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Subject: Hello to JanR Author: Mork and Mindy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 08:43:35 05/26/25 Mon Mork joins in welcoming you back to the group after your dad suspended you until the end of school term. OHM, in his quite appropriate wisdom, has deleted a prior thread with you. Best for a wonderful and spank free summer! Mindy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Hello to JanR Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:09:17 05/26/25 Mon Dear Mindy, Hi. Actually school is not quite out yet but dad allowed me back. I guess I have proven that I can focus on school and I have gotten A's on a couple finals. We finish up next week. So yeah, good to be back but I probably won't post quite as much as I did. Thanks for the well wishes. I hope you and Mork and doing well. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Hello to JanR Author: CaringThroughAction [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:13:19 05/26/25 Mon Welcome back, JanR! Sorry if this seems random but just saw your post here. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Hello to JanR Author: Jan to Caring [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:15:53 05/26/25 Mon Thank you sir. Yes I'm happy to hear back from you. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Hello to JanR Author: CaringThroughAction [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:28:21 05/26/25 Mon Glad your Dad allowed you back on. Feel free to email me or reach out on Trillian if you like. I'm "bigalradio" and want to be supportive anyway. :) [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Hello to JanR Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:07:40 05/26/25 Mon Lovely to hear from you, JanR. Wonderful that you're doing so well at school. Say 'hi' to your dad from Mork and myself. As I recall while it is your dad that gives you the strap it is often your mom who decides you need it and asks him to give it to you. Am I right? Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Hello to JanR Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:41:04 05/27/25 Tue Yes ma'am. Mom has, more than once told dad I need the strap. She can actually be more stict than him sometimes. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Hello to JanR Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:04:11 05/27/25 Tue I wonder if your mom had the strap when she was your age and thinks it was a good thing so wants the same for you? Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Hello to JanR Author: Jan to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:11:14 05/27/25 Tue She did. She got the belt strap when she was a pre teen and teen. I know it was bare bottom but I don't know if it was fully nude or not. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Hello to JanR Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:00:54 05/28/25 Wed Thanks for the reply, Jan. I'm sure your mom, growing up, and especially looking back now, felt and feels the strap was good for her and when she thinks you need it wants you to feel the strap for your own good. Hard when you're getting it to think that way though. I'm sure it's also hard for your mom to ask your dad to strap you and to be with you when you're getting it. All very unpleasant. Was the strap applied to your mom by her mom, or her dad? Perhaps both? I wonder if she got it up on a table the way you do and that's where the idea of doing you on your dad's table came from? Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Hello to JanR Author: Jan to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:11:29 05/28/25 Wed Hi Mindy, As a teen mom got it from dad. It's very emotional for mom watching dad put the strap across my bare especially if she was the one to order it. I know both mom and dad feel it's for my own good and well, I agree. That's easy now, not so much when I'm naked on the table. The table was dad's idea. As a teen, mom got it in her room on her bed. We started out that way but laying on the bed you tend to sink in so dad decided to use his antique table in his home office. Dad has been known to say that table is just perfect for Jan's discipline. I overheard that a few years back. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Hello to JanR Author: CaringThroughAction [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:09:43 05/28/25 Wed Interesting about the table. I have ran across relatively few who's parents have them lay on a table. Using a firm surface though does make sense. Even with using pillows to raise the hips on a bed, they invariably will sink into the pillows. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Hello to JanR Author: Jan to Caring [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:09:14 05/28/25 Wed Hello Caring, Yes, dad wants me on a firm surface sir, hence the "spanking" table in his study. We call it that when it's being used for me. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Hello to JanR Author: Louise Vancisic Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:30:10 05/28/25 Wed Hi Caring. When my father whipped me over my panties with the strap, I don't recall that laying on the bed diminished the effectiveness of the punishment. I don't see where a hard surface would make much difference. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Hello to JanR Author: Robert to Louise [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:43:45 05/28/25 Wed Dear Louise, I would love to hear about her experiences and discuss them with you. Either here or email. Either one is fine. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Hello to JanR Author: Louise Vancisic Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:18:26 06/13/25 Fri Did you get my e-mail? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Hello to JanR Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:34:00 06/04/25 Wed Hello JanR, Did your mom get it from her dad as long as she lived at home? Do you know if she was on a bed, or perhaps bend, or over the back of a chair? I'm sure it must be very emotional for your mom to see your dad giving you the strap on your bottom. It would remind her of her own growing up. She'd know how awful it was for you. As she has chosen to have your dad strap you it must be that she feels her own strappings were a positive thing for her and as she watches your dad with his strap she'll be praying it also helps you. Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Hello to JanR Author: Deanna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:17:08 05/29/25 Thu Welcome back Jan R I have been away for a while I found out I was pregnant a month ago and hubbie and I were busy planning and we moved ved from our rental to a house we bought I just wanted to say welcome back [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Hello to JanR Author: Jan to Deanna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:58:21 05/30/25 Fri Wow Deanna, That is wonderful news. Congradulations!!!!!!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Hello to JanR Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:36:11 06/02/25 Mon I vote with JanR. Wonderful news, Deanna. Congratulations. To JanR, Interesting that it's called the spanking table. Is that just you, or is it something your mom calls it as well? Might she say something like, "I'm going to ask your dad to strap you on the spanking table?" What about your dad. Does he call it the spanking table, or just table? Have a wonderful week everyone, Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Hello to JanR Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:27:57 06/02/25 Mon Dear Mindy, Dad was the first to call it the spanking or sometimes strapping table. Mom has told me that when dad gets home I can expect a session on the spanking table. Of course that brings on instant begging and crying. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Hello to JanR Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:29:54 06/03/25 Tue Thanks for this. Does the begging and crying ever get mom to give you another chance? It must be a little tummy tightening to be in your dad's office and see the table. Therapeutic, no doubt. Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Hello to JanR Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:52:13 06/03/25 Tue Dear Mindy, Maybe once or twice when younger. I might have mentioned mom is usually stricter than dad. However, they are united. If mom says I need to be punished dad will follow through. I'm not really afraid of the spanking table unless I'm in trouble. I hang out with dad in his office and of course the table is right there. Only when I'm in trouble does being in dad's office have my tummy in knots. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Hello to JanR Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:25:59 06/04/25 Wed Hello JanR, I'm happy to hear you can hang out in your dad's office with him and the table without your tummy knotting. What does he use the table for when you're not up on it? I think it a good thing for you, for your family, that your mom and dad are united and if your mom says you need to be punished your dad will follow through. As the owner of this group (OHM) puts it so well, Sometimes a Girl Needs a Spanking. True for me, and it sounds like it's true for you as well. Not easy to admit, or take when the time comes, but acknowledging the need/benefit I find does make it a little easier to accept (or apply if I have to spank) and helps it be effective. Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Hello to JanR Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:19:01 06/04/25 Wed Dear Mindy, Dad and I hang out a lot. We are very close and I respect him as my father and know that discipline time means I have done something to clearly deserve it. Yes, I benefit and OMG do I hate to admit that and no at the time it's really hard to realize this is for my own good. Not much on the table actually. An old time rotary phone with some kind of dial with numbers on it. Black. Dad uses it as a make shift work surface to put extra papers and stuff on sometimes but that stuff doesn't stay. So, just the phone that's always there. Yes I have been asked to remove the phone when I am going to be on top of the table. I do that before undressing. It just goes on the floor until we're done. So I guess I kinda help out when I'm gonna get it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Hello to JanR Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:39:13 06/09/25 Mon Yes, if you don't go the "not fair, anger, resentment" route but face up to the fact it's deserved and you should learn from it it's still not easy to admit to. Especially at the time. Interesting about the antique table and phone. I guess it speaks to your parent's old fashioned values, or at least valuing things from the past. It must be difficult to put the phone on the floor. At that point it's underway, going to happen, no going back. Does your mom ever say anything to you at this point, while you're undressing, or when you're on the table before you get the strap? Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Hello to JanR Author: Jan to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:58:29 06/09/25 Mon Hi Mindy, It's never easy. I do realize that once the decision has been made it's because I really do deserve it. Usually right after I enter dad's study I just walk over to the table and take the phone off the top. By then dad or maybe both mom and dad come in. I get my lecture which is pretty brief cuz we all know why we are here. Sometimes after I have gotten down to just my bra and panties if she is there then mon will tell me to turn around and she unhooks my bra. I let it fall into my hands then it's time to step out of my panties. Yes, sometimes mom will make a comment like, "well Jan here we are again. I really hope this is the last time hun." I'll either be walking to the table ot maybe already on top. Dad always reminds me to keep hands grasping the edge above my head and he will say "OK pumpkin, let's just get this done and over with." "Yes daddy." And then...... [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Hello to JanR Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:35:40 06/13/25 Fri Hi JanR, You and your family have obviously worked out an efficient way of having your bottom burnt by dad's strap. As awful as it is I'm sure you must take some comfort in the ritual knowing as it proceeds not only will the strap painfully land after the allotted number your dad feels necessary it will end. Hopefully enough to implant the lesson firmly in your bottom to brain connection. I suppose it unrealistic to think you'll not need the strap again but I do hope you can enjoy the summer strap free. Do you have at your house, or near by, a pool to swim in? Love summer swimming! Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Hello to JanR Author: Jan to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:48:45 06/15/25 Sun We have been at my uncle's house visiting. Yes, the uncle that peeked in on my spanking with the strap several months ago. We do have a community pool nearby. I'm not much of a water person but I do love to lay out. Thank you Mindy. I hope so as well. We'll see. Have you ever gone swimming right after a spanking. Did any marks show. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Hello to JanR Author: Alfred22 to Jan and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:58:21 06/15/25 Sun Mindy, I love your questions about the table and about the spanking ritual elements. Having a regular procedure definitely makes things easier for everyone involved. Jan, you refer to the decision for you to be spanked already having been made. Do you feel at all that the decision is up to you? Or that you "need" to be spanked? I am not asking did you do anything to "earn" it? Rather I am wondering if you have serious, all things considered, doubts as to the value of spankings for you. I have this hunch that they are good for you and that you share this intuition and that this is why you cooperate. I also believe that when there is No Cooperation, Whatever, spankings are not a good idea and they are likely to be both ineffective and to drift toward abuse. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Hello to JanR Author: Jan to Alfred22 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:28:09 06/15/25 Sun Hi Alfred, I see you have read all about how I am spanked so you know exactly what happens. Yes my parents believe in a ritual and it is always the same so no surprises. Doesn't make it any easier but at least I know step by step how it's gonna go. No the decision is not up to me but in all fairness, a spanking at this house is not performed unless I have specifically committed a spanking offense and at my age, the rules are pretty clear. Do I feel I need it? Well, my parents clearly do and I love and respect my parents so yes, I will do as I'm instructed when it's spanking time. I guess to be honest, I would rather not be spanked but again, I respect my parents decision and I have never felt unfairly spanked. I have earned every one. Yes, I do cooperate and I feel relieved after it's over. In this house once the spanking is over and I have calmed down it's over and the slate is clean. I do like that. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]