Author:
Dana
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Date Posted: 23:02:41 09/17/24 Tue
In my youth, I thought a lot about it, but actually seeing or hearing someone getting a spanking was not enjoyable. It made me feel pity, embarrassment and anger. I also felt bad when I had erotic thoughts about it, like I must be some kind of freak.
What I found when I was older, is that a spanking can also be erotic to others but, more important, therapeutic for some people. Therapy as justice. Justice as therapy. In that case, there can be pleasure in the suffering that is deserved and needed for resolution or redemption. Someone being physically punished against their will, and with no positive result for that person, even if deserved, is not appealing to me.
I didn't choose to have these feelings about spanking, and have no control over how I feel. I think that's the way we all are, including those who do enjoy the suffering, some when it is deserved, and some who just take sadistic pleasure in it regardless.
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