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Subject: enemas are abuse and I don't like them Author: RB [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: Sunday, February 16, 2025, 06:28: pm I'm 12 and I hate enemas. Mom sends us to Grandma every month for enemas and they are awful! I told the counselor at school my grandma gives us enemas and he basically said "SO"? He said he got enemas when he was little and basically that our grandma probably knows if we need an enema. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: enemas are abuse and I don't like them Author: Kitten Paw [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Sunday, February 16, 2025, 06:46: pm Well RB welcome. You can come here and vent all you want like I do but it won't do much except make you feel a little better. When you are 18 you can tell mom you are not having any more of grandma's enemas. I'm still almost three years away and then I can make the spankings and enemas stop. Are you male or female? If you are female you likely will be taken to a gyno when you get a boyfriend so your mom can put you on birth control. I have a ring around my cervix as of four days ago so mom can see how I tolerate it's side effects and if it will be my form of birth control when I get a boyfriend and in danger of having sex. I have been sick to my stomach for two days now with a minor headache but no, she aint taking it out unless I keel over. If you are a boy I bet you get an erection when grandma has you undressed and getting ready for your enema. She won't mind if you use your enema time to get off. Try to enjoy getting your enemas that way. Other wise you are going to be miserable every month when you are taken to grandma. Smiles and happy enemas! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: enemas are abuse and I don't like them Author: RB [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Sunday, February 16, 2025, 06:56: pm I'm a boy. How old are you? Why does your mom spank you? Do you have brothers and sisters that get enemas to? Do they get to watch you getting your enema. That is not right. I don't want my sisters to get to watch me getting my enema. They say I'm just being a big baby. I don't care if they like enemas. I don't!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: enemas are abuse and I don't like them Author: Kitten Paw [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Sunday, February 16, 2025, 07:08: pm I'm an only child, 15. Mom doesn't spank dad does. So are you saying your sisters don't mind getting their enemas. How old are they? So how are the enemas given that your sisters get to watch? Would you like to get to give one of them an enema? You are at the age that I started to want to get to give some one enemas. All of my stuffed animals and dolls still get pretend enemas. Would that make getting enemas a little better for you? When I was little I got my enemas on mom's lap but for several years now I lay on my bed on a protective pad in a T-shirt usually on my left side or tummy and then turn on to my right side to finish my enema. Do you get just one big enema now or a soapsuds enema and then rinses? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: enemas are abuse and I don't like them Author: RB [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Sunday, February 16, 2025, 07:20: pm Nobody gives us our enemas we just get enemas. Grandma had three enema pillows until two years ago but one of them started to leak so we share the same one and she keeps the other one in case this one starts to leak. Google worthpoint.com search for JBL sit on enema pillow. It is put on a chair and the tube sticks up from it and you have to sit on it for your enema. Grandma has really tall kitchen table and chairs and when we sit at the table our feet don't touch the floor. She brings a chair in to the bathroom and we get our enema sitting on the pillow so our feet won't touch the floor so we can't stop the enema from going in us until she says we are done. My oldest sister is 15 and my little sister is 10. Somebody is getting their enema while somebody just got on the toilet with a enema. So you get to sit there and watch somebody get their enema out while you are getting your enema put in you. That is not right. I don't like it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: enemas are abuse and I don't like them Author: Kitten Paw [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Sunday, February 16, 2025, 07:33: pm Okay, wow! Hmm. I had to take a look at that enema pillow. Wonder what JBL stands for. So when did your enemas start as a child or if you don't remember do you remember when your youngest sister got her first enema from grandma and did you not ever get an enema from a hanging enema bag or syringe. Always sitting on that pillow with that huge nozzle in you? It takes a long time to get an enema back out. Does the enema receiver have to sit there for a long time getting their enema in while they wait for the toilet? Is it easy or hard to hold your enema in and not leak sitting there? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: enemas are abuse and I don't like them Author: RB [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Sunday, February 16, 2025, 07:46: pm I don't remember my first one do you? Why does your dad spank or did he stop yet? So do you rub yourself when you are getting your enema? I don't want my sisters to see me doing it. I only get hard for a minute then when I have to sit down on the pillow it is gone. My little sister was 4 when grandma put her on the enema pillow for the first time. I could hear her in there screaming and crying and grandpa was in there to help get her on the pillow. When we were little we were in our highchair and strapped in so we couldn't get out. The turn off knob is always pointed to the back of the chair so we can't turn it on or off. Yes grandma has the knob turned way down so it takes a half hour for the enema to stop going in us and then we can get on the toilet because somebody is done. If they aren't done they run to grandmas bathroom to finish. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: enemas are abuse and I don't like them Author: Kitten Paw [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Sunday, February 16, 2025, 07:59: pm I do not. Probably around four or five. I get some rubbing done while mom is getting my enema and her supplies ready but when she comes in and gives me my enema I don't. I could. She wouldn't mind but I just don't. Just focusing on taking my enema at that time to get it over with so I can get on the toilet and then I do rub again while getting it out. Yes I get corner time with pants and underwear down and then spanked and if I really pissed him off he tells mom to give me an enema too. Whew! That is fascinating. Strapped in your highchair at four years old sitting on an enema pillow. That is wild! So does grandma always do you three in the same order? Youngest girl first and then she is on the toilet while you get your enema and then big sister comes in and watches you on the toilet while she is getting her enema. Or does she spice things up a little and change the order around? I'm going to bet she changes the order from time to time. