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Christian Family Discipline
Welcome to the board! This is meant to be a safe space , so please don't be judgmental or rude to others. This forum is run by my husband and myself who work with young people at church. It is for families who believe in raising children biblically, including discipline. For us to share experienced and learn from one another. Couples practicing Christian Domestic Discipline are also welcome, but please keep focus on raising children.

Subject: Spanking nude


Author:
Emily
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Date Posted: 12:04:20 01/26/24 Fri

It seems a few here spank with the child being fully nude. I have always just did it bare butt. I can't say I'm against it being naked but just wondered what benefits you see from doing it that way. I may give it a try at some point.
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Subject: For Jen/Heather


Author:
Lisa S
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Date Posted: 19:31:58 02/13/24 Tue

Why did you give up on maintenance spankings?
How do you give a warm up spanking? Hand only?
Would the boys do better at soccer if they were red & sore under their shorts at every practice or game?
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Subject: SuperBowl, Mouth Soaping & Spanking


Author:
Yesenia
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Date Posted: 11:28:59 02/12/24 Mon

Hey to this group!

My name is Yesenia and I have a son who turn 10 years old on January 28 and I am a Christian. I am 34 years old. I am a single mother. Yesterday Pastor Teddy who is 49 years old and his wife Marlene who is 42 years old invited my son Abel and I over to their house to watch the SuperBowl. Teddy and Marlene have two kids, 17 year old daughter Kathryn but they call her Kat for short and a 13 year old son Roddy.

Marlene gives her kids spankings spanking every night with her hand and 30 spanks with the hairbrush made of maple wood. She washing her kids mouth with soap and what Marlene calls serious spankings twice a week on Thursdays and Saturdays. What Marlene does is she takes off all the clothes of Kat and Roddy and then she takes them to the bath room and washes their mouth with soap for about 15 minutes on both kids and if the kids are not still, she takes off her flip flops and give them 6 spanks with that on their bottom and continues washing their mouth with soap and then they are allowed to spit that out but they are not allowed to rinse their mouth. Then she takes both to the living room and gives them a serious spanking with her hand and hairbrush until they are a blabbering mess.

That is what Marlene told me before the SuperBowl started and I really like that idea because I only spank Abel when he misbehaves on his bare bottom with my hand and flip flops. I told her if she was willing to do what she does to her kids on Abel and she smiled at me and said: “Yesenia, I would be happy to undress Abel, take him to the bathroom to wash his mouth with soap, take him to the living room and then give him a serious spanking with my hand and hairbrush. But that would be after the SuperBowl”. She then went in and prepared everything for Abel’s first mouth soaping.

Once the SuperBowl was over. I told my son: “Oh Abel, the pastor’s wife is going to undress you, take you to the bathroom, wash your mouth with soap, take you to the living room and give you really good spanking with her hand and hairbrush”. He was shocked and Marlene took his arm and undressed him, took him to the bathroom and I saw how she washed Abel’s mouth with soap, but he did make fusses and the pastor’s wife took off her flip flops and gave him 6 spanks with that and continued to wash his mouth with soap. Then she allow him to spit that out. Marlene said: “Sweetie, don’t rinse off your mouth now we are going to the living room and give you a serious spanking on your bare bottom and thighs with my hand and hairbrush, you want me to do that, don’t you?” Then once we got to the living room Kat and Roddy were sitting to watch Abel get spanked. Marlene did give Abel a really good spanking with her hand and hairbrush. When she was done spanking him, she let him get off her bare thighs and he was a crying mess. Once Abel calmed down, Marlene took Abel for cuddles and Abel told her: “Mrs Marlene, that hairbrush stings a lot more than my mom’s flip flops”. I was there listening to them and then I said: “Well mommy is going to order a hairbrush to spank you with”. Marlene smiled when I said that.

Once we got home I did let him know that I was going to give him a bedtime spanking every night and the I will make sure to wash his mouth with soap and give him a really good spanking with my hand and hairbrush. He was so shocked. So yesterday I gave him his first bedtime spanking with my hand, because his bottom was already sore.

Yesenia
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Subject: cath you ok?


Author:
Kristina
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Date Posted: 04:48:53 02/12/24 Mon

Hey Cath, we havent heard from you in a couple days, are you doing okay? :)
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Subject: Confession Time & My Family’s Story


Author:
Jen
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Date Posted: 16:16:23 02/06/24 Tue

Hi everyone!

