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Subject: Re: Embarrassment Can Be Very Powerful


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Helen to Megan
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Date Posted: 12:10:47 01/01/25 Wed
In reply to: Megan 's message, "Re: Embarrassment Can Be Very Powerful" on 22:12:37 12/26/24 Thu

Over this past summer my 12 year old son was spanked bare bottom by his aunt in front of his sister and a few of his cousins for deliberate disobedience. He asked if he could go put on some undershorts and return for the public spanking with his modesty protected, but he was not spared the exposure and blushed beet red upon learning his swim trunks were going to come off in front of all the girls.

My sister explained it in a way I couldn’t find fault with: she needed to take him down a peg and make an example of him as a deterrent to the other kids against similar disobedience. She actually pointed out, in that moment while scolding him, that he was blushing in shame at the very thought of his swimsuit coming off with the other kids watching, which was all the evidence she needed that the punishment fit the crime and would serve as an effective deterrent.

It was a very powerful and necessary demonstration of her authority. She enforced the bare bottom spanking and made the conscious choice to enforce the punishment in front of the other kids. In that regard, I can relate to #1.

#2 and #3 and #5 are not common elements in my family. #4 I witnessed on a couple occasions with a family friend spanking her son and daughter in front of me and my children but it isn’t routine practice in my family.

As for being spanked in front of younger cousins, when my oldest nephew was 13 he threw sand into my daughters face (she was 10 at the time). After careful deliberation, he was sentenced to a bare bottom spanking in front of his victim and 2 of his other little cousins. He was going to be spanked over undershorts on account of turning 13 but I made the request that he would be spanked bare bottom which his parents agreed to and instead of belting him gave him what I believe was his very last traditional otk hand spanking. I don’t think he has or ever will forgive me for making that request. Being a few years older than his cousins, on that day he was given a harsh dose of reality that he was still a little kid like them. Needless to say, and to say the least, there were tears by the end.

Sammi, I’m coming to you. I’ll get there.

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Re: Embarrassment Can Be Very PowerfulMary to Helen13:17:10 01/01/25 Wed


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