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Subject: were you spanked as a teen


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Rainy
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Date Posted: 16:37:23 10/04/23 Wed

Were you spanked as a teen. Tell us about why and whether the spankings helped you.

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[> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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JenniAnn
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Date Posted: 00:21:40 10/06/23 Fri

Yes I was spanked bare bottom across both mom's and dad's knees in my teens. I got spanked for breaking curfew, fighting with my sister, misbehaving at school or misbehaving in general. It happened a couple of times that I bullied another girl at school and those times belonged to those few times I felt I really deserved it.
Did they help? No, I felt humiliated, diminished and shame. In my teens I had huge complex for my big bottom and feeling my panties being pulled down was really awful. It have been difficult to have a good relationship with my parents as an adult.
I am sure that the spankings contributed to that I am a spanko today and I am not sorry for that at all but that's the only positive that came out from it. I know many other women have very different experiences.

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[> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Alfred22
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Date Posted: 16:19:25 10/06/23 Fri

I think that they do deter. Spankings really hurt, even our beltline runs in scouts left your bottom sore. But, as for really teaching WHY right actions are right, I don't think they went very far. They did deter wrong actions and that is not to be scoffed at.

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[> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Thea
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Date Posted: 11:32:31 10/08/23 Sun

I was spanked once as a teenager. I was in a very dark spot mentally and threatened to hurt myself after a vicious argument with my mother. She was at her wits' end, I suppose, and had my father hold me down while she spanked me with a belt. I didn't repeat the threat, so I suppose it technically worked. I resented the things she said to me more than the spanking. Most of the spankings in our family were given before age ten. I don't think my siblings were ever spanked as teenagers, either.

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[> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Rainy
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Date Posted: 11:50:54 10/09/23 Mon

I at times have very conflicting feelings about spanking which probably happens when a person has a spanking fetish.

Do you think it is appropriate to spank a teen for trying to hurt herself?

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Thea
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Date Posted: 18:21:42 10/09/23 Mon

I don't actually agree with spanking children or teenagers at all, honestly. But, she spanked me because I said it mostly to hurt her, which I didn't make clear in my comment. The spanking I got at age four for drawing on the walls hurt me more, emotionally, than that one. I don't think she should have done it, but I've also already forgiven her for it. I was pushing pretty hard that night.

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[> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Alfred22
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Date Posted: 06:44:08 10/11/23 Wed

In scouts we had to run the beltline gauntlet so my bottom felt spanks as a teen. But it was somewhat consensual since one was in the organization of your own free will.

What do you think of teen spankings that are the punishment of choice by the teen? Or in the cases under discussion here in 243310 or what we might term "young adult" spankings. What made your teen spanking so obviously abusive was the restraint by your father. He is more to blame than his wife, imho.

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Grumpy
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Date Posted: 17:42:28 10/12/23 Thu

I think being spanked as a teen girl is more about being taken down a peg than about the pain. I remember reading of one young woman’s man who complained as she was put over a lap, “mom, I’m in heels and hose!” Which brings up twice questions for the forum’s consideration: 1- is it more embarrassing for you to get spanked when you are all dressed up?; 2- what not to wear for a spanking? A female friend I would play spank said being spanked over nylon panties was more painful than getting it on the bare. And I wonder what it was like in the 1950s when lots of females wore girdles - merely to keep their stockings up as one told me when I asked why they wore those contraptions. Did girdle spankings hurt more?

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[> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Dee
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Date Posted: 02:18:57 10/13/23 Fri

Yes, I was spanked as a teen till 18 and today my teen girls are spanked.

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[> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Uncle Bob
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Date Posted: 16:27:16 03/12/24 Tue

Good for you. Are they spanked bare bottom?

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[> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Dee
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Date Posted: 01:19:50 03/13/24 Wed

Yes all spankings in our house are panties down followed by a lecture and then it is otk for my hairbrush.

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[> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Maeryn19
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Date Posted: 22:38:06 06/20/24 Thu

I’m 19 and I just got a spanking three weeks ago. So yes, I am spanked as a team.

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Dee
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Date Posted: 01:42:43 06/22/24 Sat

Shows your parents care about you.

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[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Maeryn19
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Date Posted: 07:54:50 06/30/24 Sun

Thank you. And yes, they really do. I’m lucky. We have a great relationship and I know that I’ve never gotten a spanking I didn’t deserve.

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Intrigued
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Date Posted: 08:18:20 06/30/24 Sun

Can you tell us about who spanks you - mom and/or dad - and how it's done? And what do you get it for?

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Maeryn19
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Date Posted: 14:11:29 07/01/24 Mon

I get spanked on my bare butt by both my mom and my dad. I've also gotten spanked in the past by a babysitter and the mom and dad of a friend (my friend got spanked by my dad, too).

My mom spanks me with her hand, a hairbrush or a belt. My dad spanks me with his hand or a belt. I get punished for the usual stuff like staying out too late and being disrespectful. My brother just turned 12 and I've gotten spanked for arguing with him and not watching him when I've said I would. And I also do some pretty stupid things sometimes, like when I tried drinking and when I got caught vaping.

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[> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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ts92
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Date Posted: 08:39:45 10/14/23 Sat

Oh yes, my sister and I were both spanked all through our teenage years. Mom did all of the spanking and she always spanked bare, no exceptions. Dad never spanked or witnessed as he did not think it appropriate to see us with our pants down once we were around 12-13.

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veena to ts92
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Date Posted: 16:08:07 11/14/23 Tue

why
my dad spanked me since i was a little girl and he still spanks me
when he spanks me i am without panties

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Luna to veena
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Date Posted: 17:00:54 02/15/24 Thu

And how do you feel about that?

