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| Subject: Combination of spankings and diaper punishments | |
Author: Linda [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 02:18:37 03/30/24 Sat Hello to all of you and God Bless you all. I came along this Forum and I would like to get a part of it. I am Linda 44 married to Jim 45. We are heaving two kids a boy Dennis he is 11 and a girl Annika she is 13. We live in a small town in Austria . We are a religious Christian Family and we belive in strict discipline. In our church we have several parents believing in the same values so we share and talk about our discipline ways. We decided to homeschool our kids. My husband has a very good job so there is no need I have to go to work full time. I work night shifts on the weekends only I am a nurse. I looked around the forum and saw that a lot of you also belive in punishment spankings as well as maintenance spankings we do the same . We also are firm believer in diaper punishments both kids got started with diaper punishments at the age of 6. Currently our daughter spend a lot of times in diapers with a sore bottoms from spankings she is in a rebellious age right now. Would like to talk with other likeminded parents. Happy Easter to all of you Love Linda |
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| Subject: New here | |
Author: Kayla [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 21:25:08 03/31/24 Sun I am a Christian wife of a wonderful Hoh we believe the Bible and Home school our 5.children all veiled 13 11 9 and two 7 year old twins we use a paddle like they use in the youth and children’s ministry at Church . I also can get spanked if needed but it is not needed often . I was raised by a single mom my dad died when I was 6 month old . My mom and this Church raised me . My husband does family devotions every morning before breakfast after breakfast he goes to work I start home school . |
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| Subject: Re: Spanking toddlers | |
Author: Carol A [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 16:22:17 06/14/24 Fri Hi Kathy. Bless you hon. I am new to the board. So, I have no idea when you will read my comment. Divorced Christian mom here. I am 68. Grew up in a very strict home. I raised my two in a strict home. Once you read my greetings to you give me a reply if you like. Hugs Blessings |
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| Subject: Seeking a supportive church in the UK | |
Author: Anne [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 19:26:26 05/27/24 Mon Hi, New to the forum and newly married. I’m based in the U.K. with my hubby and would like to seek a supportive church community in the U.K. (Wales). Thanks! |
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| Subject: Introduction | |
Author:  Emmayoung[ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 08:49:50 05/05/24 Sun I just joined this blessed forum and am looking forward to interacting with other parents who were raised like me and raise their kids the same Life’s lessons are best learned bare and over a lap I am 46 and a widowed mom from Illinois Last edited by author: Tue May 14, 2024 11:48:12 Edited 2 times. |
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| Subject: Disciplinary kit | |
Author: Sandra [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 09:23:19 03/21/24 Thu Hello everyone and bless you! Christian mother of one eight year old boy here. Does anyone use a bag where they keep things for the discipline? For me it's a small sports bag with the essentials inside. Of course I don't take it to the mall or church, but for example on longer trips or family visits. Things like: A risotto spoon Baby wet wipes soap Lexan paddle Babyoil Baby cream |
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| Subject: Hi! Glad found this board and group of like minded. | |
Author: Carol A [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 16:33:50 06/12/24 Wed Hello I am Carol A from USA. I am 68 years old. Very happy to have found this good group. I have referred many moms to it. Hopefully, they will come and introduce themselves. It is refreshing to know there are still parents to are strict. Bringing their kids up in a good christian home. Where discipline is given when needed. Kids today are in need of discipline! I am divorced Baptist mom. Two boys. I gave OTK spankings when needed. Hand on bare. My mom and aunt gave spankings. Aunt was a nurse. I also look forward to good conversations in the group |
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| Subject: Disciplinary baths | |
Author: Kate [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 12:42:19 03/04/24 Mon Mouth soaping has been discussed here before. But is there anyone else, that does not only soaps mouths but also bathes their older kids? We like our kids 8 and 10 to be nice and clean especoally before a spanking. But may also give them standalone from time to time, to put them back in place. |
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| Subject: New Member - Male HoH stepfather | |
