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Subject: Birthday Spanking Traditions


Author:
Mork and Mindy
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Date Posted: 12:35:00 06/27/25 Fri

In another thread on 'placement' there was a post about an impending birthday spanking in July and I was surprised to find that rather than a few fun stingy smacks it would be far more of a real spanking, although no where near as bad, which would bring tears and remorse. The idea being it covered things during the year which merited a proper spanking but had been missed.

This got me to wondering if others had similar sort of birthday spankings? If so what is the ritual? If not, again what is the ritual.

In our family we have no tradition of birthday spankings.

Mindy

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Jan R to Mindy
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Date Posted: 13:11:11 06/27/25 Fri

Hi Mindy,
Wow, great post. I am also interested in what happens in other families. On another note Mindy since I am posting to you. Yesterday, I posted about my parents rule for me when I go out to our pool and leave the pool to go mack to the house. Well, I said something about my parents rule that I should not have which was brought up. As you know, my dad has come on here, so rather than having him come on here and see what I wrote, I told him. He read my post and we discussed it, in his private study. I will not be going to the pool and laying out in my swimsuit for a few days. I do have shorts I can put on. I probably don't have to spell out what happened. Yes, I deserved it and have apologized to mom and dad. All is forgiven. I thought you might be interested in this little update.

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Belle to Mork and Mindy
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Date Posted: 17:11:41 06/27/25 Fri

My family let the person whose birthday decide how they were going to get spanked for their birthday spanking. They got to pick who did the spanking (siblings could be a spanker on these days), what they got spanked with, the position and how undressed they wanted to be.

It was always fun if I got to spank one of my siblings. It was the only chance I ever got to be a spanker.

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Belle to Mork and Mindy
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Date Posted: 08:42:58 06/28/25 Sat

Yes, the birthday spankee got to pick how hard they were spanked. It was usually somewhere between a light spanking and a punishment one. Like, the bottom would be red but was fine the next day.

Personally, I preferred the harder birthday spankings. I saw it as a way to show how tough I was with a spanking

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Author:
Mork and Mindy
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Date Posted: 09:03:18 06/28/25 Sat

Thanks, Belle, interesting. Do you mind saying what siblings you had? Older, younger? Did your parents also receive birthday spankings? Did the whole family watch?

Again, thanks ...

Mindy

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Belle to Mork and Mindy
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Date Posted: 09:25:58 06/28/25 Sat

The whole family would watch birthday spankings. It was common for punishment spankings to be witnessed. So a birthday spanking was open for everyone to watch.

Im the middle child, one older and one younger sister. Older sister usually kept her underwear on for her birthday spankings. My younger sister usually went full naked. She was one of those kids who seemed to be always running around naked. I varied how I took my birthday spankings, I feel like I was usually in just my bra. I know after 15 or so, I was like, I’ll be naked, whatever. I took the approach of birthday suit for birthday spanking.

Mom got birthday spankings, dad didn’t. It was great fun if mom picked you to spank her. It was like payback for all the spankings she gave us. She usually opted for staying in her underwear.

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Mork and Mindy
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Date Posted: 10:15:54 06/28/25 Sat

Thanks for the reply Belle. Quite outside my family experiences when it comes to spanking.

When your mom was spanked would she opt to be spanked very hard? Would she ever choose your dad to spank her? I suspect she may well have been punishment spanked by your dad at other times. Were you ever aware of her being spanked, or suspected?

Thanks! Mindy

P.S. In your post there's a lot of "ƒâ€šÃ‚¢ÃƒÂ¢Ã¢â‚¬Å" have you any idea why that happens?

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Belle to Mork and Mindy
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Date Posted: 10:25:30 06/28/25 Sat

I have idea why those random Greek looking letters randomly appear. It makes it hard to read posts.

Based off of what I can recall, mom kinda did a rotation of who gave her the birthday spanking. Dad, older sister, me, younger sister. I remember making her bottom very red the times I got to spank her with a brush. It was so much fun

Oh she was spanked for punishment like the rest of us. There were a few times where dad was fed up with all of us and he spanked us all. Mom, my two sisters and me, all crying in the corner, bottoms all red clothes strewn everywhere

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Mork and Mindy
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Date Posted: 10:44:59 06/28/25 Sat

Strange lettering --- I guess the answer is, at least for the two of us, "it's all Greek to me!" lol

Thank you for the information about your mother rotating who spanked her. I'm sure it must have been satisfying to smack her bottom with a hairbrush when it was your turn.

