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>Kelsey, > >I’m so happy for you. I’m also happy for the kids. >This is really going to help the kids with their >behavior issues. They are going to end up being the >best-behaved kids in town, and they will feel better >about themselves too. Obviously, the behavior change >isn’t going to happen instantly and the kids will >likely need to spend quite a bit of time over your >knee before reaching the higher standards, but >that’s okay. Rome wasn’t built in a day. There is >going to be a lot of crying in your house over the >next few weeks, and probably over the next few years, >but once your son and daughter understand what happens >to their bottoms when they misbehave, they should >start behaving better and your hairbrush might not >need to be used quite so frequently. Still, you should >expect to be doing a lot of bare bottom spanking. > >I was taken aback when I read your message. I had left >a new message / thread for you titled We Are Running >Parallel Lives not realizing that our lives weren’t >just running parallel, they were running almost >exactly the same. Eerie, but fun. Truly, I am really >happy for you. It’s ok for you to feel both nervous >and excited. Your first time will be a new experience >for you, and them. While nervousness might dominate, I >suspect you will also experience some authentic >enjoyment. The feeling of healthy authority over your >son and daughter will feel empowering. You won’t >feel like such a slave to their disobedience. A heavy >emotional burden will be lifted off your heart. This >is going to be wonderful for all of you. > >In the same way that I am preparing my heart for the >first time I spank, I know you are too. Both of us >know that we will need to project and act with >confidence. The kids will be like bloodhounds sniffing >for any sense of weakness or doubt in us, and if they >find some, they will exploit it. We will have to be >unwavering as we set about burning some bare >backsides. We cannot let ourselves be deterred or >distracted by the loud crying and yelling. We cannot >allow ourselves to pull back or soften the discipline >just because we see our kids in serious pain. Your >kids’ bare butt cheeks might look like ripe red >tomatoes quicker than you expect, but again, don’t >let that stop you. You must proceed to the logical >conclusion. Only you will know when enough is enough. >Your son and daughter will yell ENOUGH after the first >brush smack, and they will continue to loudly scream >that throughout the entirety of their spankings, but >what they say or think is irrelevant. What you think >is the only thing that matters. Don’t let their >frantic kicking and writhing affect you. It takes time >to administer an effective bare bottom spanking with a >wooden hairbrush, so remain calm, take it easy, and >don’t feel rushed. Some parents spank 2X the >child’s age, some 3X. Only you can make that call. > >You should clarify for your kids what you expect of >them. Be specific. Make a list and post it on the >refrigerator. Let them know that if they drift off >course you will drop their underpants and bring them >back. Diane often calls spankings ‘rescue >missions’. The way she sees it, the kids have gotten >lost in disrespect, deception, or disobedience and >only a red hot fanny will save them. Kids have bare >bottoms for many reasons, and one of them is that they >can endure being soundly spanked without any lasting >harm. The sting needs to really sting, and the kids >have lungs to let you know that you are accomplishing >exactly that. > >My recollection is that Julie uses bare bottom >cornertime after spankings. Burning red hot bare butts >on full display. Diane does that too. You might >consider it as well. I certainly intend to use it. >Some moms use bare bottom cornertime before spankings. >That is something that I am mulling over. > >I am as excited for you as you are. I know you will do >a great job. I can’t wait to hear about the first >spanking, or spankings! Red butts coming soon. > >Becky
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