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Subject: Re: Not Sure About This... Author: Aunt Nat [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 02:51:37 09/23/24 Mon In reply to: Aunt Nat 's message, "Not Sure About This..." on 12:08:14 09/19/24 Thu Thank you all for your suggestions and support. I like the one about inviting her over on some pretense so we have privacy and we are both comfortable with getting down to brass tacks. If she would actually put her cards on the table and say the 'S' word, I would not spank her then and there, but start a plan of action to improve her focus and behavior with the promise of consequences. I'll keep you posted with further details as they become available. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> Subject: Re: Not Sure About This... Author: Concerning [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:58:01 09/23/24 Mon Twice you have told us of your lunches together where she brings up the issues of discipline/guidance/mother figure -- and you have not told us how you responded. You told was what you did not say, but you did tell us what you did say. So perhaps you could update us on that. I assume you have her contact info so please get on this asap. And if she doesn't put it on the table then YOU do it. She has hinted about as much as she can. An authentic mother figure would not drop this ball and needs to get on it. You simply ask her what discipline needs are , to clarify what she needs-- she brought this up twice. Now you need to do your job and find out if you can help this young lady [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Not Sure About This... Author: Aunt Nat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:44:12 09/24/24 Tue Concerning, I was actually too stunned to say much of anything and was thinking about my cards to play. I basically just nodded and let her talk. Anthony, no I didn't pass on instructions, but of course I kept them updated on their dd and admitted that I spanked her. It wasn't her first spanking, but the first from me, but I suppose with all the turmoil in the house they didn't take. Once the seas had calmed on the home front I believe they reluctantly continued spanking when necessary and it had the desired effect. Wondering, with my niece in my f/t charge, it was more out of frustration and reactionary, but considered and ritualistic than a 'grab and go' spanking. If you want to look at it as 'giving instructions' that would be something her mom, my lifelong cousin and friend learned from me. I think it's quite a different thing with a family member in your temporary charge whose diapers you've changed growing into a troubled teen. I never considered it a spanking in the same sense. This young woman is a virtual stranger, an adult who I have a personal friendly relationship with. This excites me and not something out of frustration as a last resort. I do want to see this young woman improve, but that's not my only goal. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]