14 for teen attitude/pushing boundaries. I'm glad your mom comforted you after she spanked. Interesting about "responsibly spankings." Like you didn't actually break a major rule, just didn't live up to expectations?
Were you surprised to get spanked sometimes cuz you didn't think you misbehaved?

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Luna to Peggy
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Date Posted: 19:03:34 02/21/24 Wed

You are not alone, of course. Every girl is aroused when she is naked and her tits, ass and pussy are fully visible and exposed. Before and during spanking I am not so aroused; my nipples are erected but I am usually not wet between the legs; not much, at least. But when I watch another girl spanked, I am very aroused. I am very wet between the legs from the very first moment. When I am spanked I usually wait for several hours, to calm down and relax, and I masturbate late at night, in my bed, covered with a blanket.

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[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Rainy
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Date Posted: 19:24:52 02/21/24 Wed

I am really surprised teens still get spanked. This is done pretty frequently. I thought that by the time, children became teenagers, the parents would find other ways to discipline them.

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Peggy
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Date Posted: 20:12:16 02/21/24 Wed


Luna, It was a tummy-twisting feeling having my panties pulled down to have my bush and buns on display.
Who sees you like that? Who do you get to see spanked like that?

I was just shamed mostly but my nipples would get noticibly stiff which just added to my embarrassment.
Yeah, when ever heard or saw someone get spanked I'd rush to my room and think about their bright red bare bottoms and their crying while I fingered myself frantically.

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Luna to Peggy
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Date Posted: 17:40:07 02/23/24 Fri

I must always to shave myself down there before spanking. My parents don't allow me to have a bush at all.
I was spanked since i was a little girl, so my parents saw me "like that" a lot of times. My little sis also saw me spanked a lot of times and I saw her spanked as well. We are spanked together frequently.
My (female) babysitters spanked me, so they saw me naked. y (female) yoga instructor spanked me, saw me naked etc.
After spankings I usually try to cam down, to relax, and I masturbate latter on, when I am in my bed, in my room ...

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Luna to Peggy
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Date Posted: 17:40:44 02/23/24 Fri

I must always shave myself down there before spanking. My parents don't allow me to have a bush at all.
I was spanked since i was a little girl, so my parents saw me "like that" a lot of times. My little sis also saw me spanked a lot of times and I saw her spanked as well. We are spanked together frequently.
My (female) babysitters spanked me, so they saw me naked. y (female) yoga instructor spanked me, saw me naked etc.
After spankings I usually try to cam down, to relax, and I masturbate latter on, when I am in my bed, in my room ...

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Luna to Peggy
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Date Posted: 18:49:22 02/26/24 Mon

My babysitter usually spanked me over their laps, with hand. My mom ordered me before spanking to take off my panties for myself and to obey my sitters.

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Peggy
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Date Posted: 19:07:33 02/25/24 Sun


Opposite for me, I wasn't allowed to shave or even trim my pubes. So I looked like a teen until I was bawling MOMMY! STOPPP spanking me !

How did it go when your babysitters spanked you? I hated being spanked in front of sitters. Especially girls from our church.

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Uncle Bob
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Date Posted: 16:38:05 03/12/24 Tue

Hello, Peggy -- thank you for your honesty. We spank both our girls (14 and 17) bare bottom in the den, including if we have trusted guests. And one rule is that if there is a lot of fussing about what "they can see" or "please can't I keep my panties up, cause so and so is here", it results in removing all their clothing and adding corner time as well. How undressed were you for your spankings, esp if you had guests there, and til what age?
We are trying to gauge how to deal with our oldest's modesty now, so I appreciate the help!

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[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Peggy
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Date Posted: 21:15:27 03/12/24 Tue


Bob,

My sister and I had to get down to panties and bra and were always spanked bare below the waist and sometimes naked. We got spanked until we turned 18.
My parents didn't care when we begged to keep our panties/bra on and if it was just my parents/sister I usually didn't bother.
But OMG bare/nude spankings in front o any relative or church friends always made me plead for my modesty! I'd be in the corner in bra and panties and hear people behind me waiting to see me get spanked.
It was awful turning around to face everyone and I'd start crying please no not in front of everybody! Don't let them see ME! I could see people smiling at me knowing my panties were coming down to expose my bush and buns (sometimes boobs too!).

Anyone your girls especially hate watching them get spanked naked? Like I said, being spanked in front of my babysitters was humiliating. Even at 13/14 I could get spanked in front of a girl sitter from our church who was not much older than me but got to sit there and see me half or all naked being spanked to howling and hopping.

