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Subject: Re: Not Sure About This... Author: Aunt Nat [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 04:12:28 09/24/24 Tue In reply to: Aunt Nat 's message, "Not Sure About This..." on 12:08:14 09/19/24 Thu I was gifted two large eggplants from a friend and coworker. I thought I'd try my hand at eggplant lasagna. My fiendish plan is to ask the young lady to come help me prepare it and of course help me eat it. These college kids are starving, not only for good food, but attention and normalcy. This will give us a chance to have a more domestic type environment where I play the role of surrogate mother and will hopefully loosen lips. (and in case you're wondering, no I do not intend to give her alcohol). The recipe looks like a big job and give me the chance to get her involved and give instructions. Bake time is 35-45 minutes which will give us time to sit and talk with no distractions or interruptions. My hope is that she will feel comfortable enough to lay her cards on the table and say the 'S' word. If she says it, it's out in the open and I will not pass up the chance to fulfill my lifelong dream. However, today will not be the day. I have little interest in turning this young lady over my knees and reddening her little bottom. If she says she needs a spanking, it will be with a purpose. We will discuss her goals, fears, behavior improvement etc. and if after a certain period of time, I'm thinking 2 weeks, I don't see improvement then she will go over my knees and receive the discipline that she eluded to. Wish me luck. Any advice from the experts would be greatly appreciated. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> Subject: Re: Not Sure About This... Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:23:47 09/24/24 Tue I think that's a great plan. I always cooked with my mom and as you say loose lips. I didn't always want to help my mom in the kitchen, but I guess it was a mother/daughter bonding type thing. And I learned how to cook. While we were in the kitchen I'm sure I said a lot of things I wished I hadn't. It was just like we were working together, getting busy and getting comfortable and in the process things got said which weren't meant to be said. I think probably you and my mom are geniuses. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Not Sure About This... Author: Concerning [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:46:31 09/24/24 Tue This seems like an excellent approach. And it's Emmie Sue -approved! :) Let's hope she likes eggplant. Any timeframe for doing this little get-together? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Not Sure About This... Author: Aunt Nat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:56:27 09/24/24 Tue In about 3-4 hours. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Not Sure About This... Author: Dana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:46:59 09/24/24 Tue I like that you will not spank unless and until discipline is needed. That is what makes it discipline, not just a kink. If you can develop a trust where she knows she is only getting a spanking because she earned it, then punishment will have real meaning that can help guide her to success. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Not Sure About This... Author: Aunt Nat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:16:09 09/25/24 Wed It's a done deal! The bonding over cooking was a stroke of brilliance, if I do say so myself. Instructing this adorable young lady in the art of cooking and both of us getting our (clean) hands in it and creating something beautiful. My guess is her height in the culinary arts is slapping together a ham sandwich with mayonnaise. I got this idea from Emmie Sue. The ground beef and other ingredients in a skillet, I pulled a wooden spoon from the drawer and held it in front of her. The look on her face was priceless and it was that moment I knew exactly what she was hinting at. I instructed her on stirring the meat holding the spoon firmly in my hand. She did a passable job as well. In the oven for 35-40 minutes we cleaned up our mess and had time to talk. We both sincerely expressed what this experience meant to us and that we felt bonded, although I don't think that word was used. A few laughs, a few childhood memories, moved into the current and she picked up her previous conversation where she had left off, interjecting this experience. I let her do most of the talking and asked a few questions to lead her to spill it. "Well, you know...like...a parent would do." "What would a parent do?" "Well, like...discipline." "And how would they do that?" "Like......spanking." Boom! She said it. At that point our creation was done. We sat down to dinner and after dinner I took the lead and flat out asked her if she was implying that I was the mother figure and if I felt her behavior warranted it, I would turn her over my knees and give her a damn good spanking. Her head went up and down, but I wanted to hear it from her and after a couple of attempts she layed her cards on the table. We layed out a plan of what she wishes to accomplish, her goals, expectations and behavior modification and she is to send me an email, not a text, not a Tik Tok, an email as sort of a daily diary every night. We will meet again on Tuesday October 8 and if I determine she deserves a spanking it will be bare bottom, over my knees with hand and hairbrush. Done, [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Not Sure About This... Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:50:24 09/25/24 Wed Great Aunt Nat. Well played. I'm glad I helped lol. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Not Sure About This... Author: Concerning [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:53:19 09/25/24 Wed This was a complete success for both of you - way to go! When you say she laid her cards on the table --- can you share more of how this conversation went and what she had to say? Do you know if she was raised with spanking and if so until what age? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Not Sure About This... Author: Wondering-supportive [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:17:43 09/25/24 Wed Further to concerning inquiry, how did you arrive at spanking her bare bottom with hand and brush in future? Was that part of the discussion, or is that something you have resolved to do on your own knowing she would be receptive. It already seems that you will be taking your new role seriously by administering a sound spanking if warranted and concluded that the brush will well be needed to make sure the spankings is as harsh as circumstances dictate. You must now be elated!!!!!!!!!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]