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Subject: Re: Would you want to change how you were raised?


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Mary
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Date Posted: 10:50:58 05/08/25 Thu
In reply to: Amanda J. 's message, "Would you want to change how you were raised?" on 10:37:41 05/08/25 Thu

Amanda,

I agree with Mark, this is an excellent post. This is so true and it was the same with me, "I always felt loved and safe, but hated the pain."

Our mom and grandmother were hairbrush only spankers, and the sole spankers in the house. Mom was a thorough long spanker and my last was when I was 17.

We were raised as I have raised my boys, their friends and the 3 I am sitting for now, to cooperate as best we can accepting our punishment/spanking, the thought of not cooperating, struggling not to be bare or not going over her lap with mom never occurred to us, we respected and loved our mom then and do now and that is the same way with those I spank. 

As much as my sister and I hated our mom’s spankings we would have taken them over grounding or having something taken away. My sister and I both thanked our mom in our teens for spanking us and not grounding or taking things away because spankings were relatively quick we were punished learned a painful lesson and it was over.

I'll share a couple memorable ones. One I was 13 and mom was baring me for a spanking as we were in the kitchen, I remember being so thankful dad wasn't home. Well as she was just getting started Dad walks in the kitchen door. I screamed from the pain and embarrassment.

Another I was 16 and at a friends house with others there and it was time for me do leave to get home before my curfew, I told myself I'll take the punishment and get home late, I was having fun and felt to old to tell my friends I had to go.

Well that was a big mistake as Mom blistered my bottom and I was so upset with myself for making a bad choice, for a days after I was still feeling the effects of her horrible brush.

My sister Martha (older) got our Mom's brush and spanks with it still.

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Re: Would you want to change how you were raised? Kelsey15:48:38 05/08/25 Thu


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