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Subject: Re: The Sounds Of Justice Author: Dana [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 02:28:56 09/17/24 Tue In reply to: Moonica 's message, "The Sounds Of Justice" on 07:50:27 09/11/24 Wed I don't know of an official definition of "spanko." I think it means having a strong fascination or enthusiasm for spanking, whether it's giving, getting, seeing, hearing or just imagining. Spanking could be for any purpose from pure discipline to fun sexual foreplay. That's my interpretation, but yours may vary. I'm a spanko who is fascinated by the pure disciplinary use of spanking. I also find it to be an erotic idea, but I don't enjoy anyone's suffering. I like when someone gets a spanking for being bad, but it makes them feel cleansed or feeling a positive sense of resolution. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> Subject: Re: The Sounds Of Justice Author: Wondering-supportive [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:03:52 09/17/24 Tue Dana, your interpretation is a good one. There is however a thin line between not enjoying one's suffering and witnessing a spanking with the view that is is justified. Do you not in that case take some pleasure in the suffering if only because you believe it is deserved in the circumstance? Attributing to the one being spanked the experience or feeling of a positive resolution can be a way of explaining away your own enjoyment of a just spanking. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: The Sounds Of Justice Author: Rebecca [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:13:11 09/17/24 Tue When I gave a spanking to one of my kids I positively hated their crying and pain, BUT I was also left with the feeling of having done a necessary task, and that felt good. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: The Sounds Of Justice Author: jamesdonaldson [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:19:06 09/17/24 Tue Yes I agree with you. I don't enjoy their crying or pain but I know that I have given them motivation to behave better and I hope that they have learned their lesson and will act accordingly. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: The Sounds Of Justice Author: Wondering-supportive [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:34:52 09/17/24 Tue Yeah, it's a thin line. Many like yourself would derive no enjoyment from spanking their children. The motherly instinct, if it exists, or a strong sense of caring may well kick in. But watching say a neighbor's kid being spanked for a clearly dastardly deed may not generate the same response. Or are you absolutely certain it would? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: The Sounds Of Justice Author: Dana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:02:41 09/17/24 Tue In my youth, I thought a lot about it, but actually seeing or hearing someone getting a spanking was not enjoyable. It made me feel pity, embarrassment and anger. I also felt bad when I had erotic thoughts about it, like I must be some kind of freak. What I found when I was older, is that a spanking can also be erotic to others but, more important, therapeutic for some people. Therapy as justice. Justice as therapy. In that case, there can be pleasure in the suffering that is deserved and needed for resolution or redemption. Someone being physically punished against their will, and with no positive result for that person, even if deserved, is not appealing to me. I didn't choose to have these feelings about spanking, and have no control over how I feel. I think that's the way we all are, including those who do enjoy the suffering, some when it is deserved, and some who just take sadistic pleasure in it regardless. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: The Sounds Of Justice Author: Wondering-supportive [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:11:11 09/18/24 Wed The investigations you have done no doubt helped you arrive at the conclusion that you did not choose your feelings about spanking and have no control over how you feel. That is a sensible approach that would help those that still feel guilt about what excites them, leading some to feel that they are weird or freakish. By the time we all reach adulthood, our character is fundamentally formed and will not be significantly changing. We are what we are. Preferring spanking to be rehabilitative and so enjoying their administration is a goal worth pursuing but sometimes outright punishment as a deterrent may be desirable even if not rehabilitative. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: The Sounds Of Justice Author: Angela [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 00:32:42 09/18/24 Wed Dana said: "I like when someone gets a spanking for being bad, but it makes them feel cleansed or feeling a positive sense of resolution." Bravo! As a spanking parent this is what I always aimed for. Each child is different, as is each situation, making the discipline much more than just whacking a child's butt. Indeed I have often said that discipline is really an art. I hope I succeeded most of the time. Angela [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: The Sounds Of Justice Author: Taylor [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:21:21 09/18/24 Wed One incident made a big impact on me. I was thirteen and Shannon was eight. You were trying to give her a hand spanking and she was raising holy hell! You told me to get your hairbrush. That was really hard and I was mad at both you and Shannon. When I came back you told me to stay. Shannon had recently had first communion, and you calmly talked to her about confession and penance --how even after the priest absolves us of our sins he still gives us a penance. You said you accepted Shannon's apology, but there was still a penance or penalty, which once paid would clean her conscience. I had never questioned your right to spank us kids, but after this I was more vocal in speaking in your (and dad's) defense, and complained less about "unfair" spankings. I never wanted to be spanked but appreciated more (actually welcomed) the cleansing and reconciliation they brought about. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]