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>Mark, > >The attempted escapes do not necessarily have to do >with complying or not complying, I think it has to do >with at times they are not in control of their bodies >and it is a reaction. The escape attempt is something >both of my boys have done and Cordelia is right they >have no control over when they do and are trying >anything to get their bottom away from our brush. > >I do the baring and I have to help them get across my >lap as they are understandably a little hesitant. > >I pin their right hand to their back before I spank >and the leg lock won't do anything to help to stop >them from blocking with their hand or am I not >understanding the question? > >I use pre spanking corner time, I think corner time is >essential I never used it until coming to Mary's forum >many years ago. I use it before to give them time to >think about why they are about to be spanked as I sit >and enjoy the view of the bottom I am about to spank >and they will at times be weepy or crying as Stanley >the youngest will and if time permits they have corner >time after their spanking and they do not have to have >hands on head but they can not rub thier bottom. > >Once the boys got old enough to where they didn't need >to be spanked on the spot so that they knew why they >were being spanked I started unless it is egregious I >tell them they will be spanked at bedtime. I bare them >from the waist down for their spankings and that is >how they go to bed on their stomach wearing just their >t-shirt and pj top it is want they want to do. > > >>It was something Mary commented on in her '6 spankings >>in 5 days' thread that gave me pause for thought and >>post this thread. >> >>Young Decker, being spanked in the kitchen, made a >>grab for a chair leg to try and get leverage to escape >>of Mary's knee. Elizabeth then said her son would >>squirm of her knee to the floor also avoid being >>spanked further. Unsurprisingly, neither Decker or >>Daniel fared too well with their endeavours and both >>were soundly spanked as intended. >> >>Neither of those boys was as compliant in submitting >>to his spanking as perhaps he should have been. >>Understandable enough of course, no boy (or girl) >>wants his/her bare bottom soundly spanked by Mum or >>Dad (or anyone else). >> >>However, children who are regularly spanked as >>discipline are more likely to be obedient and >>compliant in the while spanking process, knowing as >>they do what is expected of them. Learning from >>experience. >> >>Some question then relating to the degree of >>compliance of your children when they are about to be >>soundly spanked: >> >>1. Obediently take their trousers down (or raise >>skirt) and then lower/remove their briefs/panties? >>Non-applicable question obviously if you bare the >>child's bottom yourself. >> >>2. Obediently bend over your knee/lap when instructed >>or motioned to do? Or do you need to grab an arm and >>haul the miscreant over your knee >> >>3. Block spanks with hand repeatedly? If so, do you >>use a leg lock to trap the boy or girl's own legs? >> >>4. Attempt to wriggle off your knee while being >>spanked? >> >>5. Act argumentatively and defiantly while being >>spanked? >> >>6. If corner time used does he or she manage it >>without fuss, and obediently place hands on head and >>obediently resist rubbing sore bottoms? >> >>7. Pull undies and trousers back up once allowed off >>your lap after the spanking, glare at you and rush >>from the room? Or does he/she remain behind contrite >>and meek for a calming post spanking talk and cuddle >>with Mum (and even maybe a bottom rub)? >> >>Sorry, I ended up asking so many questions here, but >>once I started thinking of it, there was so much >>involved with a child's compliance in his or her bare >>bottom spanking.
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