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Subject: Modesty Author: Laura82 [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 10:21:50 02/17/25 Mon There are so many posts on line about modesty when you are spanked. That made me think. My knickers always came down and honestly it was the least of my worries. It was just me and dad and waaah But how much allowance should a parent make if it really bothers a girl? I said before about a girl who was allowed to change into a spanking skirt that preserved her modesty once she stood up. But by the same argument why not let us change into a thong. Pausing to giggle as I imagine my brothers in a thong. What allowance should parents make? LOL now why couldn't I leave out the bit that hurts. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Modesty Author: Intrigued to Laura82 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:53:31 02/17/25 Mon At what age did these spankting that were just you dad and waaah continue until? Were these hand spanks over his lap? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Modesty Author: Laura82 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:55:10 02/17/25 Mon Hi Intrigued They started when I was small and pretty much stopped when I went to university at 18. It was usually over his knee, but he used a slipper when I was a teenager. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Modesty Author: Marcey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:13:15 02/17/25 Mon Even though I was spanked naked, modesty was not a big issue. I was much more concerned about the fire that going to be ignited in my butt while I was waiting for the spanking to begin. Once it began, modesty was the last thing on my mind. The only time it became an issue was that moment when I was dancing around before I was led to the corner that I realized what a show I was putting on bouncing around. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Modesty Author: Laura82 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:57:44 02/17/25 Mon OMG Marcey, That sounds bad, way worse than I got it. Why naked? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Modesty Author: Marcey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:00:38 02/18/25 Tue We were usually spanked before bed. So before we put on our pajamas the spankings were given. It wasn't a big issue until we grew older. Then it became a bigger incentive to behave than the sting of the spanking. If you didn't want to have to show it all, you behaved. Was really pretty effective. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Modesty Author: Laura82 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:10:37 02/18/25 Tue eek. That sucks [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Modesty Author: Karin_ven [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:14:55 02/17/25 Mon In my family spankings where given in privacy in the kitchen. During the lecture mom took my jeans and underwear down. From a young age until I left home it was always given that way. I never thought about other possibility’s. Perhaps naive, but getting bared was just a part of it like going over the knee. My underlying was so normal, mom saw it often, I never thought of modesty. Like Laura was saying I had other worries. I knew what that hairbrush in her lap was going to do to my bottom. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Modesty Author: Louise Vancisic Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:45:27 02/18/25 Tue Hi Karin. The kitchen doesn't seem like a private place. Why not your bedroom? Did you have siblings? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Modesty Author: Kevin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:08:58 02/18/25 Tue I will say I agree with Marcey. I don't think spankings work on teenagers without the embarrassment. My girls HATE the way they're spanked. That's why they're spanked that way. On the bare or NAKED. If my girls asked me afterwards why naked? "Why would i let you keep your top on you [did the behavior that led to the spanking]" In the living room sometimes in front of guests. Wearing a thong. That's ok. It's coming down for a spanking. Covering up. If those hands aren't out the way it is worse. When it comes to the pain making modesty a moot point. That's what corner time is for. In the living room. Feet not together. On display. 45 minutes (30-60 for my girls). It's a punishment for a reason. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Modesty Author: Louise Vancisic Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:47:11 02/18/25 Tue Hi Kevin. Which guests? Are you a single dad? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Modesty Author: Kevin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:46:20 02/18/25 Tue I have a partner now but I am a widower and do the discipline. Guests who aren't opposed to spanking. Generally close friends or extended family. My neighbor is a close family friend, I call him my brother. Lately two of my nephews have been hanging out with his friend next door and I will actually ask them "Do you want to see [daughter who's getting spanked] get a spanking?" and they don't mind witnessing. That's the easiest way to be honest because they'll pop in and it only takes someone watching to have the desired effect. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Modesty Author: Louise Vancisic Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:40:40 02/18/25 Tue Hi Laura. I liked the way my parents handled it. Daddy only spanked me over my panties. With mom, it depended on the offense and her perception about whether my offense showed disrespect. Any hint of disrespect meant panties down. With the exception of punishment, they emphasized modesty. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Modesty Author: Laura82 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:55:38 02/19/25 Wed Hi Louise, I certainly didn't like it, but it never occurred to me there was any other way. It was only when I looked at sites like this that it occurred to me that a girl could be spanked over her underwear. I'm sure dad did what he thought was best for me and didn't embarrass me more than he felt was necessary to get the job done. It was always undressed enough to bare my bottom and ouch. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Modesty Author: Grumpy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:52:38 02/23/25 Sun A gal I knew said that it hurt more to get it over nylon panties. Is that true in others experiences? And I wonder how it was in the 1950s females wore girdles? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Modesty Author: Louise Vancisic Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:38:39 02/26/25 Wed It does hurt more but not by much. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Modesty Author: Becky [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:19:35 02/19/25 Wed As a college student as is my brother also we are still spanked as long as we live under mom's roof, and she is supporting us. There is no modesty in our house. Mom feels that watching each other's spanking OTK with hand and paddle is good for both of us. It is embarrassing for both of us especially when she feels we both will be spanked together. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Modesty Author: Becky to Ann [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:42:53 02/19/25 Wed Anna, Are you spanked in front of siblings or anyone else like we are? How are you spanked? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Modesty Author: Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:19:56 02/19/25 Wed I hear you, Becky. Mom says there's no right to modesty for a misbehaving girl. When dad spanks, it def makes it worse. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Modesty Author: Anna to Caroline [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:31:50 02/21/25 Fri Hi Caroline, Just curious, you said your dad lets us keep your panties on for a spanking. Who is us? Do your siblings see you get spanked, and do you see your siblings getting a spanking? I spank in the open and my kids all see each other get their bare bottoms spanked over my knee. Now that they are teenagers, I think a little embarrassment/humiliation is good for them. That includes my college aga daughter also. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Modesty Author: Caroline [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:04:29 02/19/25 Wed My dad would let us leave or panties on, mom would most likely take our panties down if she were the one spanking. I'm glad my dad let me keep my panties on, still hurt plenty though. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Modesty Author: Alfred22 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:10:22 02/21/25 Fri Absolutely you can feel it quite keenly through any normal underwear, male or female. My mother loved to emphasize "bare" when she threatened a spanking. I totally agree that it feels stingier bare. But, all sorts of implements very adequately penetrate even through trousers. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Modesty Author: Lexiewheeler [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:41:17 02/22/25 Sat When I was younger I could care less about modesty and all I was thinking about what was about to happen to my bottom and how much it hurt after. Bare bottom was the only way my parents spanked. There was no negotiation. If I ever begged to keep panties on it was for protection not modesty. When I got older I started to be more embarrassed about baring my bottom but as soon as the spanking started I no longer cared. I just wanted the fire to go away. Then I’d be embarrassed again after but at that point it didn’t matter. My dad and grandad were always considerate and would avert their eyes and were careful about what they had to see, but the pants and panties still came down. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Modesty Author: Bob [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:05:38 02/22/25 Sat Once a child reaches age 14 or so, I would not spank them against their will. Having said that, if they do something wrong they need to be punished. I would give them a choice, a spanking or something else. If the something else was very unpleasant there is a good chance they would take the spanking. In my case, when I did something wrong as a teenager, I was given a choice. Sometimes 3 choices. I did not like being grounded and I did not like the paddle being used on me so the result could be a bare bottom spanking. Personally, I would rather be embarrassed then in terrible pain. In any case, the punishment would still be a good motivator. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Modesty Author: Jan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:51:22 03/11/25 Tue When I get spanked by. My live in boyfriend future husband modesty is not a concern my parents did not spank so I was never convinced about modesty [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Modesty Author: Laura [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:11:56 03/15/25 Sat LOL. Lucky you. It's a bit the opposite for me when it's consensual. Hubby spanked me over my clothes once, I was so offended. It was like he didn't want to see me naked. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Modesty Author: Albert [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:51:18 03/17/25 Mon Someone mentioned wearing a thong so a girl could retain some modesty, and how silly a thong would look on a boy. Twice when I was a teenager and knew my stepmom was going to spank me, I put on a jock strap. She went to take it down and I tried to stop her. I said "my butt is already bare. It's not right for you to take that down and expose the rest of me." Needless to say, I lost the argument both times, and got an extra spanking for trying that. She knew I didn't wear a jock strap except for sports, so I obviously put it on for the spanking. It was always sooo embarrassing. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]