Share a recent spanking your girl(s) got? Ask me about mine.

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Date Posted: 03:49:19 04/10/24 Wed

That's the one thing I would fault my mother for -- that she didn't comfort me after a spanking. She just let me up and left me to myself. It might have helped me to process my experience as something I could feel good about at the time if she'd given me some aftercare. Instead I only hated spankings until after I was no longer getting them.

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stripey7 (Envious)
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Date Posted: 06:27:57 04/10/24 Wed

Wow, that's exactly the feeling I'd love to have in a relationship, day in and day out. Knowing I can get it at any moment if I don't behave myself.

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[> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Dee
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Date Posted: 03:05:59 03/13/24 Wed

yes and spanking teens was quite common when I was growing
up.

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Nick to dee
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Date Posted: 09:51:17 03/13/24 Wed

What yrs would that have been, 1987 I would have been 14 and still being spanked.

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Diana to Peggy, Dee and Nick
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Date Posted: 19:06:54 03/13/24 Wed

There is a rule in our house: "no bra at home". So I don't care about wearing bra during spanking at all. There is no bra! When I and my little sis should be spanked, we must remove all our clothes from waist down for ourselves. We also must lift our t.shirts, so our boobs are exposed. Yes, it can be embarrassing especially if older males or younger boys witnessed our spanking. I must admit that I understand Luna's question: why should girl's boobs have to be visible, exposed? Our asses and pussies are visible and exposed anyway. I am 16 and my sis is 13 and i am not "delighted" when boys at the age of 11, 12 ... see my intimate parts.

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Dee
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Date Posted: 01:46:16 03/14/24 Thu

House rule here is all spankings are bare bottom but only family allowed to see no outsiders.

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Diana to Dee
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Date Posted: 19:24:26 03/16/24 Sat

You lucky girl.

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Beth
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Date Posted: 10:00:58 03/16/24 Sat

I came close when I was 16 for lying about being in school. How told me in front of my friend turn around and bend over. I said why. He said I want to give you a old fashioned bare bottom spanking for lying. I said I was tool old and my friend was there. Then he said report back in 30 minutes with a punishment infect was appropriate. So I said grounded, loss of car and I have to earn my trust. So he agreed. Looking back I should have accepted the spanking.

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Katie
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Date Posted: 11:49:30 04/08/24 Mon

Myself and my 2 sisters were spanked well into our teens with my last one being at 17. My mother was the primary disciplinarian in our house which was kind of a bad thing. Being spanked by my dad was embarrassing but his hand was not near as bad as my mother's big hairbrush.

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Deb
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Date Posted: 02:12:26 04/09/24 Tue

Teen spanking is embarrassing and yet it is still used until age 18. Have 16 and 14 and the get spankings still.

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Katie
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Date Posted: 12:40:01 04/09/24 Tue

Yes, they were very embarrassing but if you were spanked all growing up I would assume they are much more bearable.
My two sisters are also 14 and 16 and they are still spanked. The 14 year old was spanked a few days ago.

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Deb
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Date Posted: 02:28:29 04/11/24 Thu

Yes it is embarrassing to get spanked as a teen. Both of mine hate when I pull their panties down.

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Date Posted: 21:24:34 04/08/24 Mon

My last spanking at home I was 15. I was getting rebellious and wanting to be cool with my friends. They were also rebellious. One day I was caught for very bad behavior. The spanking made me humble and realizing my parents were in charge. It was horribly embarrassing.

Spankings had that effect, but when they stopped, I had really not learned my lessons. I was a bad boy until I became an adult. Maybe if spankings had continued it would be a different story.

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stripey7 (Curious)
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Date Posted: 14:16:11 04/11/24 Thu

What do you think is the reason you stayed bad until you became an adult? The need for a job and the loss of social standing if you couldn't keep it?

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Date Posted: 23:25:45 04/11/24 Thu

Immaturity. As I said, being cool with my friends was my priority, and I hung around with rebellious types. Spanking was a real fear because it was so uncool. I guess it was ironic that the most effective punishment for me was a spanking, and after a certain age, I was considered too old for it.

Around the age of 19 or so, I suddenly grew up, realized I had been stupid for years, and became much more responsible. Those earlier years might have been far more productive, but that's water under the bridge.

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stripey7
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Date Posted: 07:18:24 04/12/24 Fri

But you don't think having to start earning a living had anything to do with it?