Was the hairbrush the standard instrument of punishment in your home? It was my mother's although she had a strap for when she felt the occasion warranted it.

When your mother was punished, spanked. was that by your dad in private? Would you be aware? Perhaps told your mother was about to be spanked and you should stay downstairs, or something like that?

I'm sorry, I'm sure you've said on other threads I've not read, or remembered, but was your mother or your father, the main spanker of you three girls?

Mindy

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Belle to Mork and Mindy
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Date Posted: 11:12:34 06/28/25 Sat

No worries about all the questions!

Mom favored the brush after she used her hand. So using it on her for her birthday gave me some sense of justice. She also used a paddle for more severe spankings.

Dad would spank her in private sometimes. Which we would hear his belt laying into her bottom. And of course, her cries. Other times, she would be spanked in the family room like us kids were. Those were more often group punishments. When a couple of us earned a spanking on the same day.

I would say mom and dad were both equal spankers. I know I didn’t want dad to spank as he used the belt which hurt so badly! Even now in my 40s, I hate the belt.

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Mork and Mindy
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Date Posted: 08:15:32 06/29/25 Sun

Hi Belle, thank you for your post.

I've been interested in the dynamic of families where mothers are spanked and kids are aware of it since I started to pen-pal with a spanked mother a number of years ago. When she was to be punished it was usually after the evening meal and while she and the kids were doing up the dishes it fell to her to tell them, "after we're finished mommy has to go and see daddy for a spanking so I want you not answer the door, or the phone." It was understood sometimes mommy had to be spanked just as they were. I find it intriguing how normal for them what seemed to me quite bizarre was. Not so much that she was spanked, but how she'd discuss it with her kids, answer their questions.

Mindy

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Franert (To Belle)
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Date Posted: 08:22:04 07/03/25 Thu

Belle, your interesting comments on Birthday Spankings have raised some questions:

Was the Birthday Spanking part of a traditional birthday celebration with cake, presents, singing Happy Birthday, etc? If so, was the Birthday Girl naked the whole time or just for the spanking?

Did the Birthday Girl ever select the paddle or belt as the implement?

Did the Birthday Girl ever select a parent to be the spanker or always a sibling?

Were there ever any extended family or friends that witnessed it?

Does this practice still happen in your family? Or how old were you when it stopped?

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Belle to Franert
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Date Posted: 05:40:52 07/04/25 Fri

Was the Birthday Spanking part of a traditional birthday celebration with cake, presents, singing Happy Birthday, etc? If so, was the Birthday Girl naked the whole time or just for the spanking?

It was after cake and opening presents and such. No, the birthday girl wasn’t naked the whole time. Just for the spanking, if the chose to be naked for the birthday spanking.

Did the Birthday Girl ever select the paddle or belt as the implement?

Oh yes, especially if they picked a sibling as the spanker. They didn’t spank as hard so it was not as painful.

Did the Birthday Girl ever select a parent to be the spanker or always a sibling?
It did happen that the birthday girl picked a parent. Usually, when the birthday girl thought a sibling was angry with them.

Were there ever any extended family or friends that witnessed it?

No extended family witnessed. Nor did any friends.

Does this practice still happen in your family? Or how old were you when it stopped?

My hubby and I did not continue this tradition. I was 17 when it last took place with me.

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Franert (To Belle)
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Date Posted: 10:22:08 07/04/25 Fri

Thank you so much for your quick and detailed reply!

I have to say that your posts on this forum are the best ones!

On one of your posts, you mentioned Maintenance Spankings. If you get a slow day, could you please make a detailed post about them?

As a kid the only Birthday Spankings that I ever saw were the fake ones that my First grade teacher gave to the students on their birthday.

I gave my wife a couple many years ago and she got extremely wet from it, but refused them in later years. I did not force the issue. I do grab or pat her ass on a daily basis and she likes that or I am sure that I would have been told otherwise.

