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Subject: Birthday Spanking Traditions Author: Mork and Mindy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 12:35:00 06/27/25 Fri In another thread on 'placement' there was a post about an impending birthday spanking in July and I was surprised to find that rather than a few fun stingy smacks it would be far more of a real spanking, although no where near as bad, which would bring tears and remorse. The idea being it covered things during the year which merited a proper spanking but had been missed. This got me to wondering if others had similar sort of birthday spankings? If so what is the ritual? If not, again what is the ritual. In our family we have no tradition of birthday spankings. Mindy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Birthday Spanking Traditions Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:11:11 06/27/25 Fri Hi Mindy, Wow, great post. I am also interested in what happens in other families. On another note Mindy since I am posting to you. Yesterday, I posted about my parents rule for me when I go out to our pool and leave the pool to go mack to the house. Well, I said something about my parents rule that I should not have which was brought up. As you know, my dad has come on here, so rather than having him come on here and see what I wrote, I told him. He read my post and we discussed it, in his private study. I will not be going to the pool and laying out in my swimsuit for a few days. I do have shorts I can put on. I probably don't have to spell out what happened. Yes, I deserved it and have apologized to mom and dad. All is forgiven. I thought you might be interested in this little update. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Birthday Spanking Traditions Author: Belle to Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:11:41 06/27/25 Fri My family let the person whose birthday decide how they were going to get spanked for their birthday spanking. They got to pick who did the spanking (siblings could be a spanker on these days), what they got spanked with, the position and how undressed they wanted to be. It was always fun if I got to spank one of my siblings. It was the only chance I ever got to be a spanker. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Birthday Spanking Traditions Author: Belle to Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:42:58 06/28/25 Sat Yes, the birthday spankee got to pick how hard they were spanked. It was usually somewhere between a light spanking and a punishment one. Like, the bottom would be red but was fine the next day. Personally, I preferred the harder birthday spankings. I saw it as a way to show how tough I was with a spanking [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Birthday Spanking Traditions Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:03:18 06/28/25 Sat Thanks, Belle, interesting. Do you mind saying what siblings you had? Older, younger? Did your parents also receive birthday spankings? Did the whole family watch? Again, thanks ... Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Birthday Spanking Traditions Author: Belle to Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:25:58 06/28/25 Sat The whole family would watch birthday spankings. It was common for punishment spankings to be witnessed. So a birthday spanking was open for everyone to watch. Im the middle child, one older and one younger sister. Older sister usually kept her underwear on for her birthday spankings. My younger sister usually went full naked. She was one of those kids who seemed to be always running around naked. I varied how I took my birthday spankings, I feel like I was usually in just my bra. I know after 15 or so, I was like, I’ll be naked, whatever. I took the approach of birthday suit for birthday spanking. Mom got birthday spankings, dad didn’t. It was great fun if mom picked you to spank her. It was like payback for all the spankings she gave us. She usually opted for staying in her underwear. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Birthday Spanking Traditions Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:15:54 06/28/25 Sat Thanks for the reply Belle. Quite outside my family experiences when it comes to spanking. When your mom was spanked would she opt to be spanked very hard? Would she ever choose your dad to spank her? I suspect she may well have been punishment spanked by your dad at other times. Were you ever aware of her being spanked, or suspected? Thanks! Mindy P.S. In your post there's a lot of "ƒâ€šÃ‚¢ÃƒÂ¢Ã¢â‚¬Å" have you any idea why that happens? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Birthday Spanking Traditions Author: Belle to Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:25:30 06/28/25 Sat I have idea why those random Greek looking letters randomly appear. It makes it hard to read posts. Based off of what I can recall, mom kinda did a rotation of who gave her the birthday spanking. Dad, older sister, me, younger sister. I remember making her bottom very red the times I got to spank her with a brush. It was so much fun Oh she was spanked for punishment like the rest of us. There were a few times where dad was fed up with all of us and he spanked us all. Mom, my two sisters and me, all crying in the corner, bottoms all red clothes strewn everywhere [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Birthday Spanking Traditions Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:44:59 06/28/25 Sat Strange lettering --- I guess the answer is, at least for the two of us, "it's all Greek to me!" lol Thank you for the information about your mother rotating who spanked her. I'm sure it must have been satisfying to smack her bottom with a hairbrush when it was your turn. Was the hairbrush the standard instrument of punishment in your home? It was my mother's although she had a strap for when she felt the occasion warranted it. When your mother was punished, spanked. was that by your dad in private? Would you be aware? Perhaps told your mother was about to be spanked and you should stay downstairs, or something like that? I'm sorry, I'm sure you've said on other threads I've not read, or remembered, but was your mother or your father, the main spanker of you three girls? Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Birthday Spanking Traditions Author: Belle to Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:12:34 06/28/25 Sat No worries about all the questions! Mom favored the brush after she used her hand. So using it on her for her birthday gave me some sense of justice. She also used a paddle for more severe spankings. Dad would spank her in private sometimes. Which we would hear his belt laying into her bottom. And of course, her cries. Other times, she would be spanked in the family room like us kids were. Those were more often group punishments. When a couple of us earned a spanking on the same day. I would say mom and dad were both equal spankers. I know I didn’t want dad to spank as he used the belt which hurt so badly! Even now in my 40s, I hate the belt. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Birthday Spanking Traditions Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:15:32 06/29/25 Sun Hi Belle, thank you for your post. I've been interested in the dynamic of families where mothers are spanked and kids are aware of it since I started to pen-pal with a spanked mother a number of years ago. When she was to be punished it was usually after the evening meal and while she and the kids were doing up the dishes it fell to her to tell them, "after we're finished mommy has to go and see daddy for a spanking so I want you not answer the door, or the phone." It was understood sometimes mommy had to be spanked just as they were. I find it intriguing how normal for them what seemed to me quite bizarre was. Not so much that she was spanked, but how she'd discuss it with her kids, answer their questions. Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Birthday Spanking Traditions Author: Franert (To Belle) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:22:04 07/03/25 Thu Belle, your interesting comments on Birthday Spankings have raised some questions: Was the Birthday Spanking part of a traditional birthday celebration with cake, presents, singing Happy Birthday, etc? If so, was the Birthday Girl naked the whole time or just for the spanking? Did the Birthday Girl ever select the paddle or belt as the implement? Did the Birthday Girl ever select a parent to be the spanker or always a sibling? Were there ever any extended family or friends that witnessed it? Does this practice still happen in your family? Or how old were you when it stopped? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Birthday Spanking Traditions Author: Belle to Franert [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:40:52 07/04/25 Fri Was the Birthday Spanking part of a traditional birthday celebration with cake, presents, singing Happy Birthday, etc? If so, was the Birthday Girl naked the whole time or just for the spanking? It was after cake and opening presents and such. No, the birthday girl wasn’t naked the whole time. Just for the spanking, if the chose to be naked for the birthday spanking. Did the Birthday Girl ever select the paddle or belt as the implement? Oh yes, especially if they picked a sibling as the spanker. They didn’t spank as hard so it was not as painful. Did the Birthday Girl ever select a parent to be the spanker or always a sibling? It did happen that the birthday girl picked a parent. Usually, when the birthday girl thought a sibling was angry with them. Were there ever any extended family or friends that witnessed it? No extended family witnessed. Nor did any friends. Does this practice still happen in your family? Or how old were you when it stopped? My hubby and I did not continue this tradition. I was 17 when it last took place with me. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Birthday Spanking Traditions Author: Franert (To Belle) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:22:08 07/04/25 Fri Thank you so much for your quick and detailed reply! I have to say that your posts on this forum are the best ones! On one of your posts, you mentioned Maintenance Spankings. If you get a slow day, could you please make a detailed post about them? As a kid the only Birthday Spankings that I ever saw were the fake ones that my First grade teacher gave to the students on their birthday. I gave my wife a couple many years ago and she got extremely wet from it, but refused them in later years. I did not force the issue. I do grab or pat her ass on a daily basis and she likes that or I am sure that I would have been told otherwise. It took many years to get up the nerve to ask her for a Birthday Spanking, but she obliged and continues to do it every year as well as a few times during the year. Always followed by great sex. If no one is around when she asks what I want for my birthday, I tell her all I need is the spanking! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Birthday Spanking Traditions Author: Belle to Franet [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:48:08 07/04/25 Fri Thank you for your kind words. Maintenance spankings were once a week. Usually on a weekend. Dad would announce who needed one at dinner, how they were to be dressed, what they would be spanked with. He usually spanked all of us. Mom, older sister, me, younger sister. It was go to room, strip naked, come to family room. He would sit on the couch and take one of us over his knee and us his hand. Our bottoms would be pink or a light red by the end. No tears or anything. Sometimes if one of us felt like we needed more we would ask for a few swats with the brush or paddle. There was no corner time with maintenance spankings but we had to remain naked while everyone was spanked. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Birthday Spanking Traditions Author: Franert (To Belle) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:02:24 07/04/25 Fri Thanks for the quick response. How often did anyone ask for more? Did they select the implement? and how many swats? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Birthday Spanking Traditions Author: Belle to Franet [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:51:25 07/04/25 Fri Maybe once a month someone would ask. Only like 5 swats [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Birthday Spanking Traditions Author: Sara [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:03:39 07/04/25 Fri Wow, wasn't it totally embarrassing to be nude in front of your dad like that? Did it get worse as you got older? Were you allowed to cover while you waited? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Birthday Spanking Traditions Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:37:59 06/28/25 Sat Thanks JanR and Belle for your replies. Belle, did they also pick how hard the spanking would be or was it always a light play one, or always a full on spanking? JanR I'm sorry your 'lame' comment led to ... but, rather than talking about that here, let's keep this thread to birthday spankings and I'll start another one to chat about your 'lame' experience. Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Birthday Spanking Traditions Author: Grumpy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:56:06 06/28/25 Sat How much did birthday spankings from parents resemble the real thing, assuming parents gave real spankings? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Birthday Spanking Traditions Author: Jan R [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:42:03 07/04/25 Fri Mine is comming up in a couple weeks. Over dad's lap over panties. A pretty good tanning. SEventeen with one to grow on. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]