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>As I said above, my husband and I did NOT use actual >cornertime beforehand when either of our girls earned >a spanking. Instead we used something similar we >called "alone tome," which came primarily before, but >also a bit immediately following a spanking. > >When one of our girls did something that warranted a >spanking, we immediately used a stern voice to stop >the behavior. We then immediately told her she was to >get a spanking, and we sent her to her bedroom. Alone >time before a spanking was not very long, probably >just 10-15 minutes most times, but this was, in my >opinion, very important for several reasons. > >First, my husband and I agreed that alone time gave >them a bit of time to reflect on their own before the >spanking. Once a spanking was pronounced, it was >crucial to follow throigh. This was how my parents >handled my spankings, and to this day (almost 37 years >since my final childhood spanking), I can still recall >the waiting and dreading the spanking that was sure to >come. More importantly, I remember sitting on my bed, >thinking to myself how easily I could have avoided all >the woe, anxiety, and fretting over the terrible sting >to come had I simply used my own better judgment. Even >at age 12 (when I got my final spanking), I didn't >understand that these thoughts were part of a >self-discipline that I needed to use in the future. I >have no doubt our girls did some similar fretting and >reflection during their own pre-spanking alone time. > >The second reason my husband and I belived that 10-15 >minute pause was important was so that we could use a >bit of time to calm down and prepare ourselves for >what needed to be done. There's lots of discussion of >never spanking in anger, and to a great degree I >believe that's a good goal. However, there were >plenty of times one of my girls did something that had >me seeing stars and there was somtimes a temptation to >spank immediately. So, after she was sent to her >room, I was always able to sit down, breathe, and calm >down enough to prepare to spank properly. > >Let me reiterate, my husband and I both absolutely >HATED when we had to give a spanking. However, I will >add, we learned that little girls are not always made >of sugar, spice, and all things nice. While that >alone time for mom or dad was important to calm down, >I never let it make me so sympathetic that I let one >of them out of a spanking. And even though my husband >doded on, and treated them like true "Daddy's Girls," >when he decided one needed a spanking he similarly >took that 10 minutes to prepare himself. Then, we >went to the bedroom where a naughty girl was waiting >to follow through)...more in another post.
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