It took many years to get up the nerve to ask her for a Birthday Spanking, but she obliged and continues to do it every year as well as a few times during the year. Always followed by great sex. If no one is around when she asks what I want for my birthday, I tell her all I need is the spanking!

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Belle to Franet
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Date Posted: 10:48:08 07/04/25 Fri

Thank you for your kind words.

Maintenance spankings were once a week. Usually on a weekend. Dad would announce who needed one at dinner, how they were to be dressed, what they would be spanked with. He usually spanked all of us. Mom, older sister, me, younger sister. It was go to room, strip naked, come to family room. He would sit on the couch and take one of us over his knee and us his hand. Our bottoms would be pink or a light red by the end. No tears or anything. Sometimes if one of us felt like we needed more we would ask for a few swats with the brush or paddle. There was no corner time with maintenance spankings but we had to remain naked while everyone was spanked.

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Franert (To Belle)
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Date Posted: 11:02:24 07/04/25 Fri

Thanks for the quick response.

How often did anyone ask for more?

Did they select the implement? and how many swats?

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Belle to Franet
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Date Posted: 13:51:25 07/04/25 Fri

Maybe once a month someone would ask.

Only like 5 swats

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Franert (To Belle)
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Date Posted: 12:44:35 07/05/25 Sat

You have been so good about replying to my questions and I have a big ask, if you are willing to share and can remember.

When you have a slow day, can you give the details of every Birthday Spanking that you received?
(Who gave it,
what implement,
how hard,
what position,
state of undress
and how you felt after)

Also, during a Birthday Spanking, did you ever ask them to spank harder?

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Belle to Franet
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Date Posted: 05:03:03 07/06/25 Sun

Well, I do not recall every birthday spanking. But here are some.

When I was 10 I was in my underwear and a tank top, my mom gave me the spanking with her hand. I felt loved after. I was otk

When I was 11. I was in just my parties. My older sister used the paddle. I went otk. I felt thrilled after

When was 12. I was in my bra and panties. My dad used his hand otk. I felt loved.

When I was 13 I went full naked. My younger sister spanked me. She used a paddle. I bent over a chair as I could not get otk. This was a rush.

When I was 14 I was just in my bra. I had my mom use a brush on me otk. I felt loved.

When I was 15 I was naked. Older sister spanked me with her hand. I went otk.

When it was 16 I was naked. I had dad spank me with the paddle bending over. This was very exciting.

When I was 17, my last one at home, I was naked and mom spanked me otk with the brush. I cried as i felt so cared for.

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Franert (To Belle)
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Date Posted: 06:54:25 07/06/25 Sun

Thanks for the quick and detailed reply.

I promise this is the last question on this topic:
Did you ever ask the spanker to spank harder during the Birthday Spanking? Probably one of your sisters.

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Belle
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Date Posted: 07:48:31 07/06/25 Sun

I never asked

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Mork and Mindy
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Date Posted: 08:37:59 06/28/25 Sat

Thanks JanR and Belle for your replies.

Belle, did they also pick how hard the spanking would be or was it always a light play one, or always a full on spanking?

JanR I'm sorry your 'lame' comment led to ... but, rather than talking about that here, let's keep this thread to birthday spankings and I'll start another one to chat about your 'lame' experience.

Mindy

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Grumpy
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Date Posted: 14:56:06 06/28/25 Sat

How much did birthday spankings from parents resemble the real thing, assuming parents gave real spankings?

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Jan R
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Date Posted: 15:42:03 07/04/25 Fri

Mine is comming up in a couple weeks. Over dad's lap over panties. A pretty good tanning. SEventeen with one to grow on.

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Mork and Mindy
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Date Posted: 10:59:30 07/05/25 Sat

So, around the 19th? Do you mind saying what date? It would be nice to toast you on your 17th and send you a proper Happy Birthday!

Mindy

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Jan R to Mindy
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Date Posted: 11:07:36 07/05/25 Sat

Thank you Mindy.
I don't mind. You're close. It's the 15th.

