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Subject: Gender Spanking Discrimination Author: Sophie [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 11:16:46 07/01/24 Mon maybe sometimes a girl needs a spanking but there is discrimination about it. I live in U.S. South and I am not saying boys don't get lickings but teenage girls catch it a lot more than teenage boys. That is not right! [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Gender Spanking Discrimination Author: Eric [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:29:22 07/01/24 Mon I agree that boys should be getting more lickings. Are you a girl who gets spankings, or an adult who thinks this discrimination is wrong? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Gender Spanking Discrimination Author: Sophie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:39:07 07/01/24 Mon I am 15 started getting paddle licks in Oct i am sick of it [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Gender Spanking Discrimination Author: Rebecca I (to Sophie) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 00:18:05 07/03/24 Wed Hi Sophie, it is good to hear from you. I am not going to get into this issue with you except to suggest you concentrate on getting spanking out of your life. We have talked about some strategies before. Several weeks ago you posted a pretty optimistic report on your progress and successes.You shared the web site on how kids can end spanking, and were following many of the suggestions. Your mom and you even reached an agreement on when she would take the paddle off the wall (the main hold up was your little sister's behavior). I hope it is still going well and soon there will be one less teenage girl who is spanked! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Gender Spanking Discrimination Author: Chastity [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:11:23 07/01/24 Mon I think you are right about the disparity. Maybe it is warranted. I would be interested in hearing views on this. But I was spanked at a much older age than my brother and always thought it unfair. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Gender Spanking Discrimination Author: Ross [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:00:09 07/01/24 Mon Chastity: "I think you are right about the disparity. Maybe it is warranted. I would be interested in hearing views on this. But I was spanked at a much older age than my brother and always thought it unfair." Unless you behaved worse, I think that is unfair. I had no sisters, so I don't know how it would have been in my family. In the neighborhood, it seemed boys and girls got spanked about the same. At school, boys way more than girls. I've noticed on spanking forums, people are more interested in girls yet, allegedly, it should be more newsworthy when boys get spanked. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Gender Spanking Discrimination Author: Gary Steven [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:56:13 07/01/24 Mon I don't know, while I saw girls get spanked and paddled at school, it seemed boys got it more than girls did. Or girls might get it by hand as opposed to being paddled. Also, it seemed that girls got fewer licks. I saw a boy and girl getting paddled in the hall in Jr. High. The teacher brought them out together for disrupting class. The girl got three licks and the boy got five. There may have been some extenuating circumstances, but the girl was paddled first. She was made to bend over and grab her ankles, The skirt she was wearing was short (actually a little too short for the standards) and I don't know if she wasn't wearing panties or if they were just very skimpy and riding up (pre thong days) but the teacher (who was female) gave her three hard licks on her bared bottom. Then while she was rubbing her butt and crying, she made the boy empty his pockets, bend over, grab his ankles and gave him five hard licks on the seat of his jeans. Although he had much more protection, He was in tears by the time she finished too. They all went back inside the classroom and then the girl was taken by the teacher to the office with a note about the length of her skirt. I never saw her wear a skirt that short to school again. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Gender Spanking Discrimination Author: Grumpy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:31:08 07/03/24 Wed I assume both boys and girls get it about the same, but I wonder if girls wearing skirts sometimes get it worse, especially in “quick” spankings, when there isn’t the time or when where you are is not appropriate for a formal spanking. A parent May not want to bother to take pants down, but flipping up a skirt is easier. So do girls ever regret what they were wearing as they were taken over a lap? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Gender Spanking Discrimination Author: Grandma [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:27:31 07/01/24 Mon At younger ages boys definitely get spanked more than girls, but around ages eleven or twelve it begins to shift. I have my theories on why, but it is not new. From the June 12, 1949 edition of the San Francisco Examiner is an article Teenage Tempest: Double Standard Spanking [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Gender Spanking Discrimination Author: Brian [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:47:06 07/02/24 Tue I am an old geezer now, but Ican confirm that at least one teenage girl was spanked in that era. It made quite an impression on me.I had a babysitter at the time who lived just down the street. She was a high school girl, but was taking classes to be a fashion model (she would walk down the street with a book on her head, practicing the walk) who I thought quite snooty. She never spanked me, but she was quite strict, which is why mother liked her. One day Mom had made some cookies, and asked me take a plate down to her, as sort of a tip I guess. They had a large window facing the street. As I was going up to the door, to my shock I saw the sophisticated babysitter bare butt over her mom's knee getting it with the back of a hairbrush.. I was frozen and couldn't go up to the door. I hurried home and told mom. She kind of laughed and said something about her being raised right and was why she was a good sitter. I never mentioned it the sitter, but I got a kick thinking about that spanking when she was acting like a big shot bossing me around! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Gender Spanking Discrimination Author: Intrigued [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:47:33 07/02/24 Tue Surprising that she would get spanked like that where anyone could see it through the front window. Was this happening near that window or somewhat further in the house? Could you hear the proceedings? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Gender Spanking Discrimination Author: Brian [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:12:51 07/02/24 Tue The house was set back from the street, with a couple of trees in the front.There were also sheer curtains. You couldn't see anything until walking past the window to the door. It was a living room, and they were on the sofa, which faced toward the window. I don't recall hearing anything. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Gender Spanking Discrimination Author: Dee [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:53:32 07/02/24 Tue Only have 2 girls and so I spank less now then when they were early teens. 17 and 15 today but still spanked. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Gender Spanking Discrimination Author: Jenni71 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:32:38 07/02/24 Tue I had 3 kids, a boy sandwiched between the 2 girls. While they received the same spankings growing up, once the boy was getting older I decided to stop spanking him. I never thought of it as a double standard or as discrimination. I began to notice once the boy was about 11, he was getting erections during the spankings and would try to hide them from me. After this happened a couple of times, I knew it was time to go a different route. I continued to spank the girls until they graduated high school. I did discuss this with another mom who was a spanker and she agreed with me. Boys are boys and girls are girls and should be treated as such, they are not the same. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Gender Spanking Discrimination Author: Atsuko [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:41:34 07/02/24 Tue Thanks for posting that Jenn. My son was only ten when I first saw this! I freaked, and asked his pediatrician (who is one of those rare people in the field who is not against the judicious use of spanking). She said it was probably just fear and hormonal responses, not budding sexual arousal. But I have my doubts ! He is now eleven, and I have decreased the use of spanking considerably. But this is also because the misbehavior he was spanked for, has decreased. Isn't that the way it is suppose to work anyway? My twin sister and I were spanked into our teen years. But it was for different types of behavior than little boys are generally spanked for. I appreciated the old newspaper article Grandma posted. Although short it touched on some of the differences. Looking back we were spanked mostly for mischievous and sneaky things. I think teenage boys are different in this regard then teenage girls. In the end I think you hit the nail on the head that boys are boys and girls are girls, even though in this age of woke that is kind of a controversial idea. But my son has two younger sisters. So I guess I will see! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Gender Spanking Discrimination Author: Kevin (To Sophie) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:41:32 07/03/24 Wed Hi Sophie. Cry me a river. You are right. Teen girls get it a lot more than boys do. And 20 something girls get it a lot more than 20 something boys do. Even Moms and Grandma's get spanked. As one of my Mom friends put it, "God made girls to be spanked." (at any age) [ Post a Reply to This Message ]