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Subject: Speeding Ticket Author: Anna [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 04:38:15 09/30/25 Tue Has anyone else been spanked as a teenager or young adult by their parents for getting a ticket? My 19-year-old daughter received her second speeding ticket yesterday. The first one was back in January of this year. I warned her then that if she received another ticket that there would be consequences. When I saw that she was doing 60mph in a school zone I became angry. Not only is the fine doubled but she must appear in traffic court. In MOM'S court she was spanked OTK on her bare bottom with hand and paddle and had her car taken away for two weeks. Traffic court is in three weeks. If she was your daughter, would you have done the same as I did? If not, how would you have handled it? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Speeding Ticket Author: Beth (Swikart) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:51:19 09/30/25 Tue This never happened to me because I am careful to not speed but I have friends who's parents give them the number of swats above the speed limit. So in a 20 mile zone if they go 60 then they would get 40 swats with a paddle on the bare. You did a great job. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Speeding Ticket Author: Anna to Beth Swikart [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:49:37 09/30/25 Tue Hi Beth, I like your friends' discipline for speeding. I think the next child who is caught speeding I will try that method. Just curious what was the most swats given for speeding from your friend? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Speeding Ticket Author: CaringThroughAction [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:41:58 09/30/25 Tue Anna, great job handling this with your daughter. I had a similar situation with the 19 y/o college student I was mentoring. She had been pulled over by the CHP for doing 95 in a 65. She was given a warning. I asked her about it because I noticed her pulled over off the freeway on Life360. I always took safety issues seriously and discussed the unsafe aspects of this event with her, how she was still too new of a driver to be going that fast, and made sure she understood the reasons why she was getting a very thorough spanking. I never yelled when "lecturing"... Her pants and undies came off and she was thoroughly hand spanked across my lap then given 25 lashes with the belt bent over the edge of the bed... 15 on her bottom and another 10 across sit spot areas and her upper thighs. I was considering an enema after as well but decided to use that if she repeated the offense. I think that can add additional impact, humility, and discomfort by sitting on the toilet for several minutes. Like I said, I will not mince words and actions around very unsafe choices. In your case, I'd have considered giving her a second spanking and belting the next day. Personally, I am big on major consequences for bad choices that can threaten her life, or a child's life. I think it's also important to drive home a message. We're all different in how we approach things. Like, I would not spank for every little thing. But if it was a big issue (60 in a 25/school is a big issue IMO), I am not beyond breaking up a punishment into one or more sessions. But that should be a very infrequent thing. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Speeding Ticket Author: Vicky [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:08:16 09/30/25 Tue Anna: Yes, I was spanked for a speeding ticket as was my brother decades ago. He was older than me and I when it happened I vowed to myself that I'd make sure I didn't do the same. I was pretty careful about speed until one day when travelling to a shopping mall with a friend. I was talking too much and not paying attention. I saw the police carr's flashing lights behind me and thought oh shit I almost peed myself. Then I looked at the speedometer and thought what the heck I'm only going 58 mph that isn't that bad. When I said that to my girlfriend she said Vicky I think you are in a school zone I aw a 30 mph limit. We were in a rural area but we had gone by a school not that it was in session as it was the summer. So far as the police and my mom were concerned that didn't matter. I received a ticket and a panties down spanking at 17. It was a sizzler believe me. It ruined my shopping day with my friend, I was fretting what was to come the whole time. I was also pretty angry with myself for not paying attention. The spanking got my attention believe me. Safety violations always got us a sizzler of a spanking and that was no exception. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Speeding Ticket Author: Lurker [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:52:06 09/30/25 Tue Vicky did you have any other siblings? Did you see any of them get spanked? If so do any stand out as especially memorable to you? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Speeding Ticket Author: Anna to Vicky [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:35:01 09/30/25 Tue Hi Vicky, Any type of safety issue is an automatic spanking. Like you she was distracted talking to her sister and not paying attention to her speed. Thankfully school had not been let out for the day. I like how you say your spanking was a sizzler. It must have been an OTK with an implement, just like my daughter received. Was that your last spanking? How old was your brother when he got his ticket. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Speeding Ticket Author: Vicky [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:29:44 09/30/25 Tue It was a very thorough spanking. Hand then hairbrush OTK, then six licks of the strap which sent me completely wailing. My brother's was when he was 18 and it was much the same. Strap was a nasty implement and we all feared it. Thoughts of it is likely why I almost peed myself when I saw the flashers. I knew what was coming. Fair warning to teens out there. Driving is serious business don't let your guard down you need to pay attention ALL the time, don't get distracted by friends and don't you dare answer the phone while driving unless it is hands free. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Speeding Ticket Author: Anna to Vicky [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:34:21 10/01/25 Wed Hi Vicky I agree with you talking on their cell phone when driving is another automatic spanking. In our state if caught talking on phone while driving it is a $150.00 fine. Mom's fine is a serious hand and paddle bare bottom spanking. So far, they have obeyed that rule that I know of. Was that the same for your brother and you from your parents? My 18 yr old nephew was ticketed for talking on his phone and besides having to pay the fine out of his savings, my brother strapped his bare bottom. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Speeding Ticket Author: Jen [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:00:22 10/01/25 Wed Hard to believe that CHP didn't give her a ticket for doing 95! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Speeding Ticket Author: CaringThroughAction [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:30:15 10/01/25 Wed I was surprised as well given the speed. CHP's policy is "officer discretion" for many speeding violations, so it all depends on the officer, male in this case, who was "cute" according to her. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Speeding Ticket Author: Dana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:20:12 09/30/25 Tue When I was old enough to drive (17), I was old enough to understand that if caught speeding, there were penalties involved, including losing your license. At that age, I'm not sure I fully appreciated the danger of speeding, but there was no need for corporal punishment for me to drive safely. If my "child" was caught speeding, I would give one warning, and then not allow them to drive. It's too risky any other way. Maybe where you live, the state is too lenient with people who drive dangerously. If your daughter refuses to follow the law, and is endangering herself and others, she needs to be taken off the road until she is ready to be an adult. It is a serious issue, and the state cannot depend on bad drivers being spanked by their parents. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: oh fuck me Author: Emily Travers [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:16:05 10/01/25 Wed You are clearly an abusive parent, so no, you did a criminally shitty job with this. She is an adult; pay the fine and move on. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Speeding Ticket Author: Jennifer [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:36:39 10/07/25 Tue I responded to another post as Jen but a saw another Jen so I will use Jennifer I just turned 18 and am a senior in high school deep in the heart of Texas I never got a ticket of any type but I would get a paddling from my mom a single mom . I do not need the paddle often but I get it and accept it . I am cheerleader love my school I make the A B honor role a lot . [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Speeding Ticket Author: Will [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:34:55 10/10/25 Fri A spanking the night before the court date would be a wake up call for sure.Did that to a lady before she went to court. Those benches are hard.And the strap was waiting when she got back, [ Post a Reply to This Message ]