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[> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Erin
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Date Posted: 03:13:10 06/21/24 Fri

It was the same way with us,but dad stopped spanking my sisters and me when we were closer to 10 years old. Spankings in our house were on the bare bottom and he wasn't comfortable giving or observing them that way. Thank god he felt that way - spankings from mom were embarrassing enough and would have been so much worse coming from him.

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[> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Michael
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Date Posted: 12:49:00 10/14/23 Sat

My last ever spanking was when I was 13 because I threw sand in my cousin's face. It was an accident and I was so sorry but I was sentenced to humiliation and retribution in the form of a bare bottom handsmacking in front of my cousins, all but one of whom were girls. So I ended up way more sorry. Without a doubt the single most shameful experience of my life. It was painful, but that was nothing compared to the embarrassment I felt being seen naked from the waist down as a teenager who had not hit puberty yet. I wouldn't say the spanking "helped" me, and it wasn't intended to.

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[> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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DisciplinedLife (Thoughtful)
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Date Posted: 20:27:13 11/24/23 Fri

Both of us were spanked well into our teens. They were humbling experiences that helped us realize we needed to make better choices about our Attitudes and Behaviors before leaving home to be successful in Life. The spankings definitely helped us!

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[> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Nick
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Date Posted: 15:45:19 02/14/24 Wed

I was spanked when I was 14 3 or 4 times buy I think mom was dealing with me trying to push boundaries. They helped my behavior for sure because I knew what would happen if I didn't.

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[> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Meg
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Date Posted: 10:07:16 02/15/24 Thu

I leave teenage years behind next week, but i still get them now and then :(

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Nick
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Date Posted: 14:08:17 02/15/24 Thu

I got threatened if I got too bratty by mom asking if I wanted a spanking years after she stopped at 14. I never knew if she would follow thru after saying that.

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Megan
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Date Posted: 15:09:02 02/15/24 Thu

I've learned over the years, my parents never threat.

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[> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Luna
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Date Posted: 16:55:20 02/15/24 Thu

Yes.
My first spanking, as far as I can remember, was at the age of 6. We are talking about the real spanking, not about several smacks. Since than I was spanked regularly till now (I am 16). Both of my parents spank me, about once a week. All spankings are administered on my bare bottom.
Was it helpful?
Of course. Girls can have a lot of benefits of a regular spankings.

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[> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Louise Vancisic Vancisic
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Date Posted: 13:46:36 02/17/24 Sat

Hi Lina. Does that mean that you get spanked twice a week? Or do your parents alternate? You have found healthy way to alleviate the discomfort and embarrassment that results from a spanking. Are you spanked nude? always or sometimes?

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[> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Dee
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Date Posted: 03:05:59 03/13/24 Wed

yes and spanking teens was quite common when I was growing
up.

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Nick to dee
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Date Posted: 09:51:17 03/13/24 Wed

What yrs would that have been, 1987 I would have been 14 and still being spanked.

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Diana to Peggy, Dee and Nick
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Date Posted: 19:06:54 03/13/24 Wed

There is a rule in our house: "no bra at home". So I don't care about wearing bra during spanking at all. There is no bra! When I and my little sis should be spanked, we must remove all our clothes from waist down for ourselves. We also must lift our t.shirts, so our boobs are exposed. Yes, it can be embarrassing especially if older males or younger boys witnessed our spanking. I must admit that I understand Luna's question: why should girl's boobs have to be visible, exposed? Our asses and pussies are visible and exposed anyway. I am 16 and my sis is 13 and i am not "delighted" when boys at the age of 11, 12 ... see my intimate parts.

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Dee
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Date Posted: 01:46:16 03/14/24 Thu

House rule here is all spankings are bare bottom but only family allowed to see no outsiders.

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Diana to Dee
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Date Posted: 19:24:26 03/16/24 Sat

You lucky girl.

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[> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Beth
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Date Posted: 10:00:58 03/16/24 Sat

I came close when I was 16 for lying about being in school. How told me in front of my friend turn around and bend over. I said why. He said I want to give you a old fashioned bare bottom spanking for lying. I said I was tool old and my friend was there. Then he said report back in 30 minutes with a punishment infect was appropriate. So I said grounded, loss of car and I have to earn my trust. So he agreed. Looking back I should have accepted the spanking.

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[> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Katie
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Date Posted: 11:49:30 04/08/24 Mon

Myself and my 2 sisters were spanked well into our teens with my last one being at 17. My mother was the primary disciplinarian in our house which was kind of a bad thing. Being spanked by my dad was embarrassing but his hand was not near as bad as my mother's big hairbrush.

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Deb
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Date Posted: 02:12:26 04/09/24 Tue

Teen spanking is embarrassing and yet it is still used until age 18. Have 16 and 14 and the get spankings still.

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Katie
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Date Posted: 12:40:01 04/09/24 Tue

Yes, they were very embarrassing but if you were spanked all growing up I would assume they are much more bearable.
My two sisters are also 14 and 16 and they are still spanked. The 14 year old was spanked a few days ago.

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Deb
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Date Posted: 02:28:29 04/11/24 Thu

Yes it is embarrassing to get spanked as a teen. Both of mine hate when I pull their panties down.

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John (Happy)
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Date Posted: 12:40:11 08/27/24 Tue

Can you sit comfortably after being spanked

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[> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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stripey7 (Sad)
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Date Posted: 20:24:04 04/09/24 Tue

No, they stopped when I was eight and I wasn't happy about it.

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[> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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Vicky
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Date Posted: 08:03:20 04/22/24 Mon

Yes, for most of us they didn't happen very often but when there was one it was a big deal for sure.