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: enemas are abuse and I don't like them Author: RB [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Sunday, February 16, 2025, 08:06: pm Our little sister usually goes first then me but not always. I'm sorry you get spankings now. That is awful. I guess I'm lucky I don't get spankings to. I'm just really stressing right now and wanted to talk about it because we just got home a couple of hours ago from being at grandmas for the weekend. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: enemas are abuse and I don't like them Author: Kitten Paw [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Sunday, February 16, 2025, 08:08: pm It's okay. It's just a spanking. It's just an enema. Grandma isn't cutting two of your fingers off. Be a big boy and deal with it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: enemas are abuse and I don't like them Author: RB [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Sunday, February 16, 2025, 08:11: pm Ok, I will. Just don't like them. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: enemas are abuse and I don't like them Author: Andrea [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, February 17, 2025, 12:52: am Hi RB, If your 15 year old sister still gets Grandma's enemas then you are in for several more years as well. Probably until you turn 18. Then you can say no more. It's not a bad thing that you get cleaned out at least once a month as it appears from what you said about going to Grandma's monthly. I would say that at 12 years old now you should be afforded some privacy. I'm sure you have asked her to not have your enema while your sister's are in the bathroom also. She should let you have your enema in her bathroom as you stated she has one. But I understand where she is coming from also. She has three children to clean out which with the half hour sitting getting the enema and then about an hour to get your enemas back out on the toilet she is just trying to compact it so she isn't spending half of her day giving the three of you your enemas. She has other things to do also. She could easily spend four of five hours getting all three of you your enemas while working it in with the other things she has to do. She compacts and has one of you on the toilet while another is getting their enema. If you are 12 and you got your first sit on the pillow when you were four or five also then you and your older sister have been in the bathroom together for eight years doing your poo. Like Kitten Paw says, "be a big boy and just get your enema over with and move on". [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: enemas are abuse and I don't like them Author: RB [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, February 17, 2025, 04:58: pm All you girls just like to make us boys have enemas. Grandma lets my sister make my enema and then comes and tells me I have to go get on it. And I have to let it out while she sits there and watches me. I told grandma I don't want any more enemas and I don't like my sisters watching and she still does it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: enemas are abuse and I don't like them Author: Kitten Paw [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, February 17, 2025, 05:56: pm Hey RB, I was just thinking about you. Glad you feel comfortable to come here and vent. It makes me feel better too to express what is hurting my feelings. So (all you girls like to make us boys have enemas) is a stretch. But guess what most boys would like to grow up to be Gyno Doctors so they can make us girls get on their exam table like we are going to get a new diaper put on us so they can stick their fingers in our vagina and rectum. A lot of young girls for their first exam have an old man sticking a finger in their vagina and one in their rectum and then while he and his nurse are there staring in her eyes he tells her to "bear down like you are trying to have a bowel movement"! Put that in your head and ponder it next time your sister comes and tells you she has your enema ready. Which would you like least if you could choose? So anyway, I've had two enemas in the last 36 hours also. I missed school today because I'm having trouble keeping food down because mom put my Annovera ring on my cervix five days ago while I was also getting an enema just because she thought I should have one since it had been a few weeks since my last enema. I want it taken back out just like you want your enemas to stop. But no..... she called the clinic and talked to the nurse. She called back and said the Doctor said if my only side effects right now are upset stomach and headache then I have to just tough it out. So buckle up Butter Cup, your sister has you number and is going to make sure you get good and cleaned out. You are lucky it's only once a month if that is what you are saying. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: enemas are abuse and I don't like them Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, February 17, 2025, 08:13: pm Kitten Paw, 100% agree. I love that “butter cup”. lol. RB, Kitten paw is right, your sister has your number making your enemas and making sure she is there to watch you take it and get a good cleaning out. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: enemas are abuse and I don't like them Author: Andrea [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, February 17, 2025, 09:00: pm RB. It may seem like we are picking on you but we are just trying to make it real for you. My daughter has to have a small rectum emptying enema each and every night before bed. I let her hold stools and mess her pants and take oral laxatives that caused even more messes and missed school and heart ache for way too long until I got brave and switched to rectal methods to make her poo. Kitten Paw's mom feels like your Mom and Grandmother that it is a good idea to clean you out once a month or so and she was had more enemas at 15 years old than she can count. Shelly is a mom with two very young boys who have very recently started a weekly enema schedule and boards a 16 year old who holds her stools like my daughter did and she is required to give a bowel movement every evening and gets an enema series to clean her out every Sunday evening before bed. I would wager to say there may be a million 12 year olds somewhere in this world who will get an enema this week or this month. Sympathy will not be handed out for simply not liking your enema or not liking your sister watch you watching her sitting. One of you getting your enema back out and the other getting their enema injected. You two are sitting there very captive. Use that time to have some heart felt conversations with your sister. The only one of the children I mentioned here that even comes close to liking their enema is my daughter. She doesn't like them. She has been told numerous times she is welcome to give herself her enema but she just can't bring herself to do it. But she will ask for her enema at bedtime if I take too long to go give it to her because she has accepted that it will happen. Your enemas will happen so find a way to cope and accept them. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: enemas are abuse and I don't like them Author: Kitten Paw [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, February 17, 2025, 09:16: pm Yeah when I came on here I thought I would get a lot of sympathy for my spankings and enemas and it didn't happen. I got words of encouragement and guidance on how to cope with my feelings about getting enemas as a teenager. But when I help mom give little kids their first ever enema after they had an appointment at mom's clinic and the parents were scared to give enemas I had no sympathy for those kids I held over mom's leg while she gave them their enemas. It's just an ENEMA!!! Get over it!!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: enemas are abuse and I don't like them Author: RB [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Tuesday, February 18, 2025, 06:56: pm Everybody is so funny ha ha ha. Well when she gets a boyfriend I'm going to tell him I get to watch her have to sit on a enema pillow that makes her go poop for her grandma. I'll see how she likes that. I hope you like your mom putting your ring in your vagina. I wish I was your Doctor. I'd make your mom give a enema and put you in a diaper. Bet you would love that huh? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: enemas are abuse and I don't like them Author: Kitten Paw [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Tuesday, February 18, 2025, 08:28: pm RB, Just relax. Your are at the age where you are starting to realize that your enemas are here to stay for many more years and there is nothing you can do to stop them. I was there at about 10 years old. My mom is an RN at a clinic that specializes in treating kids that hold in their poop until they go in their pants. Their parents are told to take them home and give them enemas to clean them out first. And then make them poop with suppositories or enemas until they stop holding in their poop so my mom is very tuned in to my bowel movements and the idea that all kids could use a huge enema to clean them out once in a while. I'm not happy about that but that is my life. Some time between now at 12 and three years from now when you are 15 you will be where I am. Don't want another enema. Don't like enemas. Hate it that mom is able to force me on the toilet to give her bowel movements by giving me enemas. Feel like I'm a big girl now and don't like mom sticking her finger in me to lube me and then the enema nozzle and then the enema. I'm not a magic Fairy. I can't make your enemas stop for you just like I'm not able to stop my enemas. It is humiliating to sit on the toilet getting your enema back out while your sister is sitting the enema pillow getting her enema and watching you, I get it. This has been happening now since you were four or five right? She has seen you naked and you have seen her naked and getting your enemas for a long time now. Adjust and find a way to accept that it is going to continue. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: enemas are abuse and I don't like them Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Tuesday, February 18, 2025, 08:41: pm Kitten Paw, I love reading your posts. You have so much wisdom I guess because of working with your mom with enemas. RB, I get it. I do. I hated enemas. I was a fighter. My two older brothers came in to hold my legs and arms as I was laid over mom’s lap trying to kick and reach back crying as she had total control of giving me what I called a soapy. It was a soapy enema using an 8 oz bulb. I was giving enemas from about 6 to 12 years of age. Mom stopped but I was hocked on enemas by that time and continued them behind her back. I hate you have to go through this but look at it on a positive note that enemas are healthy for you and it is only once a month for you. Continue though trying to nicely politely respectfully talk with your grandma about having some privacy and maybe she might. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: enemas are abuse and I don't like them Author: RB [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Wednesday, February 19, 2025, 06:16: pm Grandma says she hasn't got all day to do enemas and the bathroom doesn't have carpet because the floor gets wet and we have on long tshirts so there is nothing to see. Maybe you get it but she doesn't get it. I don't want to get enemas with my sisters and sometimes our cousins are there to and they know we are getting enemas but they get them some other weekend but they are there while we get our enemas and it's not right. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: enemas are abuse and I don't like them Author: Kitten Paw [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Wednesday, February 19, 2025, 07:11: pm RB, Well see. You are both covered and sitting. One getting an enema out and the other sitting on the enema pillow. Your sister saw you getting your butt wiped and a clean diaper put on you when you were little many many times. You saw your little sister get her butt wiped and a clean diaper put on her many times. That is part of life growing up with sisters and brothers. How much privacy do you have when you are in bathrooms at school or Walmart, or the parks and playgrounds in the summer? There are a lot of kids your age that get their enemas bent over their mom's or grandma's leg and a brother or sister has peeked in the bathroom to watch. I have grabbed the wrists of 12 to 14 year old boys and girls and pulled them down over mom's left leg and she clamps them in with her right leg and I sit on the floor holding their wrists looking them in the eye while they get their enemas because it is their first ever enema and they said it wasn't going to happen. Well mom and I have a technique that is fool proof and they have no idea what hit them until they are bent over her leg and getting the enema. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]