I’m Jen but I was posting here under the name Heather. I have three wonderful boys that are 5, 7, and 10. We are your typical Christian family who believe in first time obedience and traditional parenting which includes spankings. But we also practice something called diaper discipline (I’ll explain more later). This form of discipline is admittedly controversial.

I was posting under the name “Jen” for years on diaper discipline forums but most have little activity and many conversations are on subjects that don’t deal with DD and can be frankly concerning. I still wanted to share with likeminded parents who believe in old fashioned discipline but recognized that DD stuff found on other forums could be offensive. So out of respect to others I changed my name and never discussed DD here. However, I decided to take a risk and confess that we use DD and explain what it is and isn’t.

Diaper discipline is a gentle way of maintaining discipline and reinforcing taking personal responsibility and encouraging growth. The focus is on gentle. Yes, spanking is involved if the child doesn’t cooperate but when the child does it is not necessary.

Putting an older potty trained child in diapers and age regressing them serves as a reminder to behave and act their age. For example instead of a child having a sore bottom for the day to remind them to behave they could wear a diaper which they feel very self conscious about. DD also helps to reinforce that the parents have total control over everything including the potty. There are many many other benefits that I can write paragraphs on but in the interest of simplicity I’ll talk about how we got started and our rules.

My three boys have struggled with bedwetting and encopresis. When my 10 YO was a toddler I was researching discipline and stumbled upon DD. After years of potty training, encopresis and bedwetting I found it to be the perfect tool for discipline.

The boys would have accidents and not tell an adult. They didn’t take personal responsibility.

So how does DD work in our house?

First and foremost I want to stress the boys wear regular underwear like 95% of the time. They wear underwear to school, sports, friend’s houses, etc. They are normal athletic fun loving boys.

The 5 & 7 YOs wear pull-ups during the weekend, while traveling or special events like holidays or weddings. While at school the teacher reminds them to go to the bathroom, they have a potty schedule.

What can trigger DD?

Repeated regular accidents, hiding soiled clothes, lying, or acting overly immature. We can also do DD whenever we see fit too.


Our household rules for DD are simple (these apply to the 10 YO too but he rarely needs it).

If they have an accident in underwear and tell an adult then they wear a Pull-Up the rest of the day, no spanking.

If they have an accident in a Pull-Up and tell an adult then no punishment.

If they have an accident in either underwear or a Pull-Up and don’t tell an adult, hide it, or lie then it is a spanking and DD.

Under DD:
Diaper stays on and cannot be removed and must be used
They can ask to be changed only once. No means no!
We might increase the punishment by adding extras like bottles, bibs, pacifiers, playpen etc.

The 7 YO is small for his age and very comfortably fits in a Huggies Size 6 diaper and Pull-Ups now makes a T5-T6 so he will have a couple of years left in Pull-Ups.

I really believe in DD. We rarely need to do maintenance spankings (haven’t done one in nearly 2 months) and it’s a great way to keep them under control.
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Subject: After School


Author:
Jen
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Date Posted: 12:35:15 02/08/24 Thu

Just finished spanking my oldest son Henry (10). He’s doing his corner time now while Charlie (5) and Nicky (7) are in their room playing.

He’s been doing really good lately and hasn’t been spanked I think in two months. But he’s been very forgetful. Let me give some examples. Saturday, soccer practice forgot his cleats at the bench. Monday, forgot his coat at school. Tuesday he left his Gabb watch at school. Unfortunately he can’t find it anywhere and we’ve tried calling it with no luck. So we consider it gone.

I know kids can be forgetful but come on kiddo! He’s been begging us for a cell phone but we keep reminding him he’s too young and is still very much a little boy. If he can’t be responsible with a watch then he’s not ready for a phone.

When the boys were at school today I ordered him a new watch. When they got home they went to their rooms to change from school uniforms to play clothes. I called him downstairs and hear his sweet little voice say, “yes mommy” as trained. He comes to me, maintains eye contact and smiles as I talk with him. Like I said he’s doing great with his first time obedience protocols and years of training are paying off.

I tell him he needs to pay for his new watch. He asked like with chores? I told him I thought about that but I think he needs to pay with his bottom. He tried so hard to maintain eye contact and smile during this too…good boy!!

