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Subject: Re: Gender Spanking Discrimination Author: Dee [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 01:53:32 07/02/24 Tue In reply to: Sophie 's message, "Gender Spanking Discrimination" on 11:16:46 07/01/24 Mon Only have 2 girls and so I spank less now then when they were early teens. 17 and 15 today but still spanked. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Gender Spanking Discrimination Author: Jenni71 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:32:38 07/02/24 Tue I had 3 kids, a boy sandwiched between the 2 girls. While they received the same spankings growing up, once the boy was getting older I decided to stop spanking him. I never thought of it as a double standard or as discrimination. I began to notice once the boy was about 11, he was getting erections during the spankings and would try to hide them from me. After this happened a couple of times, I knew it was time to go a different route. I continued to spank the girls until they graduated high school. I did discuss this with another mom who was a spanker and she agreed with me. Boys are boys and girls are girls and should be treated as such, they are not the same. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Gender Spanking Discrimination Author: Atsuko [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:41:34 07/02/24 Tue Thanks for posting that Jenn. My son was only ten when I first saw this! I freaked, and asked his pediatrician (who is one of those rare people in the field who is not against the judicious use of spanking). She said it was probably just fear and hormonal responses, not budding sexual arousal. But I have my doubts ! He is now eleven, and I have decreased the use of spanking considerably. But this is also because the misbehavior he was spanked for, has decreased. Isn't that the way it is suppose to work anyway? My twin sister and I were spanked into our teen years. But it was for different types of behavior than little boys are generally spanked for. I appreciated the old newspaper article Grandma posted. Although short it touched on some of the differences. Looking back we were spanked mostly for mischievous and sneaky things. I think teenage boys are different in this regard then teenage girls. In the end I think you hit the nail on the head that boys are boys and girls are girls, even though in this age of woke that is kind of a controversial idea. But my son has two younger sisters. So I guess I will see! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]