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Corrected
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Date Posted: 17:28:48 04/12/24 Fri

Not earning a living, but I became much more devoted to my career aspirations. In fact, I quit my job to pursue them. My employment after high school paid well, but did not inspire good behavior.

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stripey7 (Sad)
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Date Posted: 20:24:04 04/09/24 Tue

No, they stopped when I was eight and I wasn't happy about it.

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Vicky
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Date Posted: 08:03:20 04/22/24 Mon

Yes, for most of us they didn't happen very often but when there was one it was a big deal for sure.

I was the youngest of four, I have two sisters and 1 brother. I was kind of in my prime spanking years (7-8) when the older ones were in their mid teens and if one of them were getting it I was giddy with excitement.

There was one stretch where my brother was struggling with school and learning to drive and he had a stretch where he got 3 of them in like a 6 or 7 month period.

Teen spankings of my sisters were more infrequent but they all got it every once in a while. Somehow the longer one of them had gone without one, the bigger deal it was when they were getting it.

By the time I was a teen I had a real good idea on what gets teens spanked, and I vowed I wouldn't do any of the things they had done.

Wrong, I slipped up a few times and driving was my downfall as it had been for my brother. I got nailed for a speeding ticket going through a school zone and I hadn't noticed the speed change. The darn school was out in the country (middle of nowhere) and I just kept going along at 55 mph.

When I saw the police flashers I said I'm not doing anything wrong to my girlfriend.

Vicky you are in a school zone there was a 30 mph sign back there.

Noooooo! then I cursed a bit as I thought back to my brother's spankings of the past knowing I was about to experience one of my own.

I told mom I hadn't noticed the sign, that didn't help me at all. She said I was irresponsible for not paying attention, and not paying attention causes accidents, unsafe driving etc, etc. etc.

She took my panties down and I got it with hand and bath brush. Geez that brush used to burn, and I'd always end up scratching after and that would just irritate things further.

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Date Posted: 14:10:15 04/22/24 Mon

Yes, my sister and I were both spanked well into out teenage years. I vividly remember my last spanking, I'm just a bit unsure of which year it was. It was about 4 months before my 18th birthday, but it might have been my 19th birthday. I know my sister was spanked more than once after she turned 18. Many of the parents from our small church believed that spanking of girls was not only acceptable, but beneficial. Boys were not spanked once they hit about 11 or 12 years old. Our mom did all of the spanking in our family, and she always spanked bare- no exceptions.

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Date Posted: 15:23:48 04/22/24 Mon

I am spanked as a teen. I'm 16 and I get it with dad's paddle in our den. Bare!!!

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Date Posted: 16:24:48 04/22/24 Mon

Allison:

I hope he is fair about it and you don't get it too often. In my case I was talking about 30 + years ago. I didn't get it a lot as a teen but I did find them tough on the ego for sure.

When it happened to my older siblings though well, I hate to say I liked it but I kind of did at least initially. When the spanking was over then I'd feel for them more.

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Date Posted: 06:50:54 04/23/24 Tue

Hi Vicky,
My parents are very fair. I might not say this right at the moment but truth be told I have never gotten a spanking I didn't earn. It's very embarrassing and shameful at 16 mainly because I should know better than to be doing things that will get me paddled. I still slip up. I have no siblings, just myself, mom and dad.

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Date Posted: 07:30:34 04/24/24 Wed

Allison:

It is embarrassing and shameful for sure and the last ones you get seem the worst so far as that goes.

I'm not sure why exactly. Perhaps it is that at 16, 17 or whatever there is more of a disbelief that it is going to happen again. I know I told myself at 15, 16, 17 after each spanking that that was going to be the last one and I really convinced myself that my spanking days were over.

Then inevitably you slip up and are in disbelief that you are going to be stripped and reduced to a crying little baby, it is really humbling and shameful for sure.

I had siblings but being the youngest the ones I received as an older teen weren't witnessed by my siblings at least.

I can't imagine what it must have been like for my older siblings having three others watching the whole thing. I got a real charge if one of the elder ones was getting it and at times I was kind of in disbelief as in my mind I'd sometimes thought there bottoms up days were behind them. My eldest sister got one at 17 and she hadn't been spanked for almost a full 2 years, it was a complete shocker.

Kind of an OMG I can't believe they are getting it and they were likely thinking the same and I think that shock factor makes it really shameful and embarrassing.