I take him over to the couch where I had his small Lexan paddle and baby oil waiting on the coffee table. I sit, he places his hand on his head while I lower his sweatpants and Star Wars briefs. Once bare he goes over the lap. I grab the bottle of oil and apply a nice layer including inside his crack. I pick up the paddle and get to work! I spent probably 15 minutes on him. I stay mostly silent but do sternly say “bad boy” every so often. After a break came his thighs. When I was done he was red as can be and on fire. The pain was pretty intense. Let’s just say he’s going to feel this one for the next week!
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Subject: Discipline/Life Update! PLS POST TOO


Author:
Kristina
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Date Posted: 06:38:25 02/07/24 Wed

Okay I know alot of you enjoy reading these even those who don't post much lol and Cath I hope this inspires another lengthy post, id love to hear about another bedtime :)

I talked about Soapings from Tuesday but there's more to update

My son at least got up easily when I got him up, I turned on his light pulled off blankets playfully smacked his pj bottoms and he giggled and did get up to come down for breakfast.

We eat first and then do teeth and get dressed. Both kids enjoyed their scrambled eggs and toast and juice, no complaints. But I could see the tell tale signs of my son being grumpy that day lol but i smiled and just left it alone.

Afte breakfast, was in bathroom with Mattie, making sure he brushes and does it properly. Well he was fussing and whining being un cooperative, not enough paste, too much toothpaste, brush too wet lol I was NOT having it.

I said "alright young man clearly you woke up on the wrong side of the bed, but you know the rules. Mommmy doesnt not find it acceptable, this attitude is going to stop RIGHT now. its time for a soaping and a good sound spanking, Matthew!"

"Noooo mommy! I'll brush them I'm sorry!"
"Oh yes you will, but after we have our little discussion" I said this as I filled the sink.

As I unwrapped a new bar of soap i said "this isn't like you Matthew, but you know I will always be here to help you be a happy boy again. Tongue out please.

I scrubbed his tongue very thoroughly, under it, the inside of cheeks, roof of mouth.. lots of suds and drool down his pj top, blowing bubbles and crying, you know the sounds Cath as do others who mouth soap!

I felt only one lathering was plenty in this case, we had school to get to. I sat on the closed toilet lid, and it was early so I just used hand, a good five minutes though on his bare bum, he was crying and kicking like always
"you SPANK don't SPANK SPANK act rude SPANK and refuse to listen! do you understand me Matthew?"

crying of course he said yes mommy he hugged me and cried and said sorry to mommy, he's always been sweet and affectionate after a spanking . The old adage warm bottom warm heart proves true again!

He cleaned his face, rinsed, brushed teeth without argument lol and got dressed. He then had to wait in our classroom downstairs in the corner while Katie got ready for the day.

She had no problems with mood or listening which was good.
Matthew I was proud got through whole five xs tables without issue, but once again Katie had gotten frustrated, earned herself a full proper paddling with lexan and mouth soaping.

Sigh! such an early start lol it was like ten something and I was paddling Katie baby butt naked over my knee! Believe me, I really spanked firm and got all the perfect vocal reactions that tell you the message is working!

I let her know, I would be doing HER mouth soaping after lunch. The rest of morning lessons went well, spent half hour in the yard letting them run around and play before lunch. Grilled cheese and tomato soup! What is it about tomato soup that matches so well with grilled cheese?

After lunch Katie got her mouth soaped and bottom handspanked like her brother got.

I had to give Matthew an on the spot spanking for teasing his sister after her mouth soaping. He knows that isnt allowed either, but sometimes all kids need reminded.

we did some bible study and prayer time and it was lovely.
Then jus relaxation time in the afternoon.

They both got an on the spot spanking each for bickering with eachother over something or other , silly small argument over small things happens all the time. No biggie, stood up and given 20 bare hand spanks each.

Matthew was working on some sort of art piece around 3 in the afternoon and i caught him saying darn it, so he got a mouth soaping, and then he won his grand prize, a sound paddling naked over mommy's knee!

So that was basically the day, if theres any parts anyone would like more details on or any questions, please let me know.
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Subject: FAVE MOVIES WITH FAMILY DISCIPLINE OR SPANKING


Author:
Kristina
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Date Posted: 14:40:14 02/06/24 Tue

What are some films you remember and enjoy that had family discipline? either watching with your folks as a kid, ot with ur kids now or own your own?

