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Subject: laying face down position Author: After50 [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 03:29:20 03/28/26 Sat A few questions about this position. Is it always used or more often than the OTK position? In what special cases is it used compared to OTK? Are the tools for laying face down position the same as for OTK? Is it always necessary to be naked in this position? If not always, then what makes such cases special? At what age is this position used? What do you have to lie on (bed, bench, table)? Do they put something under you for bottom elevation? If they do, how high is it placed and how comfortable is it? How are the same instruments carried in this position and in OTK? What interesting information could you share about this spanking? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: laying face down position Author: Cliff [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:26:52 03/28/26 Sat Sometimes OTK is not practical. It can depend on the size of the spankee and speaking of someone who has Dunlap (Belly stick out past my lap) disease, there may not be much lap available. And OTK is not good for some implements, such as belts, straps, canes, and long paddles. I have a massage table I use quite often and having the lady laying face down on it usually has her bottom at a nice height for spanking with or without a pillow. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: laying face down position Author: After50 to Cliff [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:34:48 04/02/26 Thu 1. A massage table is a good idea. You can position it however you like and walk around it from different sides. I'd just like to highlight the issue of how to comfortably position spankee's hands. 2. You seem like one of the sensible people here. I'm not sure I understand. Is this a forum for adults who have discipline at home? I'm hoping to talk to adults. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: laying face down position Author: Cliff (to After50) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:21:07 04/03/26 Fri I guess this forum is for everyone as long as they follow the rules. I only spank consenting adult ladies. Some for discipline, others for stress relief, just fun, or to settle their curiosity. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: laying face down position Author: Strictdaddy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:52:27 03/29/26 Sun I almost two daughters that are 19 but still at home and I’ve used the face down on a bed while completely disrobed since they were probably nine. The only other instrument I use is a wood paddle and that is in a different position, kneeling on their knees and elbows on the floor beside the bed. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: laying face down position Author: After50 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:34:55 03/30/26 Mon You provoke me to next questions :-) What is reasons which you prefer laying or kneeling position? Do you use pillow if use face down? If they lies on pillow, how high their bottom arched in the air? Who is luckier, if one punished laying, next punished kneeling? In our 1980s, ordinary working-class families didn't stand on ceremony with pillows. I don't remember a single story about a pillow, even from girls, about someone lying with a pillow under their hips. Just lie down on the bed, sofa, or bench and accept the punishment for your misdeeds. As for the second position, it was usually between the parents' legs. The difference between the positions was explained more by "I want it this way" than by the severity or other specifics of the reason for the belt landing on our butts. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: laying face down position Author: Stacie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:04:01 03/30/26 Mon I just lay flat face down on dad's spanking table. No pillows or cushions, just flat. Dad then straps my bare buttocks and upper thighs until he feels the lesson has been learned. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: laying face down position Author: After50 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:23:32 03/30/26 Mon Hi, Stacie! Just lay. Just flat. Just strap. I really sympathize with you. Maybe these aren't too personal questions. How has the perception of pain changed over the past few years with the same punishment method? What was the minimum and maximum strikes? Could you perhaps give an average estimate of how much dad strap you and for what? How many days does it take for the aftereffects to subside on average with this position and implement? How has your psychological and physiological perception of this punishment changed? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: laying face down position Author: Stacie to After50 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:59:26 03/30/26 Mon Hi After50, Yes, just flat on top of the table, face down and yes, dad's strap across my bare buttocks. The pain is always very intense. It feels just as bad now (17) as it did at first (12). Dad doesn't have a set number of strikes. Of course more serious offenses means a longer spanking. At present maybe 3-4 sessions in a year. I get it for offenses considered more serious. School related trouble, like texting in class getting me a detention. Curfew is considered serious. Serious bad attitude. After a sound spanking with the strap about a week for most everything to clear up. I'm not sure about these last items. I'm never happy when a spanking with the strap is announced but I also realize that I also deserve it. I have never felt I was spanked unfairly. It always embarrassing and that strap really burns. I hope this answers. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: laying face down position Author: After50 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:56:27 03/30/26 Mon Be strong and God bless you. Oh my god, 17 years. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: laying face down position Author: Stacie to After50 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:01:24 03/30/26 Mon Thank you sir and God bless you as well. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: laying face down position Author: After50 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:15:46 03/30/26 Mon Additional questions if anyone else wants to answer: Who decides how the hands are positioned in this position? Does spanko walk around the punishment placement from side to side so both buttocks get an equal pain, or do they have to shift spankee? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: laying face down position Author: Stacie to After50 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:44:34 03/30/26 Mon I must keep my hands grasping the edge of the table above my head. Also, yes, my dad straps from both sides of the table for exactly that reason. He wants equal attention to both sides of my bare bottom. His tabe is pulled out from the wall so he can step from side to side. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: laying face down position Author: Al [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:16:12 03/31/26 Tue Stacie, does your Dad strap the backs of your legs in that position as well? Seems to me that your upper thighs at least could be considered viable target areas. I know it stings but it makes the spanking effective. Or, more so. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: laying face down position Author: Stacie to AI [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:04:24 03/31/26 Tue Yes sometimes he lays the strap across my upper thighs just below my buttocks. He mostly concentrates on my bare buttocks but the thighs also get some attention. You're not kidding it's effective. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: laying face down position Author: Al [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:40:07 04/01/26 Wed Sounds like you are punished effectively. Does he use other punishment techniques or methods in addition to the strap or hand? Feel free to reach out to me if you wish. I work with young adults (over 18 of course) so it's nice to know what older teens experience (and early 20's). That's a good position for using a belt or strap. I've used that position before, and having her lay over the edge of the bed with her pelvic area over the edge. Buttocks are well positioned. Thanks for responding, Stacie. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: laying face down position Author: Stacie to AI [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:09:21 04/01/26 Wed Hi AI, I am punished very effectively but also fairly. My dad's strap is an actual punishment strap. I only get the strap and it's always face down on the table in his private study at home. Did I mention that the table is out from the wall so dad steps from side to side to make sure my entire buttocks on both sides gets equal attention. I have read about quite a few girls older than I still getting it. That tells me that at 17, my spanking days are not numbered. Dad has told me that behavior, not age is what determines any future discipline. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: laying face down position Author: AL [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:34:56 04/02/26 Thu Spanking vs. age is interesting. I do not think any "protocol" as such, if it existed, would adequately serve all ages and situations. Every teenager is different. Every family is different. Some kids are not spanked after 12 and some need it into their 20's. Although it can be argued if that's the case, the overall parenting method might need to be reassessed. Seems your Dad is thorough and effective. That is a good thing, else the punishment would not work well. Aside from going overboard. A strap given to your bare bottom and thighs while laying face down is perhaps one of the most effective methods out there IMO. Hopefully you won't need it later, Stacie. But I agree with your Dad 100%... it should continue until demonstrated behavior warrants ceasing the use of the strap. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: laying face down position Author: Stacie to AI [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:07:51 04/02/26 Thu Hi AI, Well, you and my dad are definitely on the same page. Yes sit, dad's leather strap on my bare bottom and thighs while face down on his spanking table is very effective. My dad shares your opinion sir. I also agree sir. It shall be up to me to prove that the strap is no longer needed. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: laying face down position Author: After50 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:21:36 04/02/26 Thu An interesting tradition—always sticking to one method and not changing it. At first glance, it looks as if it's been done the same way in the same family for two or three generations. And what was used before you were 12 years old and how did dad tell you that that's enough, now we'll do it like this, lying on table? I'm also surprised that you say nothing about your perception has changed after five years. At the same time, you've matured, and even though I didn't study psychology for many years at university, it's pretty clear to anyone that psychological perception is bound to change. Well, I just noticed what surprised me, so I don't need to answer that. I'll just wish you strength again. My God, to endure such torment for 5 years... [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: laying face down position Author: Scott [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:01:48 04/04/26 Sat These days I only spank adult women. I rarely use OTK for two reasons: 1) Size of the spankee, and 2) Limited swing with the spankee OTK. I usually use a belt or strap, so being able to get a full swing in is important. I use a couple positions regularly, one of which is face down on the bed. If her full body is on the bed, I prop up her hips with a couple pillows. That gets her bottom at the proper height and angle. A couple variants that I sometimes use are with the spankee kneeling alongside the bed with her upper body lying on the bed, or with her lying face down on the bed with her legs dangling off. Pillows can be used in these variants if extra height or angling is desired. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: laying face down position Author: Al [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:10:54 04/04/26 Sat Those are very effective positions. Use them myself. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: laying face down position Author: Scott (To Al) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:29:28 04/04/26 Sat And relatively comfortable for the spankee--except for her roasted rump, of course! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: laying face down position Author: Al [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:50:28 04/04/26 Sat Absolutely. It's not about causing pain for the sake of pain itself, it's to send a message. If the spanking or belting is not effective it's doing the recipient a disservice. The bed is a good place because you can go on either side and cover both cheeks consistently and sit-spots, and upper thigh areas. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: laying face down position Author: Brenda (to Scott) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:26:08 04/05/26 Sun RE: "...lying face down on the bed with her legs dangling off." That's the position my disciplinarian usually chooses. He also has me put a pillow under my hips "to get things just right." He's a stickler about positioning. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: laying face down position Author: Scott (to Brenda) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:06:03 04/05/26 Sun It's a good position for a belt or razor strop spanking. What implement does your disciplinarian use in that position? I also tend to be a stickler about positioning. It makes a big difference if you can get the spankee positioned "just right" as your disciplinarian says. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: laying face down position Author: Brenda (to Scott) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:24:17 04/05/26 Sun A belt or something similar. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]