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Mork and Mindy
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Date Posted: 07:30:01 07/06/25 Sun

Thank you, Jan R

Well, that's a week Tuesday.

The cheers of Happy Birthday you hear will be floating down from MSP.

As I recall the transition from 16 to 18 was awesome. From sometimes still little girl to young woman. You're at the mid-point. Exciting!

Mindy

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Jan R to Mindy
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Date Posted: 08:15:25 07/06/25 Sun

Dear Mindy,
Yes ma'am. I'm excited. Mom told me I'm getting a special present too. I have no idea what it is, she won't tell.

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Mork and Mindy
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Date Posted: 10:57:33 07/06/25 Sun

That is exciting --- bound to be worth a few tears at bedtime. Is that when you'll ask to be spanked? Bedtime? Like 9pm or?

I don't ever remember knowing this far in advance I'd be spanked but when Mork was growing up sometimes he'd go, by train, to spend a few days, weekend in winter, a week or two in summer, with his aunt. She'd meet him at the station and off they'd go to her house. Even when he was older she made a thing about tucking him into bed and he could be sure, the first evening, as she sat beside him she'd ask if he'd been spanked since he was last with her, had he perhaps done things he should have been spanked for but wasn't, might he feel better if she gave him "a little spanking" then to clear the air, that sort of thing.

Pretty much guaranteed, he said, soon he'd be out of bed, PJ bottoms down and his bare bottom up over his aunt's lap for a spanking. Her 'little spankings' weren't as bad as others she'd give him but always brought sobs and tears.

Mork says it was bitter/sweet going to visit his aunt. On one hand he loved being there, small town, a bike to ride on his own all over the place, lots of hugs, etc. but on the other staying with a loving but spanking aunt!

Perhaps like your approaching birthday.

Mindy

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Chris to Mindy
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Date Posted: 15:48:10 07/07/25 Mon

Hello Mindy,

Hopefully you don't mind me replying to your thread here, but I just wanted to say that I really enjoyed reading your story about your husband's visits to his Aunt's house back in his younger days. I would imagine that they are likely warm and special memories.

I have to admit that I am rather envious of him in that regard. I wish that I had an Aunt like that had who doted on me and spanked me. No doubt such trips would have been quite special and memorable.

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Jan R to Mindy
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Date Posted: 11:51:38 07/06/25 Sun

Dear Mindy,
Yes, the BD spanking will be the very last event of the day. Since it's summer and I'm almost 17 my parents don't really have a set bedtime for me. I'm responsible enough to recognize when I need to go to bed. During school it's usually around 9:00 pm. Summertime I stay up a little later. Maybe around 10:00.
When It'd bed time I will go up to my room. I will let mom and dad know I'm going up to bed. I will get undressed and put on a short tee shirt and I will be in my panties. When I'm ready I'll call for them to come up. We will do a group hug and both always tell me one last time of the day, happy BD. Then dad will sit on my bed and I will put myself over his lap. Then it's usually "ready pumpkin?" "Yes daddy." Then with his hand I will get 17 very crisp spanks, one side, then the other, then across both. Then number 18 to grow on, pretty hard. I will have tears but then daddy huggs me so tight and says happy BD and how much they love me. Maybe this sounds weird but I'm actually looking forward.

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Mork and Mindy
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Date Posted: 12:13:38 07/06/25 Sun

Of course it's weird, at least to anyone who doesn't understand the way you and I and most members here do.

To lie across a mom or dad's lap, bottom up, especially bare, and hang on while they spank a good burn into your bottom and bring cleansing sobs and tears, then hugs and love afterwards is a joy and one of life's great mysteries.

Might you consider slipping your panties down and taking it bare? Weird to go bare? Of course, but also special -- at least for me.

Mindy

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Jan R to Mindy
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Date Posted: 13:06:50 07/06/25 Sun

Dear Mindy,
It's interesting that you mention going bare. Yes, I actually have thought about going bare. Up until I started to develop at like 11, my spankings were all across dad's lap in my room fully nude. I don't know if I have the courage to do that now. It certainly isn't required, not for a BD spanking. I'm sure if I did decide to go nude dad would go ahead with the spanking. He might ask if this is what I really want. Have you had BD spankings fully nude?