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Date Posted: 09:08:50 04/24/24 Wed

Allison:

My eldest sister was the best behaved of the four of us and when she got it at 17 I had just turned 9. My brother would have been 15 at that time and my other sister would have been 14. My parents have admitted that I was an accident they weren't planning on a 4th child.

I witnessed a lot of spankings and when I was younger mine were witnessed as well. I kind of thought it was really unfair cause when I was 6, 7, and 8 I received a lot of spankings whereas my older siblings didn't get it nearly as much especially my two sisters.

So I was kind of excited when any of of them were getting it. That is kind of mean to say I guess, my emotions would change as the spanking progressed I'd start to feel sorry for them then after it was over I'd have a weird mix of emotions I'd be replaying it in my mind and I sort of felt some guilt for having enjoyed it.

So the time my sister got it after 2 years I was like OMG I can't believe this is happening. She got caught lying about her whereabouts she was out with a boy that my parents didn't approve of and she'd told mom she was studying at the library. I was kind of giddy with excitement and she was so whiny about it, mom I'm too old, mom I can't believe this. My 9 year old brain was thinking Bianca you are so overdue for one, spank her mommy, spank her good. Mean of me I guess but it was exciting to me when the older ones got it.

My brother got it often enough he always got 2-4 a year through his teen years and I as an 8 or 9 year old was getting them pretty much monthly.

My younger sister didn't get that many as a teen but she got it more than my eldest sister but less than my brother.

If one of my siblings was getting it, I kind of liked the drama, when they showed a lot of embarrassment. Kind of mean but that is how I felt. Of course when it was me on the receiving end I hated it.

I think we all reacted differently to them, Bianca my eldest sister wasn't accepting at all, she'd try to argue, barter, whine complain. My brother was probably the most accepting but he sure got embarrassed when his undies were taken down. My younger sister was in between, depended on what she had done she was sometimes accepting and other times she'd argue, I was probably most like that myself.

Hope you keep your bottom out of harms way, Allison though it sounds unlikely, good luck.

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Date Posted: 09:43:15 04/24/24 Wed

Hi Vicky; you said: Bianca you are so overdue for one, spank her mommy, spank her good." And is that what happened? Did your mom spank over the knee on the bare? How did Bianca react during the spanking? Did you get your wish?

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Date Posted: 10:02:05 04/24/24 Wed

Intrigued:

That was what I was thinking I didn't say anything. Oh yeah mom took a bath brush to Bianca's fully developed heinie and all her arguing and shocked reaction just led to a more vigorous and as a viewer I'd say more satisfying spanking.

Her big bottom was very red all over and she was crying like a baby, I quite liked it at the time but felt a bit guilty about it afterwords.

But that one really stuck in my mind, some other ones do as well, but I still think of that one with a smile.

She got a reminder that nobody was above a bare bottom spanking, I kind of felt she was due for a humbling and she definitely got one that day.

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Date Posted: 10:53:13 04/24/24 Wed

It sounds like to delight in it to some extent even now! It happened many years ago but could you provide some details about what happened in the minutes leading up to it? The conversation between her and your mom? Did you all just happen to be in the same room at that time by coincidence? Did your mom have the brush out and ready or did the need for a spanking only become evident during the course of the conversation?

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Date Posted: 10:55:36 04/24/24 Wed

Meant: "It sounds like you delight in it....."

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Date Posted: 12:39:57 04/24/24 Wed

She got caught by a neighbor that knew mom, out with this boy at a restaurant. Bianca didn't notice the neighbor at the restaurant but the neighbor told mom she saw Bianca with this boy I can't recall his name??.

Mom had a fit because she didn't like him or his parents and she had been lied to cause Bianca said she was off to the library to get some schoolwork done with a friend.

So we all knew she was going to roast Bianca's bottom upon her return. Me and my sister in particular were definitely in delight about it.

Bianca when confronted was at first in shocked disbelief, then she started arguing claiming she was too old, it's not fair she's 17. To me it kind of made it more fun she acted like such a juvenile about it so when her panties came down and mom got her over her lap and got that bath brush going, let's just say Bianca gave us quite an animated display. She was trying to wiggle around quite a bit at first then eventually she broke down and wailed like a baby.

Sorry, I still am taking some delight in it. She didn't mess up very often and it was fun seeing that big bottom of hers getting lit up.

