Re: One punishment every other month for 3 teenage girls -- A nice red bottom

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Subject: Re: One punishment every other month for 3 teenage girls

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Dean

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Date Posted: 23:03:58 03/30/25 Sun
In reply to: Bob 's message, "One punishment every other month for 3 teenage girls" on 19:57:56 03/30/25 Sun

I don't think it's good parenting to turn it into a competition and make it so complicated. Either you earn a punishment or not. A bad girl gets a spanking. A good girl doesn't need one. If everyone is bad, all bottoms are red. If all are good, everyone is happier.

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Bob to Dean
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Date Posted: 02:02:34 03/31/25 Mon

I think you are right. The problem is that what deserves a spanking is subjective. As a result, the parent might find a reason to spank each girl every month. I do not consider that good.

Also if you have an older teen who misses curfew by a little frequently, I feel the teen should be punished at some point.

I think there was a young lady by the name of Audrey. She was around 18 and she was on a cross system. When she did something wrong she got one or more crosses. Every week she lost 3 crosses but her count never went below 0. If her cross count got to 25 (I think) she got a spanking. As the story goes, over time her cross count built up and she got a spanking. Do you think that is good? I am not sure how I feel about it.

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Dean
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Date Posted: 17:55:53 03/31/25 Mon

That still sounds too complicated, and if she is misbehaving, why not just handle it right away rather than waiting for the outcome of the cross system game? Doesn't that give her 24 crosses to play with before she has to mind her behavior?

My parents made their decisions in the moment at hand. If a spanking was needed in their opinion, they didn't have to wait for a game to be over. The way it worked in our house, an earned spanking was right away, or that same evening. There was nothing to think about other than don't do that again. Crime and punishment were always clearly connected, and the association with a specific issue remembered. I think it was effective enough, and life didn't revolve around how many crosses we had.

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