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Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Mork and Mindy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 07:01:40 05/04/25 Sun In reply to: Jan R to Louise 's message, "Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on?" on 12:28:56 05/03/25 Sat JanR, how often are you spanked by your dad with the strap, when we the last time, and when was it your uncle saw it? Thank you, Mindy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:01:26 05/04/25 Sun I average a strapping about evy couple months. Sometimes longer, sometimes shorter. The last was toward the end of last year. Nov. if I recall. I gave mom some bad attitude about cleaning up my messy room which I had been asked more than once. Dad overheard and sent me to the study. My uncle was visiting. After my scolding dad instructed me to get ready. Apparently mom asked her brother to stay downstairs while they attended to a "family matter" with Jan. He later told me that he heard the sound of the strap land and my reaction. He snuck upstairs to see and discovered the door to dad's study was not closed all the way. By then dad had given me several licks and my bottom was red and welted. I turned my head and saw my uncle peering in. We made eye contact and he left. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:21:58 05/05/25 Mon It's nice you've been able to go this long without needing the strap. It would be a mistake to think you won't need it again, my own certainly needed a spanking from time to time up until they left home, but both for your parents and yourself may it not be necessary soon. Your uncle was quite wrong to go upstairs and investigate the "family matter" in progress. I'm sure he knew from the sound of the strap landing and your reaction what was happening. I also think your parents bare some responsibility. Not for leaving the door ajar but spanking you at all when he was in the house. Better to have waited a bit. Do you have any sixth sense warning that you'll likely soon be spanked? Either knowing you're acting in a way that's dangerous, or you can tell your mom/dad are getting firmer in expectations? Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:39:33 05/05/25 Mon Dear Mindy, Yes ma'am. I hear you and no I don't think at 16 I have had my last. I'm sure the time to time thing will be the same here. I have read about girls as old as 20 still getting spanked if living at home and making bad decisions. It has also been made clear to me that behavior, not age determines the outcome. Yes, as I get older what is expected of me increases with time. I'm certainly not expected to repeat some of the things I did at 13 or 14. As you know, it's been a few months now and a session on the table stays with you. I think that's the point. BTW I was hanging out with dad upstairs in his study last night and he happened to be conditioning the strap. Even when I know I'm not in trouble, the sight of it makes me nervous. About my uncle. Yes ma'am. He knew EXACTLY what those sounds were. He later told me when we were talking that he was not aware that I was disciplined in the nude. He also was surprised that the door to dad's study was not closed and when he saw that, he could not resist. I do kinda understand that. As far as mom and dad waiting ma'am. I have to take responsibility on that. I was asked if I wanted to wait or get it overwith now. My uncle was there for two more days. I chose to do it when he was still there. I didn't expect him to come up and watch and to be truthful ma'am, the door was the last thing on my mind as dad was getting ready to begin. I'm doing my best to not act dangerous. One of my biggest issues at school was my phone. I only check and come on here when it's safe and I'm not breaking a rule. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:27:34 05/05/25 Mon Hello JanR I'm glad you are being careful with your phone at school etc. I expect that as awful as your dad's strap may be it's helping you keep to the straight and narrow, a better way of living. At least that's what I found when I was getting it growing up and yes, at 20, if needed, I got it. If you could make a choice between the strap and being punished some other way, perhaps grounded, I have two questions. Which do you think would be more beneficial to help you grow to be the person you want to be? Second, and honestly, if you had a choice going forward between the strap or a different punishment, which would you choose? I can totally identify with the sight of the strap making you nervous. Does your dad strap anyone else besides you? Siblings? Your mother? Others? Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:59:51 05/05/25 Mon Dear Mindy, Yes ma'am, I text only when I'm allowed. I do have to make this one quick. I have a few minutes. I really fear that strap ma'am and that's what makes it effective. I would not fear grounding like I do the strap. As much as I hate it, honestly, that strap is very beneficial and I can hardle believe I said that. I hate it, hence isn't that the whole idea? So I guess I would have to say I would choose the strap cuz that is what I really fear and hate. I heard dad threaten mom once. I can't remember what it was. I think she overlooked a bill or something. I heard him say "Well Ann I know how effective the leather is on Jan." Or something like that. He was joking though, well, I think!!!!! I have no siblings so I'm the only one getting spankings here. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:37:00 05/05/25 Mon Hi JanR, I'm surprised there aren't others, especially your mom, who'd get the strap from your dad. He seems quite expert with it and someone who is happy to use it to help others. Plus, a disciplinarian at heart. I have to wonder if he's not had to help your mom with it and the closest you've come to knowing is his mention of how effective it was to your mother. Were either of your mom or dad spanked growing up? At your age? Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:10:19 05/05/25 Mon Dear Mindy, OH yes ma'am. Dad is very skilled with the strap. Dad works a lot from home so when I'm away like at school, who knows. Neither of them have ever said anything. Honestly ma'am, I don't know if either mom or dad got it growing up. That might be a good question for my uncle although that wouldn't tell me about dad. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:53:22 05/06/25 Tue Would it upset you to know your mother sometimes got the strap much as you do? Do you think your uncle would know if your mom gets the strap from your dad? Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]