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Date Posted: 13:00:46 04/24/24 Wed

Interesting story -- especially being caught be the neighbor lol. Did the neighbor she got a good spanking? Was your mom a fast spanker or more deliberate? How did she tell Bianca she would be spanked? The words/phrases used?

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Date Posted: 13:20:53 04/24/24 Wed

Too long ago, I definitely don't remember phrases. I do remember the pained look on her face when she was told she was going to be spanked. She had mom really upset as she wasn't cooperating very well, so I remember there was no easing into it, she had to be hand spanked several times and threatened with a more serious spanking just for mom to get her panties down. Once she did it started out really fast and hard and Bianca was thrashing around, it was like she'd forgotten how much spankings hurt and she got herself a sizzler with all her arguing.

I'm sure we all look ridiculous during a spanking but she'd try to wiggle around then at one point she opened her legs up. We saw everything, and that was one big red bottom by the end of it. I was kind of in awe of the spanking itself. Of course I got a few that rivalled it recalling her's is a lot more fun to talk about.

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Date Posted: 13:52:10 04/24/24 Wed

Bianca was still standing or over her lap when Bianca's panties finally came down? Was she otk trying to hold them up and your mom trying to take them down or do I have that wrong? We need to hear one of your younger sister next.

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Date Posted: 15:15:32 04/24/24 Wed

She was standing and trying to hold them up, or she'd try to back up and step away from mom when she went to take them down. Mom smacked her on the panties a few time then threatened her with a much worse spanking if she didn't submit.

She did submit but not without some whining about it being not fair. She was usually so together and mature until she was told she was getting a spanking, then she'd get all juvenile and babylike.

She didn't get very many so I guess it was more of a shock to her when she did.

I need a break from this maybe tomorrow for Emily. Bianca's at 17 was probably my favorite, there are a couple of my brother's that were pretty good too, Emily's somehow don't seem as memorable to me.

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Date Posted: 21:21:43 04/25/24 Thu


Vicky

Def super dramatic to see teens bared and spanked. And super shameful for them to get spankings in front of people.
Did you or your siblings ever plead not to be spanked in front of each other? Your oldest sis at 17 must have been in a panic - resisting being bared even. Maybe even more because ya'll were there watching?

My younger brother Jeff and I were never spanked but we spent summers with our aunt and she was quick to spank her son and daughter and didn't care if we watched their spankings. But they sure cared!
I remember being 12 and very excited to see my 13-yr-old cousin Bill or 15-yr-old cousin Beth get spanked.

Like you said, the expressions on their faces when told to take their pants off off for a spanking was amazing. Seeing Bill turn from "tough guy" to blushing pleading little boy, or "Cool teen Beth" gasping, eyes wide in horror, reaching back to cover her bottom was delightful to me!
And my brother, as we both knew Bill and/or Beth were going to be bared and spanked right in front of us!

I didn't feel guilty but I had symphathy seeing them completely crushed, obviously mortified with us there to see them spanked. Red faces frowning, both of them would beg their mom "not in front of everybody! PLEASE MOM! Don't let THEM watch!"
They realized Jeff and I were excited to see their underpants and panties come down. Me seeing Bill's cute little weener and my 10-yr-old brother getting an eyeful of Beth's teenaged bush!
Did your older sister's body look different than when spanked two years before?

Just like you said, it was amazing to see our older cousins (who treated us like kids) instantly become weeping/pleading children, just a bad boy/girl scared of a humiliating bare bottomed spanking front of their younger cousins.
And of course all the kicking screeching squirming bawling bucking while spanked. From MOM NO! To MOMMY PLEASE STOPPP to MAMA! I'm sorryyy MAMA!"

So exciting! Any other family ever see ya'll get spanked?

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Date Posted: 08:03:05 04/26/24 Fri

Lisa:

As one witnessing it is exciting for sure and as you say if you are the spankee it is mortifying.

I think what made Bianca's extra memorable was we all thought her spanking days were over as it had been about 2 yeaars since her last one, and she was kind of a "Miss Perfect". Being the eldest at times she was left in charge of the rest of us so to me she was kind of like half a 3rd parent and at other times a sister.

She was kind of above us, so her being reduced to a little baby seemed extra satisfying to me, and I'm sure it was super humbling and mortifying to her.

Even though Bianca got the fewest of the 4 of us, she would do the most pleading to not be spanked in front of others. My brother Tim was stoic and quiet about it he was usually upset with himself and he was pretty compliant about the whole process. That is not to say he wasn't embarrassed, he was for sure he'd get very red when his undies were getting taken down, but he was quiet about it but you could see the misery in his face.

