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Subject: What is said Author: Marcey [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 07:53:30 05/21/25 Wed I was always interested at what people said while being spanked, giving a spanking or witnessing one. As siblings watching a spanking saying anything or reacting was strictly forbidden. If we did the spanking of the person would stop and we would take their place. So smirking and things were avoided at all costs. My brothers were always great at saying things. My oldest brother would cry out, “It HURTS!” which would result in my mother spanking him harder and replying he hadn’t begun to understand what hurting was. My youngest brother would call out about mid-spanking ‘PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE!” to which my mother would reply I think I heard you say please spank me longer, please spank me harder, please spank me starting over again. I used to cry out that the spanking was killing me. That made my mother laugh and keep on spanking. My sister would beg “NOT SO HARD!” which got the response that my mother never heard of a soft spanking. The worst thing to hear was from my grandmother who would say: 1. Are you going to start spanking him/her for real soon? 2. That bottom needs to bright red rather than pink dear. 3. Those sit spots and thighs seem to be begging for attention. 4. And the worst was “Give me that brush and send him/her to me because it looks like you missed a few spots.” Any others out there? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: What is said Author: Jan R to Marcey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:04:02 05/21/25 Wed "PLEASE DADDY, THAT STRAP IS BURNING SOOOOO BAD!!" "Well Jan I'm getting the message across then aren't I." [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: What is said Author: Louise Vancisic Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:39:03 05/21/25 Wed I wasn't allowed to "complain" about being spanked. So Id force myself to limit my words to "Please Mommy", "I'll be good" and various promises to always be a good girl. I'd also promise not to repeat the offense that led to the spanking. Mom and Dad used that to judge if I was truly sorry for what I'd done. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: What is said Author: Grumpy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:45:37 05/21/25 Wed I overheard a mom saying “Why?/Why?/Why? over and over again with each spank. My ex said that when her younger sis was being spanked, she said “My sunburn!” After which her which her mom paused to ask what. “My sunburn!” came the reply. Mom: “Good, let’s make you red all over,” and continued. Then there is the pause and the “Have you learned your lesson?” question. “Yes, YES Mommy!,” followed by the occasional dreaded response, “Let’s make sure,” and more spanking. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: What is said Author: Jan R [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:05:12 05/21/25 Wed Actually, Begging and pleading is the last thing you want to do. I know, I do it. Unfortunately that just reinforces to our parents that they are on the right track and to keep on going. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: What is said Author: Jan R to Louise [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:23:51 05/23/25 Fri I see your point about defiance. I don't have to worry about that anyway because I always beg and plead. How can you not. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: What is said Author: Louise Vancisic Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:59:40 05/23/25 Fri I think it's better to beg and plead. Trying to stay silent can come across as defiance. I was all too familiar with the "let's make sure" observation. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: What is said Author: Lessja [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:16:20 05/25/25 Sun > Trying to stay silent can come across as defiance. That was a bad experience I made as an adult spankee. In my kinky circle, silence was usually seen as an expression of submission just like staying in position and following instructions. There's a limit to how long you can suffer in silence, but an effort to stay quiet as long as possible was expected and demanded. Eventually, I got punished by someone who saw it just the other way around. It hurt when she called me a "defiant little bitch" for not showing enough reaction. In that case, the problem was a lack of communication and clear expectations. Parental spankings are probably different. My own parents didn't spank, but I imagine you quickly learn what your parents expect from you during a spanking and you can adjust to that. What might be difficult is switching "modes" between parents if they have different expectations of how you should react to a spanking. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: What is said Author: Louise Vancisic Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:42:38 05/28/25 Wed Lessja. I didn't have that problem with my parents. They both demanded total submission. I suspect that my crying and pleading and promising to be a good girl was quite pleasing to them. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: What is said Author: Renee [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:54:27 05/23/25 Fri For me it was always “not here!…NOT in front of him/her/them/everyone whenever mom spanked me with witnesses. Her comments played on my shame, “Yes, in front of them. A good bare bottom spanking, right here, right now,” as she was pulling my panties down. “But don’t worry, once I set your bottom on fire you’ll forget all about what everyone can see." She was right, at least until the end of my spanking dance when the humiliation set in. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: What is said Author: Deanna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:31:35 05/31/25 Sat Once the spanking started the only sound was the paddle hitting my bottom and me crying loud if my sisters were not in trouble talking was not allowed and my dad talked during the lecture [ Post a Reply to This Message ]