I was the youngest of four, I have two sisters and 1 brother. I was kind of in my prime spanking years (7-8) when the older ones were in their mid teens and if one of them were getting it I was giddy with excitement.

There was one stretch where my brother was struggling with school and learning to drive and he had a stretch where he got 3 of them in like a 6 or 7 month period.

Teen spankings of my sisters were more infrequent but they all got it every once in a while. Somehow the longer one of them had gone without one, the bigger deal it was when they were getting it.

By the time I was a teen I had a real good idea on what gets teens spanked, and I vowed I wouldn't do any of the things they had done.

Wrong, I slipped up a few times and driving was my downfall as it had been for my brother. I got nailed for a speeding ticket going through a school zone and I hadn't noticed the speed change. The darn school was out in the country (middle of nowhere) and I just kept going along at 55 mph.

When I saw the police flashers I said I'm not doing anything wrong to my girlfriend.

Vicky you are in a school zone there was a 30 mph sign back there.

Noooooo! then I cursed a bit as I thought back to my brother's spankings of the past knowing I was about to experience one of my own.

I told mom I hadn't noticed the sign, that didn't help me at all. She said I was irresponsible for not paying attention, and not paying attention causes accidents, unsafe driving etc, etc. etc.

She took my panties down and I got it with hand and bath brush. Geez that brush used to burn, and I'd always end up scratching after and that would just irritate things further.

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[> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen


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ts92
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Date Posted: 14:10:15 04/22/24 Mon

Yes, my sister and I were both spanked well into out teenage years. I vividly remember my last spanking, I'm just a bit unsure of which year it was. It was about 4 months before my 18th birthday, but it might have been my 19th birthday. I know my sister was spanked more than once after she turned 18. Many of the parents from our small church believed that spanking of girls was not only acceptable, but beneficial. Boys were not spanked once they hit about 11 or 12 years old. Our mom did all of the spanking in our family, and she always spanked bare- no exceptions.

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Allison
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Date Posted: 15:23:48 04/22/24 Mon

I am spanked as a teen. I'm 16 and I get it with dad's paddle in our den. Bare!!!

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Vicky
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Date Posted: 16:24:48 04/22/24 Mon

Allison:

I hope he is fair about it and you don't get it too often. In my case I was talking about 30 + years ago. I didn't get it a lot as a teen but I did find them tough on the ego for sure.

When it happened to my older siblings though well, I hate to say I liked it but I kind of did at least initially. When the spanking was over then I'd feel for them more.

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Allison to Vicky
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Date Posted: 06:50:54 04/23/24 Tue

Hi Vicky,
My parents are very fair. I might not say this right at the moment but truth be told I have never gotten a spanking I didn't earn. It's very embarrassing and shameful at 16 mainly because I should know better than to be doing things that will get me paddled. I still slip up. I have no siblings, just myself, mom and dad.

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Vicky to Allison
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Date Posted: 07:30:34 04/24/24 Wed

Allison:

It is embarrassing and shameful for sure and the last ones you get seem the worst so far as that goes.

I'm not sure why exactly. Perhaps it is that at 16, 17 or whatever there is more of a disbelief that it is going to happen again. I know I told myself at 15, 16, 17 after each spanking that that was going to be the last one and I really convinced myself that my spanking days were over.

Then inevitably you slip up and are in disbelief that you are going to be stripped and reduced to a crying little baby, it is really humbling and shameful for sure.

I had siblings but being the youngest the ones I received as an older teen weren't witnessed by my siblings at least.

I can't imagine what it must have been like for my older siblings having three others watching the whole thing. I got a real charge if one of the elder ones was getting it and at times I was kind of in disbelief as in my mind I'd sometimes thought there bottoms up days were behind them. My eldest sister got one at 17 and she hadn't been spanked for almost a full 2 years, it was a complete shocker.

Kind of an OMG I can't believe they are getting it and they were likely thinking the same and I think that shock factor makes it really shameful and embarrassing.

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Vicky to Allison
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Date Posted: 09:08:50 04/24/24 Wed

Allison:

My eldest sister was the best behaved of the four of us and when she got it at 17 I had just turned 9. My brother would have been 15 at that time and my other sister would have been 14. My parents have admitted that I was an accident they weren't planning on a 4th child.

I witnessed a lot of spankings and when I was younger mine were witnessed as well. I kind of thought it was really unfair cause when I was 6, 7, and 8 I received a lot of spankings whereas my older siblings didn't get it nearly as much especially my two sisters.

So I was kind of excited when any of of them were getting it. That is kind of mean to say I guess, my emotions would change as the spanking progressed I'd start to feel sorry for them then after it was over I'd have a weird mix of emotions I'd be replaying it in my mind and I sort of felt some guilt for having enjoyed it.

So the time my sister got it after 2 years I was like OMG I can't believe this is happening. She got caught lying about her whereabouts she was out with a boy that my parents didn't approve of and she'd told mom she was studying at the library. I was kind of giddy with excitement and she was so whiny about it, mom I'm too old, mom I can't believe this. My 9 year old brain was thinking Bianca you are so overdue for one, spank her mommy, spank her good. Mean of me I guess but it was exciting to me when the older ones got it.

My brother got it often enough he always got 2-4 a year through his teen years and I as an 8 or 9 year old was getting them pretty much monthly.

My younger sister didn't get that many as a teen but she got it more than my eldest sister but less than my brother.

If one of my siblings was getting it, I kind of liked the drama, when they showed a lot of embarrassment. Kind of mean but that is how I felt. Of course when it was me on the receiving end I hated it.

I think we all reacted differently to them, Bianca my eldest sister wasn't accepting at all, she'd try to argue, barter, whine complain. My brother was probably the most accepting but he sure got embarrassed when his undies were taken down. My younger sister was in between, depended on what she had done she was sometimes accepting and other times she'd argue, I was probably most like that myself.