Emily and I would sometimes argue more that it wasn't fair and we shouldn't be spanked which of course got us nowhere. At times we'd try to minimize what we'd done and claim it wasn't that big a deal we shouldn't get spanked.

Yes, at times there were friends or cousins at the house and that just meant a bigger audience for the spankee(s). And there would be more pleading especially from us girls when that occurred.

We had one set of cousins that got it as well (2 boys and 1 girl) the girl was the middle child and she and her younger brother got quite a few for arguing and fighting.

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Date Posted: 20:41:25 04/25/24 Thu


Yeah, Always so dramatic watching and older teen sibling spanked. I was fascinated at the spectacle of a 16 year old bared and bawling like a baby but also filled with dread realizing I could also be spanked when I was that age!

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Date Posted: 08:27:48 04/24/24 Wed

Dear Vicky,

I agree with you. The older I get the more shameful and embarrassing it is. I also agree thank God I have no brothers or sisters in the room watching dad paddling my bare. I think that would just be shameful over the top. It's terrible enough with mom and dad. The worst part for me is hearing dad saying "Allison, I need you to remove your skirt / jeans and step out of your panties." Tears are already flowing at that point. How did you feel when your older sister was going to get it after a full two years? I wish I could go that long.

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Date Posted: 09:13:07 04/24/24 Wed

My response went up above a couple entries, sorry.

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Date Posted: 11:31:35 04/24/24 Wed

I found your posts above. Interesting that you referred to your older sisters fully developed bottom. I am sensitive about my own plump full buttocks getting paddled on the bare. Just a week ago at school I heard to boys behind me and something to the effect of "Look at that ass, yes nice." I know it was me because there were no other girls around. Imagine them knowing that Allison gets that nice plump ass blistered bare with her daddy's paddle when she messes up. OMG nightmare!!!

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Date Posted: 12:26:03 04/24/24 Wed

I missed out on the well developed bottom so I wasn't overly sensitive Bianca led the way in wide hips and a plump butt and at 17 she really didn't want the exposure. Poor girl but she did lie and mislead mom and that was what happened when you get caught.

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Date Posted: 13:06:37 04/24/24 Wed

Lying is looked down upon in this house. My hips are kinda wide and I have a full plump buttocks. I can also feel my bottom cheeks "dance" as dad applies the paddle. A lie here would get me the same consequences as your sister except in my case it's dad who does the honors. Were you or sisters ever spanked bare by dad?

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Date Posted: 13:40:54 04/24/24 Wed

Allison:

Mom gave the majority of the spankings but Dad gave a few as well. Dad was actually gentler, he'd give handspankings first, then some with a bathbrush or belt but it only really happened when mom wasn't around. If they were both there, mom was the spanker.

Me and my younger sister both got it from Daddy for arguing/bickering when I was about 7 and sister was about 12. Being only 7 I got a handspanking only but Emily got both hand and bathbrush and she was none too happy with me cause it really was more my fault than hers. But Daddy was kind of sick of listening to the 2 of us, so he spanked both of us and she got it worse that day cause of her age.

My brother got the belt from him one time too for being disrespectful. I can't remember what he said but it was ignorant and Daddy made an example of him. He was about 12 so I would have been about 6. For a daddy spanking it was severe, my brother watched his mouth for quite a long while after that one.

So many spankings, some of them I remember pretty well, others are hazy.

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Date Posted: 14:36:13 04/24/24 Wed

I guess when you have siblings arguments will happen. How did your daddy spank? Did you have to take anything off. If so at 7 you probably didn't worry about being undressed in front of dad. At 12 sis probably was. You were more concerned about the spanking right?

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Date Posted: 15:16:51 04/24/24 Wed

It's bad enough having to undress from the waist down. I don't have much up top and I am sensitive about that as well. Most of my tops are short so when I do get it once I'm undressed my whole bottom is on display. Nothing in the way. I face the wall and dad has me spread my feet some with both palms flat on the wall. He also paddles slow so that each swat really burns and lasts. If I were getting it fully nude I would absolutely DIE!!!!!
I got spanked at bath times a few times but I was like 5-7. Like you said being naked at that age was not my main concern. Dad's hand on my wet bottom was. God did that ever burn.

