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Date Posted: 2023-08-10 08:12:09
Author: Hugo
Subject: Interviewing my children

Recently during lunch (all family sitting barefoot on the terrace) I asked my four children a few questions about their barefoot lifestyle.
I compiled the answers of all four out of memory:

Q: What do you like most about walking barefoot?
A: The ground feels wonderful to the feet. I can wiggle my toes. It's so easy I don't have to bother with shoes. My feet would feel enclosed and sweat terribly. It looks cool. It's just our thing!

Q: Are there any moments you would rather wear shoes?
A: Not now! It's summer! Perhaps in winter when it freezes.

Q: Why do you think others wear shoes when they go out?
A: They are afraid they could get hurt or dirty. They were told it's a bad thing.

Q: Your favourite surface to walk barefoot?
A: Grass in the park. Fine sand at the beach. Moss in the forest. Mud and earth.

Q: What annoys you when you go barefoot?
A: Broken glass. Some gravel roads. Others who get mean and insulting about it.

We continued talking about what those insults were. "Go away with your disgusting dirty feet" ... Ah well. I said that some people just don't like bare feet and so it would be better to keep them on the ground when they're not perfectly clean, but they can't force anyone to put on shoes just because they would personally like it so!

I realized that they all have probably grown out of the shoes they wore last winter, that we didn't bother to get any 'summer shoes' this year and ... also considering the answers of some others in this forum ... that we can wait and see how cold the winter actually gets before we buy them any shoes. There is no need to have something they're not going to wear anyway!

Taking them to the wedding all barefoot recently and the completely positive responses they got gave them a boost of confidence: I like them to experience first hand (or foot) that their way of life is welcome and appropriate everywhere they go.

Do your children have the same answer? What other questions could be asked?

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