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Date Posted: 08:40:10 12/09/25 Tue
Author: Anne01
Subject: Re: How do I get started?
In reply to: Lion-Tamer 's message, "Re: How do I get started?" on 20:02:02 12/08/25 Mon

>We aren't completely stopping because what we are
>doing is working, they are already far more obedient
>the strict routine seems to make them calmer too. I
>can't believe their mother hasn't noticed the benefit.
>The kids are happy so I can't see what, if anything
>social services will do
>
>I actually think we are at a point where we are ready
>to introduce diapers. Both kids are used to keeping
>doors open the older one no longer complains sharing
>the bathtub and they both let me bath them without
>resistance.
>
>Taking over butt wiping was a bit of a challenge, I
>currently wipe the younger one every time, he's at a
>point where he is happy to call for me to wipe him.
>The older one is more secretive and tries to poop at
>night,I'm not going to push this too much.
>
>
>>>Just thought I'd update, so the boys mother,
>>>threatened
>>>and then contacted social services, the 10 year old
>>>has exaggerated when complaining about me, resulting
>>>in this complaint. They never return to her with
>>>bruises or marks so I can't see how she has any proof
>>>of excessive punishments.
>>>
>>>It's a shame, the steps we were taking are clearly
>>>working, both at our hours and their mothers. I've
>not
>>>even introduced diapers yet, just strict discipline
>>>and reduced privacy.
>>>
>>>>Hello Everyone.
>>>>I'm a Stepmom to two children, they are 7 and 10,
>>both
>>>>boys.
>>>>Neither respect me and I'm positive any attempts to
>>>>install a fixed disciplinary routine will meet with
>a
>>>>lot of resistance from their biological mother,
>>>>possible their dad too if the Mom complains to him.
>>>>
>>>>I've known the children for several years but only
>>>>married my husband a year ago, so the dynamic is now
>>>>different.
>>>>
>>>>Please help, in this situation what can I do?
>>
>>Such a shame . Maybe you should have started with the
>>diapering and then he spanking .
Will you expect them to use the diapers for everything and will it just be diapers or will you start babying them as well ? Sounds like the younger one would be more pliable that way .

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