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Subject: Re: lifelong discipline Author: Alison [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 08:26:36 09/15/25 Mon In reply to: Gisela 's message, "lifelong discipline" on 23:29:51 09/07/25 Sun i was spanked periodically as a girl, then a young teen, by my mom, who always did it, as she was alone as a parent after my father passed. She was introduced to my now stepfather when i was 13.. From the time they married, i was introduced to regular rules and punishment, and hearing my mom regularly punished in their bedroom, until i left the house, to move in with my fiance. My mother told me stepdad believed in a firm hand, and i found when i went to college, while i did not miss being shamed, bare and in pain, that i was not as "good" as i needed to be. i procrastinated, stayed out late, and my grades suffered. Something that was dealt with when home from college and my grades were known. i was introduced to my now fiance, at a church function. he is 5 years older than me, and after talks between him and my stepfather, it was made clear that once i moved in with him, that i would have rules, spot discipline for breaking rules, as well as a weekly maintenance session, known tongue in cheek as "date night" - while i dont look forward to it, i find i am a better fiance and adult with it in my life.. As stated earlier by someone, there are not many men who i would ever allow this from, and society does seem to still view this as kink or abuse.. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: lifelong discipline Author: Kevinbr4 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:47:54 09/27/25 Sat Greetings. Re this topic, I have experience. First of all, I believe that girls should be firmly disciplined regularly well into their 20's and beyond into thier adulthood. I have had many twenty something female friends that still get it at home. They make wonderful friends. They are mature and respectful. Some of us go back to the old Yahoo days. And I have had plenty of older women that still get it too. In fact, I mentor select women from time to time. All ages.Even seniors. Moms, wives, etc. I am a very firm disciplinarian for them. I even disciplined an elderly dying woman who wanted to get the hairbrush the way her Mom used to lovingly give it to her. I believe that with love, many women of all ages do very well with domestic disciplining. It can be very emotionally and physically bonding. I have close friends with whole families where all the older daughters and the Mom gets it regularly. Of course it is not for every young lady. I'm not saying this. But if I/we had daughters, yes, they would be. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: lifelong discipline Author: Gisela to Kevin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:21:58 09/28/25 Sun Of course it is not for every young lady. I'm not saying this. Perhaps it really isn't for all young ladies. But the crucial question is who decides that. In my life and my social circle, the girls and women who were disciplined weren't asked. It would be downright absurd to ask the person being punished whether she agrees to the necessary punishment. Even though, in my experience, you would surprisingly often hear a "yes." But that was decided by men. Their fathers, and later their husbands. That may sound terribly old-fashioned, but I think it's exactly right only this way. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: lifelong discipline Author: stephany [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:06:25 03/25/26 Wed I'm 21, living at home and still punished with the cane. Never asked if I wished this, but I think I need it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: lifelong discipline Author: Kev [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:10:35 04/13/26 Mon Hi Stephany. Sweet. My Dear Mom used her cane/rod on her five girls until they were around age 19, and left home. BTW. All the girls did just fine. Had nice families, etc. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: lifelong discipline Author: Kev [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:06:14 04/13/26 Mon Hi Gisela. Oh yes, the young ladies do consent to this. For example, older girls who want to return home, but must agree to be disciplined under the While living under our roof rule. Most older girls agree, and even say that it helps them with bonding and thier behavior. I have had so many of these 20 somethings for good friends. Even older women. (I mentor select women from time to time). Most all of them are in consent. Trust me. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: lifelong discipline Author: Kevinbr4 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:33:42 09/28/25 Sun Interesting. As you mentioned, many will say yes. So no crucial question. For most 20 somethings, true. The parents have decided to continue the young ladies disciplining. However, I know many young ladies who have moved back home and have agreed to being disciplined again. So you can't say that it would be crazy to expect someone to agree to be punished. Furthermore, I know plenty of families where the Moms and the 20 something daughters WANT this For their family. Even with my spanked children friends on here, they all share with me that they want to have strict parents. Just not at spanking time. So I think that yours views on this subject are very old fashioned, as you mentioned. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]