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Date Posted: 15:03:06 04/24/24 Wed

Allison:

We got bared by whichever parent was doing the spanking, generally mom but in this case dad. When I say bared I'm talking from the waist down. Now if in a one piece swimsuit or if we had on a really long bulky sweater or something that was going to get in the way of the spanking it was removed too but there weren't many of those, happened to my brother several times with the bulky sweaters and Emily too a couple of times.

So our spankings were bare bottom over the knee at 7 I didn't care much about the nudity I was definitely more concerned about the spanking. If the belt was used we'd bend over the arm of the couch. Bathbrush was more common and that was over the knee.

I think when you are younger the nudity isn't that big a deal but once you hit puberty well, I think we all had some things we were self-counscious about. Bianca thought her butt was too big, my brother would get red in the face cause he'd usually have a boner when his undies were taken down and he was embarrassed by it you could tell, it was obvious in his facial expression. Emily I don't know she never really said but she didn't have much of a chest so she was more red in the face if a sweater was taken off cause she didn't bother much with bras particularly when she was younger so she got it completely nude a couple times at least.

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Date Posted: 15:43:40 04/24/24 Wed

Hi Vicky,
I'm Devon, 12 and I have an older sister Jenna 15. We both get spanked with dad's paddle in our room face down on the bed. Usually nude from waist down but can also be fully nude. Last week Jenna was getting it for trouble at school. As I exited the bathroom after my shower I noticed Jenna's door wasn't completely closed. Her spanking was happening and I stopped and peeked in through the door opening. She was face down and fully nude. I noticed her bottom rippled every time dad landed the paddle. I got super turned on watching this. I stayed until dad finished. Jenna was really bawling. I love my sister and felt bad because I know how much that paddle burns. However watching that really turned me on and I can't stop thinking about it. You said you sometimes enjoyed watching your older sisters get it. I feel guilty. Was watching Jenna getting spanked wrong? BTW she nor my parents know I saw anything.

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Date Posted: 16:27:47 04/24/24 Wed

Devon:

I didn't feel guilty for watching, spankings in our house were public, siblings saw their brother or sister or multiples get spanked that is how it was.

I think I felt guilt over taking delight in their misery. After a spanking I'd usually feel more sympathy for them and that is when I'd kind of feel guilty for enjoying the lead up and beginning - middle parts of the spanking itself.

I wasn't alone in that I don't think, if any one of us was getting a spanking and it became known that Emily, Bianca, Tim or myself was getting it the other siblings were a-buzz with excitement and a lot of smiles and OMG's I can't believe they're getting it.

As to whether it was wrong to watch your sister get it? I don't know I think it is natural if one has the opportunity to get a chance to see it I think 90% of people are going to peek at a minimum.

If you know you aren't supposed to be looking and it isn't permitted then that is wrong as it goes against your parents wishes. Your dad kind of messed up though by leaving the door partially open.

I think it is natural though to get turned on seeing it. I definitely did whether it was my brother or one of my sisters and I'm pretty sure they'd say the same. I think some of the guilt kicks in there because you think I shouldn't get turned on it's my brother or sister or whatever, but that is how it goes.

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Date Posted: 16:59:35 04/24/24 Wed

Vicky,
Thanks for responding and so quick. Our parents usually close our door. They want us to hear but not necessarily see. They feel that by just hearing both siblings learn the lesson. Jenna was caught smoking with a friend at school. Dad's mother passed from Lung Cancer, she smoked her whole life. So you can imagine when Jenna got caught, she was in big trouble.

I did feel more guilty after it was over. I have never seen a girl nude before, not real life anyway. So yeah I was excited especially watching her bottom reacting to the paddle swats. Dad was laying it on pretty hard too. I'm Jenna will never smoke again. So you got turned on too. Even with your sisters. Did your brother get turned on if one of you girls was getting it? So your parents allowed you to watch.

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Date Posted: 18:02:05 04/24/24 Wed

Devon:

My parents thought it was good for spankings to be both seen and heard. They thought it served as a detterrant for all 4 of us. They also thought that embarrassment was part of the punishment so if the spankee(s) were embarrassed due to the exposure so much the better.

I was young when they got most of theirs given our age difference, but yes I was turned on at 9 10 and 11 for sure, more so if it was my brother getting it, but yes I liked it when my sisters got it as well.

I'm guessing my brother got turned on as well but it was not something we ever talked about. I know that after a spanking we often all went to our rooms after for some alone time and I caught my elder sisters masturbating on a couple different occasions after seeing my brother get it. I think that alone time after someone got spanked was really masturbation time for the others, myself included.