Hope you keep your bottom out of harms way, Allison though it sounds unlikely, good luck.

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Intrigued
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Date Posted: 09:43:15 04/24/24 Wed

Hi Vicky; you said: Bianca you are so overdue for one, spank her mommy, spank her good." And is that what happened? Did your mom spank over the knee on the bare? How did Bianca react during the spanking? Did you get your wish?

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Vicky to Intrigued
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Date Posted: 10:02:05 04/24/24 Wed

Intrigued:

That was what I was thinking I didn't say anything. Oh yeah mom took a bath brush to Bianca's fully developed heinie and all her arguing and shocked reaction just led to a more vigorous and as a viewer I'd say more satisfying spanking.

Her big bottom was very red all over and she was crying like a baby, I quite liked it at the time but felt a bit guilty about it afterwords.

But that one really stuck in my mind, some other ones do as well, but I still think of that one with a smile.

She got a reminder that nobody was above a bare bottom spanking, I kind of felt she was due for a humbling and she definitely got one that day.

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Date Posted: 10:53:13 04/24/24 Wed

It sounds like to delight in it to some extent even now! It happened many years ago but could you provide some details about what happened in the minutes leading up to it? The conversation between her and your mom? Did you all just happen to be in the same room at that time by coincidence? Did your mom have the brush out and ready or did the need for a spanking only become evident during the course of the conversation?

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Intrigued
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Date Posted: 10:55:36 04/24/24 Wed

Meant: "It sounds like you delight in it....."

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Vicky to Intrigued
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Date Posted: 12:39:57 04/24/24 Wed

She got caught by a neighbor that knew mom, out with this boy at a restaurant. Bianca didn't notice the neighbor at the restaurant but the neighbor told mom she saw Bianca with this boy I can't recall his name??.

Mom had a fit because she didn't like him or his parents and she had been lied to cause Bianca said she was off to the library to get some schoolwork done with a friend.

So we all knew she was going to roast Bianca's bottom upon her return. Me and my sister in particular were definitely in delight about it.

Bianca when confronted was at first in shocked disbelief, then she started arguing claiming she was too old, it's not fair she's 17. To me it kind of made it more fun she acted like such a juvenile about it so when her panties came down and mom got her over her lap and got that bath brush going, let's just say Bianca gave us quite an animated display. She was trying to wiggle around quite a bit at first then eventually she broke down and wailed like a baby.

Sorry, I still am taking some delight in it. She didn't mess up very often and it was fun seeing that big bottom of hers getting lit up.

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Intrigued
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Date Posted: 13:00:46 04/24/24 Wed

Interesting story -- especially being caught be the neighbor lol. Did the neighbor she got a good spanking? Was your mom a fast spanker or more deliberate? How did she tell Bianca she would be spanked? The words/phrases used?

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Vicky to Intrigued
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Date Posted: 13:20:53 04/24/24 Wed

Too long ago, I definitely don't remember phrases. I do remember the pained look on her face when she was told she was going to be spanked. She had mom really upset as she wasn't cooperating very well, so I remember there was no easing into it, she had to be hand spanked several times and threatened with a more serious spanking just for mom to get her panties down. Once she did it started out really fast and hard and Bianca was thrashing around, it was like she'd forgotten how much spankings hurt and she got herself a sizzler with all her arguing.

I'm sure we all look ridiculous during a spanking but she'd try to wiggle around then at one point she opened her legs up. We saw everything, and that was one big red bottom by the end of it. I was kind of in awe of the spanking itself. Of course I got a few that rivalled it recalling her's is a lot more fun to talk about.

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Date Posted: 13:52:10 04/24/24 Wed

Bianca was still standing or over her lap when Bianca's panties finally came down? Was she otk trying to hold them up and your mom trying to take them down or do I have that wrong? We need to hear one of your younger sister next.

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Date Posted: 15:15:32 04/24/24 Wed

She was standing and trying to hold them up, or she'd try to back up and step away from mom when she went to take them down. Mom smacked her on the panties a few time then threatened her with a much worse spanking if she didn't submit.

She did submit but not without some whining about it being not fair. She was usually so together and mature until she was told she was getting a spanking, then she'd get all juvenile and babylike.

She didn't get very many so I guess it was more of a shock to her when she did.

I need a break from this maybe tomorrow for Emily. Bianca's at 17 was probably my favorite, there are a couple of my brother's that were pretty good too, Emily's somehow don't seem as memorable to me.

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Date Posted: 21:58:12 06/21/24 Fri

Disbelief is a good way to put it. Every time I wind up with my pants and panties down and I’m getting my bare butt spanked I always somehow managed to feel surprised. I don’t suppose that I should be because I get it often enough.

And yes, it’s horrible, getting spanked in front of my younger brother. Of course, I’ve watched him get spanked, as well. It’s different when he sees me, his older sister, someone he’s supposed to be looking up to getting my butt spanked and crying my eyes out. Even worse is when I’ve gotten spanked in front of his friends.

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Date Posted: 08:27:48 04/24/24 Wed

Dear Vicky,

I agree with you. The older I get the more shameful and embarrassing it is. I also agree thank God I have no brothers or sisters in the room watching dad paddling my bare. I think that would just be shameful over the top. It's terrible enough with mom and dad. The worst part for me is hearing dad saying "Allison, I need you to remove your skirt / jeans and step out of your panties." Tears are already flowing at that point. How did you feel when your older sister was going to get it after a full two years? I wish I could go that long.

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Date Posted: 09:13:07 04/24/24 Wed

My response went up above a couple entries, sorry.