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Mork and Mindy
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Date Posted: 13:29:17 07/06/25 Sun

Hello, JanR,

Nice to hear from you. No, I've not had a birthday spanking nude, or otherwise. Not a tradition in our family. However, I have had many spankings nude across both mom's and dad's laps and lots bare bottom --- PJs or panties down or off.

We've talked weird and this may seem so but I was both embarrassed to be bare, or nude, but at the same time it seemed an important thing. Presenting myself, my real self, not a pair of panties, for correction. Humbling myself being part of the redemption, clearing the slate, the burning would bring.

So, if you decide you'd like it bare, or nude, I'd think that just fine. It would take courage, but nothing like getting up on the table for the strap!

IF you do decide to ask for it bare, or nude, I suggest you sit down with your dad, mom and dad if it works out, and tell them you've been thinking, at 17, it's time you had your birthday spanking bare, or nude. That it would be more meaningful for you. Would that be okay?

Best when they come upstairs to give it to you everyone knows what to expect.

Mindy

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Jan R to Mindy
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Date Posted: 14:22:27 07/06/25 Sun

Dear Mindy,
It's very embarrassing when I'm told to undress for a real spanking. I also understand what you are saying about redemption too. Boy, you hit the nail on the head when you said humbling. It sure does take courage to get up on the table in position knowing that dad will be using his strap. I'm always in tears before he even starts.

Someone else here said a BD spanking in their BD suit. Man, that will be super embarrassing to talk about getting it fully nude on my BD with mom and dad. I hear what you are saying. I was just gonna maybe surprise them. I'll have to think about that. I have a few days anyway. Maybe up in dad's lap next time I might find the courage to tell him I'm thinking about changing up my BD spanking a little. I do kinds feel more brave up in his lap if that makes any sense.

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Mork and Mindy
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Date Posted: 05:05:30 07/07/25 Mon

Of course it makes more sense.

I'd suggest, not nude, but bare. Either from waist down or panties / PJ bottoms at your knees, ankles. And, talk to them now, ask them for their thoughts?

You can always suggest it as a one time thing, to try and see if it makes it a better, more redemptive, experience.

The big thing is when you get the strap, it's imposed on you. This spanking will be more of a joint one. Something for your own good you and mom and dad talk about and agree on together before it happens.

Do let us know what you decide.

Mindy

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Jan R to Mindy
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Date Posted: 06:37:59 07/07/25 Mon

Dear Mindy,
Well, I did talk to mom and daddy last night. IDK, I just kinda felt brave so I hopped up into dad's lap and brought up the traditional BD spanking and we started talking. I told him about my thoughts. He just smiled and said"Pumpkin, whatever you decide, it's your BD!" So I still don't know. I could always ask dad to wedgie my panties before he starts. That way my bottom is bare but I'm still covered. I have till the 15th.

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Louise Vancisic Vancisic
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Date Posted: 06:33:11 07/08/25 Tue

Hi Jan. I feel that your birthday spankings make you and your dad feel closer. Does he spank you with his hand? I hope you keep your panties on? Do you wear a special dress for your birthday spanking?

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Jan R to Louise
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Date Posted: 06:47:06 07/08/25 Tue

Hi Louise,
Yes ma'am. They do. Does that make sense? Yes it's always with his hand as these are not real disciplinary spankings. Yes I am allowed my panties. Nothing special for my BD spanking. It happens just before bed. The last event of the day. I'm in a tee shirt and panties.

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Joe
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Date Posted: 18:18:32 07/06/25 Sun

I had a friend in jr high, Carl who had one younger sister and one older sister. Their family used “reverse” birthday spankings meaning the child who’s birthday it was got to pick one sibling and give THEM a spanking!
All spankings were over the lap on panties/underpants and the birthday bo/girl would deliver their new age in spanks to the chosen sibling and the traditional “one to grow on.”
Carl felt it was unfair because both his sisters ALWAYS chose to spank Carl, neer each other and Carl said he was always embarrassed cus the girls would tug his undies up between his cheeks to bare them.
Carl most always chose to spank his older sister “cus she teases me and her butt was super cute!"

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