Author: StrictAlan[ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 06:26:53 03/20/24 Wed Hello everyone! I'm a new member to this forum. I'm so glad to have found a safe place with like-minded parents that believe in family discipline and punishment. I'm the stepfather to a Christian family. I met my wife at our church a year or so after she was widowed due to a drunk driver. She had three children already and I am proud to call them my family now. We are traditional in our values and literal when obeying the Bible's directives. She is a completely submissive micromanaged wife that is spanked and corrected as well. Ww homeschool, have family bible study time, correction and spanking regularly. I'm very interested in getting to know all of you and sharing our experiences. |
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| Subject: Intro, Christy | |
Author: Christy [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 16:21:47 03/26/24 Tue Good evening. I stumbled across this forum and thought I'd introduce myself before contributing more. I live in a lovely suburban area of Oklahoma with my son. We have a great community here, and I don't picture ever leaving. I do discipline my son as needed which (knock on wood) has been less frequent in the last couple of months. My late husband who passed a few years ago used to be responsible for all the discipline. Naturally that had to change. He used to spank me pretty regularly too. While I think I've done a reasonable job assuming the position of disciplinarian, I do find myself often thinking "He'd be giving me a spanking that" or reflexively thinking "that's a bathbrush spanking". I try not to dwell on it too much. Don't get me wrong - I truly despised the spankings as they were happening, but they did give me a sense of security in a way, and they certainly helped me behave at my best. I do not plan on ever getting remarried (or dating), so perhaps my days of being spanked are past me. Maybe posting here or otherwise chatting with some of you all will provide a kind of support in the absence of having a HOH. I look forward to contributing and hearing from you all. |
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| Subject: Family Update | |
Author: Jen [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 06:21:12 05/29/24 Wed It’s been a while since I gave a long update. The boys, Charlie 5, Nick 7, and Henry 10, have been doing great with their First Time Obedience (FTO). They say “yes mommy” when their name is called, maintain eye contact, smile and obey immediately while smiling. We are now allowing Henry to appeal any order by asking, “may I please appeal?” If we say yes then he can state his appeal. If we say no then he must follow the order. Nick and Charlie are not allowed to appeal yet. Henry (10) - Henry has been doing good. He got good grades this year wrapping up 4th grade. He is playing baseball and soccer. He will be attending a day camp this summer. He is finally dry at night and stopped wearing Goodnites a couple of months ago. As I mentioned earlier he is doing good with FTO and is now allowed to appeal commands. He is averaging two spankings per month. Nick (7) - oh Nick! He’s my difficult guy. But he’s also my most lovable. He loves to cuddle and hug and kiss. He is also playing baseball and soccer. He just finished first grade with pretty good grades. I’ve written before about his bathroom issues; bedwetting, peeing his pants, skid marks, etc. He was wearing Pull-Ups at home and was on a potty schedule at school. We worked really hard this year on these issues with rewards and punishments we were able to get him dry and clean during the day. He stopped wearing his Pull-Ups (still wears a diaper at night). Unfortunately that ended over Memorial Day weekend. I noticed he was wearing different shorts from what I dressed him in. He claimed to have spilled juice on them and changed. Nope, the truth is he peed and hid the shorts and underwear. He was spanked for lying and given two weeks in diapers for hiding the wet clothes. We went to the lake over the weekend and he even had to wear a Huggies Little Swimmer diaper under his swimsuit. He’s obviously not happy about this but he hasn’t put up a fight so there’s been no additional punishments like baby bottles, pacifiers or spankings. Charlie (5) - he’s the quiet one. He’s playing soccer and will be entering kindergarten. We are working hard on FTO with him. He’s young and still learning. But its results in a lot of punishments. He wet at night and wears a diaper too. He’s pretty good about daytime accidents, unlike Nick, but still occasionally wears a Pull-Up for long road trips for a just in case. On Saturday he did earn some pacifier time. On the drive home from the lake he was whining and complaining and just being bratty. I gave him a pacifier and told him he will be spanked every time it left his mouth. He kept it in his mouth like a good boy! It’s funny, on the way home from the lake we stopped at Chick-fil-A for dinner. I told Charlie to keep his pacifier in while there. So we are standing in line and my 7 year old has that distinct boxy diaper butt under his basketball shorts and my 5 year old has a pacifier in his mouth. Needless to say we got a couple of odd looks. Anyway, all 3 have 8:30 bedtimes and daily chores over summer break too. |
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