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>Mark, > >I agree with Lois, trying to escape the spanking >doesn't mean they didn't comply, there are times they >just can't help but try. But it never works as they >are put back and their spanking continues. The amount >of times this escape attempt happenes/d is minuscule >compared to how many times they have been spanked. > >Here as far as complying goes, As my boys and their >friends get, got older and for the 3 I sit for now, it >is up to the one that is going to be spanked as much >as possible to do their part in surrendering to their >punishment, accepting their punishment (no matter how >much they don't want too) no matter how scared they >are, they do as much as can be expected considering >what is about to happen to them. > >I started from day one loving them, teaching respect >for me and the spanking procedures, I spent time >explaining to them what was going to happen and what I >expected of them, I have also told other children that >have been under my care the same. The punishment if >they put up a struggle before their spanking, >interfering with being bared. I will give another hand >spanking an hour after their spanking, they learned >quick and were very respectful of a loving mom and one >that they knew was the boss. It is a part of the >spanking process, it is also a life's lesson, this is >a part of life, there are consequences. > >I do all the baring as they stand at my knees, once >that is done I move them to the side of my right thigh >and 'help' them over my lap because at times their >bottoms feet can be glued to the floor as they start >to cry, with the older boys I really didn't don't have >to help that much as they wanted to get over my lap to >cover their front and psychologically feel less >exposed I think the embarrassment feels is less than >standing their naked. > >Once they are over my lap and in place so that I am >looking right down at a wonderful bare bottom that is >on display. They will usually reach back at this >point, if not I will tell them to reach back then pin >their arm to their back and my elbow/forearm pressing >against their upper back helping to control their body >and it allows them to squirm, wiggle and kick away, be >animated over my lap. I don't get upset because they >do this or how vocal they do become, I view it as a >natural reaction that can't be helped and shows me I >am getting through to them. I need to see them being >animated struggling over my lap, I need to hear the >loud toddler bawling, the yelling pleading begging the >frantic uncontrollable crying is an important part of >my process. > >They can redress whenever they want, to me the post >spanking is just as important, they were/are contrite. >I will stay seated while they dance, twirl and madly >rub their bottoms and upper thighs, sometimes they >would role around on their bed as if they were trying >to put a fire out. They will eventually come sit with >me and cuddle, sit in my lap or if there is more then >one at a time also by my side cuddling, they all will >then cry it out while wiping tears and snot on my >shirt and going through a lot of Kleenex, they know >all is forgiven and we move on.
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