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Subject: Re: lifelong discipline


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Ross M
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Date Posted: 15:52:29 09/08/25 Mon
In reply to: Gisela 's message, "lifelong discipline" on 23:29:51 09/07/25 Sun

I would absolutely take on the responsibility of disciplining my wife, but only if she responded to it well. Although I have spanked my wife as a consequence for misbehavior, it was really foreplay for sex. She is not the type to accept a spanking as actual punishment that is not for the purpose of sex. But I would be a real disciplinarian if she was accepting of domestic discipline in our marriage.

I do not require this in a relationship. I was also raised in the 50s/60s, but I believe in equal rights for women, including her right to choose to be independent.

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Alison
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Date Posted: 08:26:36 09/15/25 Mon

i was spanked periodically as a girl, then a young teen, by my mom, who always did it, as she was alone as a parent after my father passed. She was introduced to my now stepfather when i was 13.. From the time they married, i was introduced to regular rules and punishment, and hearing my mom regularly punished in their bedroom, until i left the house, to move in with my fiance. My mother told me stepdad believed in a firm hand, and i found when i went to college, while i did not miss being shamed, bare and in pain, that i was not as "good" as i needed to be. i procrastinated, stayed out late, and my grades suffered. Something that was dealt with when home from college and my grades were known.

i was introduced to my now fiance, at a church function. he is 5 years older than me, and after talks between him and my stepfather, it was made clear that once i moved in with him, that i would have rules, spot discipline for breaking rules, as well as a weekly maintenance session, known tongue in cheek as "date night" - while i dont look forward to it, i find i am a better fiance and adult with it in my life.. As stated earlier by someone, there are not many men who i would ever allow this from, and society does seem to still view this as kink or abuse..

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