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Subject: Re: How parents decide to use and practice spanking


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Becky
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Date Posted: 19:50:02 04/21/25 Mon
In reply to: Trish 's message, "How parents decide to use and practice spanking" on 11:26:03 04/21/25 Mon

Trish,

This is an interesting topic.

When I first met my soon-to-be-husband a few years ago, one of the things that attracted me to him was that he paddled his children when they misbehaved. He paddled them bare bottom. Soundly. I should revise this and say that he paddled his two sons, but because his daughter was still quite young, he kept her spankings to just bare bottom hand-spankings. I found this devotion to his children to be downright sexy. I have always admired men who spank their children. Even when I was a young girl growing up, I was often infatuated with my friends’ dads who spanked them. I often daydreamed about getting spanked by them along with my friend. I admire women who raise their children properly too, but when I found out that Gabe spanked his kids the old-fashioned way, it sealed the deal for me. I knew I needed to marry him. I also admired that his ex-wife, Diane, the kids’ mother, was also a firm believer in bare bottom spankings.

Fast forward a few years and it was just recently that Gabe and Diane made it clear to me that if I intended to be the kids’ stepmother, then I needed to fully embrace the job and join the two of them in making sure that the kids are kept properly disciplined. They didn’t want me sitting on the sidelines regarding this important issue. I, also, didn’t want to be left sitting on the sidelines as I had always hoped to raise my kids, if I ever had any, the way my parents raised me and my two younger sisters with hot bare bottom spankings.

One of the first discussions I had with Gabe and Diane was to lay down the basics about expectations. Expectations for what are spankable offenses and what is expected of the spankings. Gabe and Diane both have their own signature ways of spanking the kids and I made it clear that I also wanted to have my own way. Gabe has his paddle and Diane has her long, slim, vintage wooden lint brush. I purchased an antique wooden hairbrush for the boys, Levi, seven, and Joey, nine. Bailey is only six and too young for the hairbrush so I bought a heavy wooden spoon for her bare bottom.

Ironically, Diane and I discuss spanking more than Gabe and I do. Diane and her two siblings were raised almost exactly the same way that my very pro-spanking parents raised my two sisters and me. Plus, we have nearly-identical beliefs about why, when, how, and how hard spankings should be. We agree that spankings must always be done with the boys’ briefs or Bailey’s panties completely removed, and we agree that due to Bailey’s age, she shouldn’t be spanked as hard as her older brothers, but that doesn’t mean she shouldn’t be spanked soundly and thoroughly. Wooden spoon spankings work well for her. My wooden hairbrush is better for the boys’ bare bottoms. The spoon delivers a sharp, crisp, formidable sting that elicits loud howling, but the hairbrush, due its heavier nature, burns more and becomes unbearable quicker. It doesn’t mean that the boys’ spankings should stop sooner just because the burn builds up quicker, it just means that the boys’ butts will be hotter and sorer from earlier on in the spankings and will make the spankings harder to endure.

Diane has no problem leaving minor bruising when she spanks and told me that I shouldn’t worry about it either, so I don’t. It is only natural that the kids’ sit-spots and upper thighs will be red or slightly violet the next day, or possibly for a few days.

We also talk about the best way to position the kids for their spankings. We both prefer the one-knee method as opposed to the lap method which places the kids over both knees. Diane and I were both raised by parents who used the one-knee procedure and we respect how we could never wiggle or squirm off Mom or Dad’s knee during our spankings. Kids need to feel safely secured in place when they are restrained over the knee so there is no question that no matter how much it hurts or how loudly they scream, they aren’t going anywhere until the bare bottom spanking has been fully executed and maximum STING has been achieved.

I learned from Diane the ritual of using both pre-spanking bare bottom cornertime and post-spanking bare bottom cornertime. Diane and her siblings were raised that way. Mt sisters and I only got post-spanking cornertime. I like adding pre-spanking cornertime because, for one, I have also started stripping the kiddos totally buck naked and seeing them standing against the wall in their birthday suits, bare bottoms facing out, is really just to die for. The kids get really nervous knowing that their butts are about to get tenderized.

Diane and I talk about a lot other things too, but this is a good sampling of the sorts of things we discuss.

Becky

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Re: How parents decide to use and practice spankingTrish14:32:46 04/22/25 Tue
Re: How parents decide to use and practice spankingMarkW12:56:32 04/23/25 Wed


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