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>Hi Sarah, > >Thank you also, for the kind words. The loss we >suffered was completely unexpected, which I really >don't know if that makes it any better or worse, >honestly. Even when a loved one has been ill for >quite some time and you know their passing is >imminent, it's really not anything you can fully >prepare for, when the time comes. > >I do believe that administering a "good, proper >spanking" involves more than just a "snatch and smack" >experience, like a knee-jerk reaction to misbehavior. >I'm of the opinion that when you take the time to >properly prepare the one to be spanked, it makes an >impression on them psychologically, which will remain >with them long after the sting in the bottom has >faded, and mostly forgotten about. > >I can appreciate those who follow an established >routine. When I was in middle school, I stayed >overnight on several occasions with my best friend at >the time, Whitney. Whitney's mom was very regimented >when it came to administering a spanking, whether it >was for Whitney or her older brother, she never >deviated. It was almost as if she had a checklist of >steps to follow. I suppose she did, mentally. > >It only happened twice that Whitney was spanked by her >mom while I was visiting, but about 4 times for her >brother. Full disclosure, both of the times when >Whitney got her bare bottom tanned, I was equally >guilty. However, since I was "A Girl of the Unspanked >Variety," her mom would phone my mom of what happened, >and I would get grounded when I got home. I never >told anyone at the time, but I wished that Whitney's >mom could have spanked me too, instead of reporting me >to my mom. I felt so guilty watching Whitney kick and >cry while over her mom's lap, knowing I deserved >exactly the same thing but I wasn't going to get it. >Also, I assumed that if I got a spanking from her, I >would not face a grounding as well. Sorry, I digress. > > >My husband and I had "The Talk" (Ok, the spanking >talk...not that "other" talk!) with Miss Eliza, thank >you for asking. We calmly made sure she understood >this change in discipline that she would be subject >to, just like her brothers. She said she understood >and apparently she understands very well, as she has >been on her best behavior, for the most part. I will >say that as time moves away from the announcement, she >seems to be less "angelic" shall we say, and that >pre-teenage girl attitude is showing up more and more. > She has not done any one, single thing that would >warrant an actual spanking IMO, but it could be that >the combination of several instances of sassy >attitude, could open the door to her first, ever, >spanking. I will NEVER spank one of my children for >no good reason, but if there is justification, I will >not hesitate. Assuming she will likely cross that >line one day, I will share the experience here on the >forum. > >It's probably the way I was raised myself without >being subject to getting spanked - as was true for my >sister as well - but for our brothers, it just seemed >like a natural way of life for them to get their bare >behinds soundly spanked on occasion, which instilled >in me a belief that spankings were a punishment for >boys, but not for girls. That said, I'd be lying if I >said I don't have ambivalent feelings about spanking >Eliza, assuming we come to that eventually. OTOH, I'm >also a little curious about how she will react to it. > >I don't plan on spanking Eliza any differently than I >do her brothers - bare behind, over my lap, with hand >and paddle. The one thing I'm still rather conflicted >about, is her modesty. I've never kept her from >witnessing her brother's spankings - but again - she >is a girl, not a boy, and I just struggle with the >thought of her brothers seeing her with her pants and >panties down. This seems to be a societal thing, >regardless of age. When I belonged to this one gym, >it had showers for all members. In the women's >showers, there were individual shower stalls that >provided privacy. My husband, a member of the same >gym, said the men's showers were essentially a large, >single, open room with showerheads all around the >perimeter, no privacy whatsoever. He didn't seem >bothered about it, but I think I would have been >mortified to have showered in front of the other lady >members. What are your thoughts on Eliza's modesty?
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