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Date Posted: 11:31:35 04/24/24 Wed

I found your posts above. Interesting that you referred to your older sisters fully developed bottom. I am sensitive about my own plump full buttocks getting paddled on the bare. Just a week ago at school I heard to boys behind me and something to the effect of "Look at that ass, yes nice." I know it was me because there were no other girls around. Imagine them knowing that Allison gets that nice plump ass blistered bare with her daddy's paddle when she messes up. OMG nightmare!!!

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Date Posted: 12:26:03 04/24/24 Wed

I missed out on the well developed bottom so I wasn't overly sensitive Bianca led the way in wide hips and a plump butt and at 17 she really didn't want the exposure. Poor girl but she did lie and mislead mom and that was what happened when you get caught.

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Date Posted: 13:06:37 04/24/24 Wed

Lying is looked down upon in this house. My hips are kinda wide and I have a full plump buttocks. I can also feel my bottom cheeks "dance" as dad applies the paddle. A lie here would get me the same consequences as your sister except in my case it's dad who does the honors. Were you or sisters ever spanked bare by dad?

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Date Posted: 13:40:54 04/24/24 Wed

Allison:

Mom gave the majority of the spankings but Dad gave a few as well. Dad was actually gentler, he'd give handspankings first, then some with a bathbrush or belt but it only really happened when mom wasn't around. If they were both there, mom was the spanker.

Me and my younger sister both got it from Daddy for arguing/bickering when I was about 7 and sister was about 12. Being only 7 I got a handspanking only but Emily got both hand and bathbrush and she was none too happy with me cause it really was more my fault than hers. But Daddy was kind of sick of listening to the 2 of us, so he spanked both of us and she got it worse that day cause of her age.

My brother got the belt from him one time too for being disrespectful. I can't remember what he said but it was ignorant and Daddy made an example of him. He was about 12 so I would have been about 6. For a daddy spanking it was severe, my brother watched his mouth for quite a long while after that one.

So many spankings, some of them I remember pretty well, others are hazy.

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Date Posted: 14:36:13 04/24/24 Wed

I guess when you have siblings arguments will happen. How did your daddy spank? Did you have to take anything off. If so at 7 you probably didn't worry about being undressed in front of dad. At 12 sis probably was. You were more concerned about the spanking right?

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Date Posted: 15:16:51 04/24/24 Wed

It's bad enough having to undress from the waist down. I don't have much up top and I am sensitive about that as well. Most of my tops are short so when I do get it once I'm undressed my whole bottom is on display. Nothing in the way. I face the wall and dad has me spread my feet some with both palms flat on the wall. He also paddles slow so that each swat really burns and lasts. If I were getting it fully nude I would absolutely DIE!!!!!
I got spanked at bath times a few times but I was like 5-7. Like you said being naked at that age was not my main concern. Dad's hand on my wet bottom was. God did that ever burn.

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Date Posted: 15:03:06 04/24/24 Wed

Allison:

We got bared by whichever parent was doing the spanking, generally mom but in this case dad. When I say bared I'm talking from the waist down. Now if in a one piece swimsuit or if we had on a really long bulky sweater or something that was going to get in the way of the spanking it was removed too but there weren't many of those, happened to my brother several times with the bulky sweaters and Emily too a couple of times.

So our spankings were bare bottom over the knee at 7 I didn't care much about the nudity I was definitely more concerned about the spanking. If the belt was used we'd bend over the arm of the couch. Bathbrush was more common and that was over the knee.

I think when you are younger the nudity isn't that big a deal but once you hit puberty well, I think we all had some things we were self-counscious about. Bianca thought her butt was too big, my brother would get red in the face cause he'd usually have a boner when his undies were taken down and he was embarrassed by it you could tell, it was obvious in his facial expression. Emily I don't know she never really said but she didn't have much of a chest so she was more red in the face if a sweater was taken off cause she didn't bother much with bras particularly when she was younger so she got it completely nude a couple times at least.

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Date Posted: 15:43:40 04/24/24 Wed

Hi Vicky,
I'm Devon, 12 and I have an older sister Jenna 15. We both get spanked with dad's paddle in our room face down on the bed. Usually nude from waist down but can also be fully nude. Last week Jenna was getting it for trouble at school. As I exited the bathroom after my shower I noticed Jenna's door wasn't completely closed. Her spanking was happening and I stopped and peeked in through the door opening. She was face down and fully nude. I noticed her bottom rippled every time dad landed the paddle. I got super turned on watching this. I stayed until dad finished. Jenna was really bawling. I love my sister and felt bad because I know how much that paddle burns. However watching that really turned me on and I can't stop thinking about it. You said you sometimes enjoyed watching your older sisters get it. I feel guilty. Was watching Jenna getting spanked wrong? BTW she nor my parents know I saw anything.

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Date Posted: 16:27:47 04/24/24 Wed

Devon:

I didn't feel guilty for watching, spankings in our house were public, siblings saw their brother or sister or multiples get spanked that is how it was.

I think I felt guilt over taking delight in their misery. After a spanking I'd usually feel more sympathy for them and that is when I'd kind of feel guilty for enjoying the lead up and beginning - middle parts of the spanking itself.

I wasn't alone in that I don't think, if any one of us was getting a spanking and it became known that Emily, Bianca, Tim or myself was getting it the other siblings were a-buzz with excitement and a lot of smiles and OMG's I can't believe they're getting it.

As to whether it was wrong to watch your sister get it? I don't know I think it is natural if one has the opportunity to get a chance to see it I think 90% of people are going to peek at a minimum.

If you know you aren't supposed to be looking and it isn't permitted then that is wrong as it goes against your parents wishes. Your dad kind of messed up though by leaving the door partially open.

