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Subject: Rubbing your butt Author: Emmie Sue [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 05:51:30 08/08/24 Thu Does rubbing your butt after a good whoopin really help? Do people really rub their butt when they get a whoopin? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Rubbing your butt Author: Gary Steven [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:08:05 08/08/24 Thu I often rubbed my butt after being spanked and my kids did the same. It's a normal reaction to try to "rub pain away". From a scientific standpoint, Massage increases blood flow and stimulates the nerves of the area you are rubbing. It feels good and It's also relaxing and even can be stimulating. So yes, in many ways it does help to rub your bottom after a good spanking. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Rubbing your butt Author: JenniAnn [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:04:32 08/08/24 Thu As a child and a teenager I always rubbed my butt like crazy. I would believe this is not uncommon among those who got spanked hard on bare bottom. For those who only got swats I can't imagine they rubbed. For me, it was almost as an instinct, something I did automatically. And yes it did help. As an adult I do rub after a punishment spanking but I believe I could avoid it if I wanted to but I don't want to avoid it. Even better is when my hubby rubs it for me or put lotion on. You sometimes hear about kids who also dance, jumped around while rubbing after a spanking. I believe I only did this once growing up, when I got spanked with a birch rod. I danced like crazy from the stinging. Otherwise I have "only" rubbed like crazy. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Rubbing your butt Author: Dana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:15:56 08/08/24 Thu Good question. What is a natural reaction to pain? Get a burn, insect bite, achy muscles, etc, you try to sooth the area effected. Scratch an itch, stretch a cramp… The reaction can be voluntary or involuntary, conscious or unconscious. In some cases, maybe it only seems to help, or at least has a psychological benefit, which is soothing to the mind. Mostly, I think it has to do with how sharp or irritating the pain is. Some kinds of pain grab your attention and won't let go. Some kinds of pain are there but are dull or numbing. A very sharp sting is hard to ignore, and the hands go there to rub whether you want them to or not. I remember in school, it looked weak to rub after a paddling but, unfortunately, not so easy to pretend it wasn't burning. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Rubbing your butt Author: Betty Jean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:28:35 02/08/25 Sat I relate to the school paddling burn. It was embarrassing to get paddled in the hall and renter the class rubbing your backside. It stung so bad I couldn't help but hold it and rub no pretending on my part. Yes those hard chairs were no good to sit in afterwards. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Rubbing your butt Author: Dee [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:10:27 08/10/24 Sat The spanky dance after a spanking is very normal here. Rubbing trying to put the fire out that mom's hairbrush started. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Rubbing your butt Author: Destiny [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:29:17 08/10/24 Sat I do not permit it with my kiddos.I have been told by other mothers, and it was mentioned in a parenting seminar, that rubbing and holding bottoms after a spanking is just something kids do for attention and sympathy. Mine get plenty of comfort with post-spanking hugging and reconciliation. It does not help relieve the sting. And even if it did help relieve the sting I would not permit it since a reasonable sting is the immediate point of a spanking! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Rubbing your butt Author: Karin_ven [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:46:42 08/11/24 Sun Thinking back I danced and hold my bottom with both hands after getting up from the lap. My own children do the same. As a mom Iam glad they do, it shows me that it hurts a lot and that was my intention, I can enjoy it. My daughter ones put cream on her spanked behind, I marched her back to the kitchen cleaned her behind from the cream and gave her a second spanking. It’s the same with pillows on a chair, it’s not allouwed. If it stings when they sit down it means I did my job good. It’s a good reminder. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Rubbing your butt-- violations! Author: Alfred22 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:51:59 08/11/24 Sun The dreaded second spanking! I can see removing the soothing cream but had you forbidden using the cream? Did she do it anyway in spite of it being forbidden? Have you ever had a second spanking shortly after the first? They are "something else," to use understatement. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Rubbing your butt-- violations! Author: Karin_ven to Alfred22 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:58:52 08/13/24 Tue Hi Alfred, My daughter was 12 when that happend. She was not warned or told specifically not to put cream on her spanked behind. But she knew that it was forbidden to eas the spanking, we had the conversation about sitting on a pillow before. She tried to cover the fact she used the cream, but covering a smell is very hard, so she knew it wasn’t allouwed. The second spanking was not more then some slaps by hand. Nothing like the first spanking but I wantet to let her know it has consequences. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Rubbing your butt Author: Alfred22 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:44:32 08/14/24 Wed You seem like a very reasonable and loving mom. What I like most about you is that you know how much a spanking stings from having lived through your own. God Bless. The truth about spanking is that it works, in part, because one can't make the sting go away immediately. Cold water, carbocaine and other local anesthetics, of course, would help but they aren't feasible for most kids. I doubt that the cold cream did much more than earn her slaps from mom and increase the smarting and tingling in her bottom. Apparently the extras conveyed the message that she is not to mess with mom's handiwork. Fair enough. I am glad that it was not a repeat visit from your hairbrush! It is a bit amusing that it was the smell that revealed her secret. No easy way to cover that up. Did she try to go outside or perhaps to cook something smelly? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Rubbing your butt Author: Louise Vancisic Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:55:02 02/09/25 Sun Hi Destiny. My parents were the same way. I couldn't touch my bottom until I was given permission. How do you give your children post spanking reconciliation? How old are they? Boys? Girls? Do you spank them differently? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Rubbing your butt Author: stripey7 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:13:56 08/11/24 Sun Although I was only eight when I stopped getting spanked, as far as I can recall I didn't rub, but not because it didn't sting! Perhaps, being (as I now know) autistic, I was averse to the idea of any more stimulation. In any case, years of exploring the fetish have the made the bottom rubbing trope quite familiar to me, and my latest song focuses on it. Titled "I Rub Myself," it's a parody of the Divinyls' "I Touch Myself." [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Rubbing your butt Author: TonyF [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:02:08 08/13/24 Tue When Mom told me I had to submit to a spanking , either over her lap for the hand or brush, or bent over my bed for the strap as a child undressing and submitting didn't bother me as much as the spanking. As I grew up however I was embarrassed and humiliated by striping and letting her see all of me. At about 14 I hated the undressing part more then the spanking.it self. But after the spanking when I got up, I stood there and immediately rubbed my tushy. I didn't care what she saw as long as I could rub some of the pain away. So I would stand there infront of her rubbing my hurting tushy without concern of what she could see [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Rubbing your butt Author: SJ [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:17:52 08/14/24 Wed Well said, Grumpy, I totally agree, you have totally summed it up. Spanking hasn't yet become an Olympic sport. Those posters who advertise all the added punishments are probably fakes. If not, they belong on "Mary's" site. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Rubbing your butt Author: SJ [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:17:53 08/14/24 Wed Well said, Grumpy, I totally agree, you have totally summed it up. Spanking hasn't yet become an Olympic sport. Those posters who advertise all the added punishments are probably fakes. If not, they belong on "Mary's" site. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Rubbing your butt Author: Grumpy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:48:09 08/13/24 Tue Among the things/rules I don’t understand are: 1- no rubbing, 2- being put back in the corner, 3- second spankings at bedtime. They’ve been bad. You spanked. They cried. 1- Why would you care if they rubbed? 2- Why would you want to have to keep an eye on them to make sure they stay out in the corner? 3- Why would you want the noise and fuss that comes with a second spanking hours later? If you do a good job as a spanker, none of that seems necessary. What am I missing? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Rubbing your butt Author: Bob [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:54:34 08/13/24 Tue When I was a kid and I got spanked I always wanted to rub my bottom. Sometimes, I had to do corner time first. That meant standing in the corner in pain. When I was older, the corner time went away. I think the rubbing helped but not all that much. I found sleep, especially when I was older, was the best way to get rid of the pain. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Rubbing your butt Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:03:45 08/14/24 Wed Next question. When I self spank I rub my bottom, but moreso I just start with my bottom and then I rub other places. Know what I mean? Does anyone else either with self spank or a real spanking? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Rubbing your butt Author: Stephan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:28:26 08/14/24 Wed Short answer. Yes. I have since I hit puberty. I started getting aroused by them at that time. Also, I was involved in different types of "spanking games" as a kid and even into my teens. I also got excited whenever I saw others getting them, especially bare bottom. In my teens I would often "rub other places" after getting or watching a spanking. As an adult, my partner and I make spanking a regular part of our 'playtime' and yeah, I will self-spank whenever she isn't around to do it herself. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Rubbing your butt Author: Lexiewheeler [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:21:03 02/18/25 Tue It’s an instinct to want to rub the sting away but does it really help….not much. After getting the wooden spoon or hairbrush from my mom it would give a slight reprieve but after a belting the last thing you want to do is touch the swollen raw skin in my opinion. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Rubbing your butt Author: Alfred22 for LexieW [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:49:02 02/18/25 Tue After getting two dozen or so belt licks in a few seconds running the gauntlet that we called "the beltline" we definitely hopped and tried our level best to resist more than one rub. But while our butts felt on fire and we hopped a bit and took the one socially accepted big rub, we sure were aware that our bottoms had been relatively well-spanked. But as hot as our butts felt, we were no where near what Lexie got, "swollen raw skin." So, I would conclude that whether the belt makes you want to rub or not depends on just how intensely the belt was applied and what clothing, if any, softened the impact. We had trousers and underpants on. The same might even be true of other implements. What do others think? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]