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Subject: Would you want to change how you were raised?


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Amanda J.
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Date Posted: 10:37:41 05/08/25 Thu

As far as the discipline aspect of how you were raised, looking back is there any aspect of it that discipline you wish had been different? Examples, do you feel you had to much discipline (spanking) or now feel you could have benefitted from more? If you did receive spankings growing up, how do you feel about how they were administered? Was the level, quantity or intensity that you received effective, in your opinion?

Answering for myself, I was spanked, mostly by my mother. A few by my dad, but my mom was clearly the primary disciplinarian. I absolutely hated spanking back then (as we should!), but honestly thankful for the discipline now. I always felt loved and safe, but hated the pain.

My mother was primarily a hand spanker, yet still very good with just her hand. She did have a hairbrush that she used at times, I guess when she felt it had to be taken up a notch. Oh, I hated the brush. Looking back, I suspect that maybe she should have used the brush a bit more, however the spankings were still quite effective.

As far as quantity, I am thinking pretty much just the right amount as I don’t think I ever got spanked when it was not deserved, but I do know there were a few times that I was not spanked when I probably should have been. So with that said, I guess I probably could have benefitted from a few more spankings.

Looking forward to hearing thoughts and experiences of others.

Hugs, Amanda J.

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\An excellent postMarkW10:38:57 05/08/25 Thu
Re: Would you want to change how you were raised?Mary10:50:58 05/08/25 Thu
Re: Would you want to change how you were raised? Kelsey15:48:38 05/08/25 Thu
Re: Would you want to change how you were raised?Samantha (mom of 3)16:32:49 05/08/25 Thu


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