I think it is natural though to get turned on seeing it. I definitely did whether it was my brother or one of my sisters and I'm pretty sure they'd say the same. I think some of the guilt kicks in there because you think I shouldn't get turned on it's my brother or sister or whatever, but that is how it goes.

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Date Posted: 16:59:35 04/24/24 Wed

Vicky,
Thanks for responding and so quick. Our parents usually close our door. They want us to hear but not necessarily see. They feel that by just hearing both siblings learn the lesson. Jenna was caught smoking with a friend at school. Dad's mother passed from Lung Cancer, she smoked her whole life. So you can imagine when Jenna got caught, she was in big trouble.

I did feel more guilty after it was over. I have never seen a girl nude before, not real life anyway. So yeah I was excited especially watching her bottom reacting to the paddle swats. Dad was laying it on pretty hard too. I'm Jenna will never smoke again. So you got turned on too. Even with your sisters. Did your brother get turned on if one of you girls was getting it? So your parents allowed you to watch.

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Date Posted: 18:02:05 04/24/24 Wed

Devon:

My parents thought it was good for spankings to be both seen and heard. They thought it served as a detterrant for all 4 of us. They also thought that embarrassment was part of the punishment so if the spankee(s) were embarrassed due to the exposure so much the better.

I was young when they got most of theirs given our age difference, but yes I was turned on at 9 10 and 11 for sure, more so if it was my brother getting it, but yes I liked it when my sisters got it as well.

I'm guessing my brother got turned on as well but it was not something we ever talked about. I know that after a spanking we often all went to our rooms after for some alone time and I caught my elder sisters masturbating on a couple different occasions after seeing my brother get it. I think that alone time after someone got spanked was really masturbation time for the others, myself included.

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Date Posted: 06:25:10 04/25/24 Thu

Vicky,
I didn't want to come out and admit this but that's exactly what I did when dad finished with Jenna the other night and I went back to my room. I have also done it several times since replaying the spanking back in my mind.

I had a close call. Later that night I saw Jenna and told her I was sorry that she got spanked. I slipped up and also said boy dad really laid it on hard too. jenna looked at me and said how do you know how hard dad spanked me. OMG I thought I was caught then I thought quickly and said Jenna I could hear the paddle sounds and you coming from within your room. She just sighed and said yes dad really paddled me hard. She also promised she would never touch anything you smoke again.
We don't talk about our spankings with each other either.

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Date Posted: 12:30:46 06/30/24 Sun

I've admitted on other posts here that even though it was unpleasant, spankings actually were arousing for me whether I was on the receiving end or witnessing them. Of course it was much better to witness them than to be on the receiving end. There are many times I witnessed spankings my sister got which were always bare bottom and would be turned on by them. I would often think about it when masturbating even though it sounds perverted. In truth, she also liked watching my spankings or times we got spanked together. She asked me if I "played with myself" when I saw her get spanked. We were pretty open in our discussions. I was a little embarrassed but I admitted to it. She told me that she does as well. She admitted she liked seeing my butt get all red and that I got hard when I got spanked. That kind of surprised me to save the least.

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Date Posted: 12:46:52 08/27/24 Tue

Do you get spanked over jeans or pyjamas and how long before you can sit comfirtably

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Date Posted: 08:48:16 04/27/24 Sat

Teen spankings still happen in our house for 16 and 14. Bare bottom and In their room and door left open to family only allowed to see.

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Robert to Dee
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Date Posted: 07:53:38 04/28/24 Sun

May I ask exactly how they are carried out? How are you undressed? What is used for the spanking? Position?

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Date Posted: 02:16:13 04/30/24 Tue

OTK, pants and panties pulled down and a hairbrush used.

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Date Posted: 06:37:57 04/30/24 Tue

Was it mom, dad, both? Your last was at what age?

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Date Posted: 09:14:45 04/30/24 Tue

I think I misunderstood. I went back and read your initial post. So you are the mom with 16 and 14-year-old girls. So my question now is does dad spank as well? Disregard my post above this one. Are the girls embarrassed when spanked by dad?

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Date Posted: 02:23:53 05/01/24 Wed

Yes they are embarrassed being spanked by dad or by me.

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Date Posted: 02:34:48 06/22/24 Sat

Guess it's time to share my experiences.
I'm 22 and as an only child did not witness spankings of siblings and have never been eager to share my spankings. I've always felt rather embarrassed than proud about them.
In our family mom was the one doing the spankings and dad never did. He was more a softie and grounded me.

I got my first spanking at 7 when I forgot how spelling works over christmas break and we had a test in school and out of 8 words I spelled 7 wrong. I was hiding the test in my school bag not telling mom about it... yes I know how stupid... and she found it the next day when putting the lunch box in my bag. I got my first hand spanking and I remember crying and feeling very embarrassed.
I was mostly well behaved but still got spanked a couple of times per year, mostly for school issues and behavior at home. They were all hand spankings over mom's knee in my room.
At 11 I got into a fight in school with a friend and broke many of her pens out of anger. Her mom told my mom and I got the hairbrush for the first time. That was quite a shocker. My mom was always scolding lots and in combination with the pain of the brush.... lets say I did my best to avoid the hairbrush afterwards.
I guess puberty had started though and I was not very successful avoiding it. My spankings got more frequent rather than less and mom spanked with hand and hairbrush, from about age 13 I think she only used the hairbrush.
I hated and dreaded it but I did try to do better after each spanking and I know they were deserved. I never got spanked without a good reason.