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Date Posted: 06:25:10 04/25/24 Thu

Vicky,
I didn't want to come out and admit this but that's exactly what I did when dad finished with Jenna the other night and I went back to my room. I have also done it several times since replaying the spanking back in my mind.

I had a close call. Later that night I saw Jenna and told her I was sorry that she got spanked. I slipped up and also said boy dad really laid it on hard too. jenna looked at me and said how do you know how hard dad spanked me. OMG I thought I was caught then I thought quickly and said Jenna I could hear the paddle sounds and you coming from within your room. She just sighed and said yes dad really paddled me hard. She also promised she would never touch anything you smoke again.
We don't talk about our spankings with each other either.

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Russ to Vicky
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Date Posted: 12:47:22 04/25/24 Thu

Before the age of ten, we were spanked in the family room where anyone could see if they wanted to. After the age of ten til as old as 16, we got taken out to the side of the garage for a spanking. We would have to get bare below the waist, and dad would march the sorry one outside for his punishment. Luckily, it only happened a few times to me. I'm not sure who saw what when I had to take the march of shame, but one time, we had an older girl than me living in our house who could have seen everything if she wanted to. You can imagine I was embarrassed beyond words, but I was too overwhelmed to think about anything but the trouble I was in. I've always wondered what she might have seen. Could she have watched the whole spectacle and liked it? Could she have gone to her bedroom and masturbated after seeing a bare boy marched out to have his bottom burned?

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Date Posted: 13:00:44 04/25/24 Thu

Hi Russ,
Maybe you read where I just saw my older sister Jenns getting it in her room. I can't get over what I saw. I have masturbated several times now playing it over and over. Do you have any contact with that girl now?

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Date Posted: 10:55:53 04/28/24 Sun

Hey, Devon. The girl who was staying with us was there because she had a big personal issue she was dealing with and my parents were providing her with a safe place to get through her difficulties. She also helped my mom take care of us kids, especially my younger brothers. She was nice, and I liked her a lot. Whatever she heard and saw that day, I think she did not want to embarrass me more by talking about it. When she was ready, she went back to her home to another state. Our families keep in touch, but I have no contact with her directly. I'm curious to know what she remembers, but I was always too embarrassed to ask her about it.

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Date Posted: 13:31:13 04/28/24 Sun

If I were in your shoes the not knowing what she heard/saw would be something I would really want to know about. How long ago was this? If your families are still in contact I suppose you could track her down. I think I would just point blank ask.

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Date Posted: 08:48:16 04/27/24 Sat

Teen spankings still happen in our house for 16 and 14. Bare bottom and In their room and door left open to family only allowed to see.

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Date Posted: 07:53:38 04/28/24 Sun

May I ask exactly how they are carried out? How are you undressed? What is used for the spanking? Position?

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Dee
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Date Posted: 02:16:13 04/30/24 Tue

OTK, pants and panties pulled down and a hairbrush used.

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Robert to Dee
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Date Posted: 06:37:57 04/30/24 Tue

Was it mom, dad, both? Your last was at what age?

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Date Posted: 09:14:45 04/30/24 Tue

I think I misunderstood. I went back and read your initial post. So you are the mom with 16 and 14-year-old girls. So my question now is does dad spank as well? Disregard my post above this one. Are the girls embarrassed when spanked by dad?

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Date Posted: 02:23:53 05/01/24 Wed

Yes they are embarrassed being spanked by dad or by me.

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Date Posted: 11:18:25 04/30/24 Tue

So I see you have two teenagers who receive hairbrush spankings on their bare bottoms. I was raised like this too. What bad behavior have you had to deal with, and do you get good results as far as lessons learned and improved behavior?

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Date Posted: 02:27:15 05/01/24 Wed

Attitude, sass and backtalk are 3 that get you OTK in our house and yes the number of spankings for those issues has gone down.

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Date Posted: 05:48:24 05/01/24 Wed

My three daughters are also spanked the most for back talk, sass and attitude. Spankings have decreased also for those issues. I have never had trouble with my sons with sass and back talk. Attitude they are spanked just like their sisters for that. OTK with paddle on their bare bottoms.
Between the 3 girls, they average about one spanking a month now for sass and backtalk, which is down from 2 or 3 a month.

How often do you still spank for sass and back talk?

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Date Posted: 02:11:41 05/02/24 Thu

Sass and backtalk spankings have fallen off to mostly once a month here as well twice a month for youngest happens sometimes.

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