My last spanking was at age 15. It was very embarrassing and I felt very similarly to how Vicky's older sister must have felt. I read her long description in this thread. It's a longer story but I was caught smoking. It was the first time I tried it. I had not been spanked in over a year and I thought mom had stopped and I wouldn't get it again. It was the longest and hardest hairbrush spanking I've gotten and dad grounded me afterwards as well.
I did my best to avoid any further spankings but tbh I know I'd have deserved some when I was 16/17 but mom didn't spank anymore. She never said why and I didn't ask. I was happy about it but looking back I know they would have been deserved.
When I started college I missed the structure and discipline and lately I started looking back and reflecting and that's how I ended up here.

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Date Posted: 10:44:01 06/22/24 Sat

Hi Veronica,

I appreciate your posts, because they seem realistic and you honest. If I may I would like to ask a couple questions as a mother who has started spanking (kids 6 and 8) but was not spanked as a child.

I come from a very secular background, but after my divorce I found a church I really feel at home in and love. Most of the moms do spank and encouraged me to also (and I admit their behavior sometimes left something to be desired). So far I am sold on it, but have a few nagging doubts.

Do you think the spankings helped your behavior. Did being spanked cause you to have a special interest in it as an adult? Would (will) you spank your children?

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Date Posted: 14:47:32 06/22/24 Sat

Hi Destiny,

thank you very much. Yes of course please feel free to ask whatever interests you.
Your first question if spankings helped my behavior is the most difficult to answer.
First I want to say that I absolutely believe that boundaries, limits, rules are most important for children and they helped me grow. I miss them in college. I see from others my age that they didn't have any limits, they didn't learn how to deal with money constraints, curfew or any other restrictions. That never ends good.
Once limits are set it means that any breaking of rules must have consequences. The consequences were very clear for me growing up and that's what I become to appreciate.
However I think I would have turned out the same with different consequences. There are alternatives to spanking that can work as well. I think I need a bit more distance to my own spankings to judge that better.
I did behave better after a spanking but I also did my best that mom didn't find out about any misbehavior, so I became more sneaky at times, which is not good.
Looking back I think I would have needed consequences, maybe even spankings in my mid to late teens and feel I'd have deserved them at that age but didn't get any. I'm not so sure if they were necessary when I was younger. I'm sure it is difficult for parents to start with them later though.

Getting spanked from mom was never exciting for me but I had a special interest in hearing about others getting spanked from a young age. I think that was even before I got my first spanking. My neighbors got it and while I never saw them get it, I could hear it occasionally which got me very curious while feeling sorry for them at the same time. My own spankings might have contributed but I think that special interest was there even before. I do not know why though.

I don't think I will spank my own children but I will set boundaries, limits and consequences. I know that really helps. If spanking turns out to be necessary than I would do it the same way as my mom did it.

I hope that helps a bit. When did you start spanking and what are your first experiences with it?

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Date Posted: 03:53:13 06/23/24 Sun

To this day, my mom will tell anyone who will listen that children are happier when limitations are established and enforced. I didn't agree as a child and hated it when she would go on to say that all her kids benefited from spankings. Even if she didn't say that I was still being spanked as a teenager, I would blush every time the subject came up.

Like you, I was always interested in spankings that other kids got. There was a family that I babysat for who would spank their son and daughter if they misbehaved for me. I didn't get to see it, but the mother gave a very vivid description of how she disciplined. I didn't have permission to spank them myself, but I sure wanted to.

Veronica, I'm older than you and have two daughters who are 10 and 7. They don't need it very often, but we do use spanking when they misbehave. It probably won't continue too much longer, as I really think my mom stayed with the spanking tool too long. Time will tell though and we'll see if my two grow to appreciate how they were raised.

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Date Posted: 08:09:55 06/23/24 Sun

Hi Erin,
luckily my mom did not tell others publicly about my spankings, at least not in front of me. My grandmy knew though and talked about it most times when she visited us.. 'How did Veronica behave lately? Did you have to spank her again?...' She was very much pro-spanking and the few times she spanked me were worse than those from mom. She kept telling me that my mom was raised more strictly and it did her good.

Your babysitting experiences sound exciting. It must have been soo embarrassing for the children knowing that their mom told you all about their spankings. It's a pity that you never saw or got a chance to discipline them yourself.

I'm really not sure if I would spank my children but your approach sounds very reasonable and def not excessive.
May I ask, since you are also here and had similar experiences... do you still have spanking in your life as an adult, I mean getting it? This is something lingering on my mind since I know some couples do that. Or are you the one giving them these days?
Thanks for sharing it all.

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Date Posted: 11:12:06 06/23/24 Sun

I certainly haven't had a real spanking since that last one from my mom at 15. Just a few playful swats from my husband, usually on my birthday or maybe when I'm acting a little feisty. We're definitely not into any kind of domestic discipline though!

Rob was spanked growing up too, but he was quite surprised to learn that I got it into my high school years. We both think that was too old, but that our two girls haven't outgrown it yet. Spanking is mostly my job, but he sometimes takes his turn and I appreciate that. It reminds me so much of discipline I got from my own dad at their age!

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Veronica
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Date Posted: 11:40:59 06/23/24 Sun

Thanks Erin. I haven't had a real spanking since the last one from my mom at 15 either.
I don't have a boyfriend but it's just something that came to mind.
Great that your husband supports you. I'm glad my dad didn't spank me, it would have been even more embarrassing!

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Date Posted: 11:50:14 06/30/24 Sun

Yes, I absolutely got spankings when I was in my teens. Mom didn't believe in "too old". She was more of a "as long as you are living under my roof" type. Her spankings were always on the bare bottom. The method was usually to have me pull down my pants and underwear and then bend over the kitchen table, a kitchen chair or the arm of the couch in the living room and she would spank me with whatever implement she decided to use at the time. She would normally use a flyswatter or a novelty paddle. But sometimes a hairbrush and on a few occasions a belt. She never gave a set number of swats, she spanked until she thought it was sufficent. I was then allowed to pull up my pants and then pretty much go about my business. While it was quite painful to say the least, the embarrassment of it was worse than the pain. Especially when she did it in front of others. My siblings got to see most of my spankings and I got to see theirs. I averaged two or three spankings a year between the ages of twelve and fifteen. I was fifteen the last time I was spanked and got that one with a flyswatter while my sister who got spanked before me watched. She stood crying rubbing her sore red bottom while I was getting mine spanked. It was pretty embarrassing. Then we had to sit on hard wood chairs to eat our dinner that had gotten cold. I tried my best to avoid doing anything that would get me a spanking after that night. Both my brother and sister got spankings into their teens as well. My brother was sixteen last time he got one, which was with a belt and my sister got her's at seventeen with a hairbrush.

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Date Posted: 12:04:23 06/30/24 Sun

Gary, how much does a flyswatter sting? Did your mom spank fast and give a lot of swats with it? Sounds like your sister got it bad.

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Date Posted: 12:40:30 06/30/24 Sun

Honestly a flyswatter generates a pretty good sting on a bare butt. It's also an implement that you can "hear coming" because it makes a loud "whoosh" as it's being used. It's one implement that is totally ineffective on a fully clothed bottom. Unless you are careless and hit with the wire, it doesn't leave bruises, welts or break skin. But it will leave you with a very red and stinging bottom.

Mom always spanked bare and didn't give a set number of "licks" she spanked until she thought it was sufficient. How fast or slow a spanking was administered was pretty much determined by what she was using. She was very careful about where she hit, not hitting on the back or legs except for possibly a few swats on the backs of our thighs right under our butt. If she used a belt for example, she would be slow and more deliberate because there is too much of a chance of missing the "target". With a flyswatter or her hand she tended to go faster. Of course she had pretty good aim. The spankings also tended to be longer when she used a flyswatter. Any marks from it were usually red waffle shaped marks and usually faded within in a couple of hours. But that being said, you still felt the sting of it for several hours, like a sunburn.

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Date Posted: 12:53:54 06/30/24 Sun

I'm sorry I didn't finish. My sister did get it pretty good too. She was ten and I was fifteen. She had to go first. Mom made her pull her shorts and panties down and raise up the long shirt she was wearing and lay across one of the kitchen chairs. She was starting to cry as she pulled her shorts down and mom told her she was going to "give her something to cry about". My sister lay across the chair and mom went to work. She covered every inch of my sister's bare butt while she cried and kicked. I stood there watching and don't think I blinked once while I was waiting my turn. I don't know exactly how long the spanking was but her bottom was dark shade of red when it was over. It looked like she had a sunburn. She stood back up rubbing her butt and crying, not even bothering to pull her pants back up.
Then it was my turn. Mom told me to pull my pants down, and for some stupid reason, I only pulled down my pants, leaving my underwear up. I don't know if it was defiance or stupidity but I stood there with my pants down and underwear still up, Mom put me across the chair and started blistering my underwear clad butt with the swatter. My cotton briefs didn't offer much protection. She spanked me as long as she spanked my sister, then pulled me back up and literally got in my face and said, "Boy, when I tell you to pull down your pants, I want to see that bare ass! Now DROP EM! I pulled my underwear down over my already burning but and let them drop then she put me back over the chair and gave me another long hard spanking. I tried to hold back the tears but failed. After what seemed like forever, my sister and I were allowed to pull up our pants, and set and eat our now cold dinner on those hard wood kitchen chairs. In all honesty, her spanking was bad, mine because of my own ignorance was much worse.

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Date Posted: 13:09:54 06/30/24 Sun

Good story!! Poor you lol... So it must really sting a lot.

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Gary Steven
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Date Posted: 20:39:52 06/30/24 Sun

It did, With the exception of a couple of belt spankings at fourteen and fifteen, most of the spankings in my teen years were with the flyswatter.

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Jason
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Date Posted: 16:59:09 11/24/24 Sun

Gary

Tell the story of your two belt whippings. Were they bare bottom too and did you have to lift your shirt up. How much more did they hurt? When was the last time you saw your older brother spanked with the belt and how did he react. Did he hesitate or resist or get embarrassed??

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Date Posted: 21:20:50 06/30/24 Sun


Gary, thanks for sharing. I'm curious about how it felt to bend over furniture to be spanked. I was only spanked over dad's lap, even as a teen.
Was any chair or couch "better" or worse to be bent over? How did you manage to stay in position? Like your sister, how could a 10 yr old "hold still" without jumping up at the sting?
Across dad's lap, I was pinned down so I'd kick and twist and bawl but couldn't get away.

Also, I'm curious about spankings you got in front of people? I hated that so much!

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Date Posted: 14:03:13 08/27/24 Tue

Yes, both my sister and I were spanked all throughout our teenage years. Mom did all of the spanking and she always spanked bare, no exceptions. Dad never spanked or even was present as he did not think it appropriate to see us with our pants down once we were about 12-13.

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Date Posted: 14:15:49 08/27/24 Tue

Yes I was spanked well into my teens. I was sixteen last time mom spanked me. I was bent over and got my bare butt blistered with mom's hairbrush.

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Date Posted: 09:17:09 09/01/24 Sun

Long time ago I was spanked when I was 17 .I was doing lot of bad things and my Mom talked it over with a fellow church goer.She showed up one day and gave Mom a package which contained a spanking paddle and told her this was the answer to her problems.She said it has short handle for OTK . Take hom over you4 knee and spank his bare bottom like a little boy .And that’s what she did .

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