First one, Matilda. I know it was only a spanking THREAT but she handled it beautifully slamming door in her her dad's face. I do wish she had used magic to spank him instead with his belt though lol

But and I KNOW I cant be alone here, anyone else ever think about Miss Trunchbowl using her weight training leather belt to spank them if instead of goin in the chokey? LOL

Theres an interesting scene in True Grit the western, during the end credits of the bad seed theres a cute scene. its on youtube.

OH in A Christmas Story im sure the mom spanked but they didnt say she did, but Ralphie ive talked about it before gets his mouth washed out for the F word lol and then makes up this sad tale of going blind cos of it as an old man
Subject: Mouth Soaping Log


Author:
Kristina
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Date Posted: 11:41:24 02/03/24 Sat

I thought this would be a lovely idea, especially to encourage those who have never or rarely used soaping as a punishment, believe in it so strongly, that I am starting this thread so we can report any time we use it, with or without a spanking.

Feb 1 After dinner Matthew, sis watching poor manners at din
Feb 2 Both son and daughter whining about something or other
Feb 3 Matthew saying "in a minute" about towels on floor
Feb 3 Matthew speaking badly of another child
Feb 3 Katie saying praying was not "fun" I had to talk to her to show her not about "fun" but is important
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Subject: Good bedtime stories for whole family


Author:
Kristina
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Date Posted: 20:23:34 02/04/24 Sun

Ive always loved how long the power of the word stays with us, in old books that still speak to us. Have been reading these stories from this author with the kids, they are PG, entertaining but still help normalize the role of discipline in the kids' lives.

These are 30 years old nearly but still hold up! The series we are on that I like best is Mom's Best Friend

https://www.thespankingcorner.com/stories/carolinajim/index.html

If you read these as a family pls let me know what everyone thought. And if you have some your family loves, no sxual content please, feel free to share, please do!

Blessings.

PS YES Ladies it reminds me alot of my own childhood experiences with my mom's best friend hehe
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Subject: Post Punishment Prayer


Author:
Kristina
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Date Posted: 20:33:36 02/02/24 Fri

Post Punishment Prayer try and say that five times fast! Actually make it a game, see which children can say it the most times before messing up

Just a little outline of a prayer, an example of one that could be used, once the tears are mostly dry, maybe still some sniffling, to conclude a discipline session

Dear Lord, we humbly pray and ask that you
Help us continue to keep resisting the devil so he will flee and stay away, help us as a family remove any foolishness in the heart through Godly correction.

We pray that the lesson taught by this session is taken to heart to help the children be wise, strong, humble, reliant on God and obedient to their parents.

Please help this little girl and boy love honor and obey their parents in all things and trust in their guidance.
we ask that you wash away the guilt of their sins that have been confessed during this punishment.

Amen
Subject: Public/Semi Public Discipline


Author:
Kristina
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Date Posted: 16:12:32 02/01/24 Thu

So its interesting to me how different generations do things, so was wondering if anyone would also like me like to share about semi public or public discipline, they have given, seen, or heard about. was your mother spanked anywhere interesting, your grandmother? lol nieces nephews

I have some about alot of those and some ive encountered in wild. ive given some too lol ALOT

so be it a restaurant, park bench, rest stop, bathroom, changing room , hotel, amusement park, pool. beach, church, the moon lOL lets share those cute stories
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Subject: Church and Discipline


Author:
Kristina
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Date Posted: 15:07:24 02/02/24 Fri

Anyone else find it hard to focus if youre in church either during worship or the sermon and you see an unruly or overly fidgety child is marched down the aisle, and comes back in holding moms hand rubbbing their seat? Cant help but smile, its a kids job to push their parents limits lol
Subject: Weekly Checkin And Update For Yall


Author:
Kristina
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Date Posted: 00:00:43 01/31/24 Wed

FIRST OFF for those interested, this link is a photo of Cath's Lexan paddle.

https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/0603/3086/8929/products/LexanSwitch_280x420.jpg?v=1650595742

Its Called The SWITCH PLUS OTK Lexan Spanking Paddle from
https://mastercontrolswoodshop.com/paddle/lexan-paddles/

Very adorable paddle. Btw Cath , should have the kids vote to name it LOL

Okay so this week, the children here are both doing well with accepting and seeing value in their nightly bedtime spankings, My son used to really squirm and make it difficult to keep position, but he is holding his teddy bear and doing his best to be still and brave, and has made progress, however any suggestions?

Homeschooling, our curriculum thats put together through our church is doing well, a few families had a small get together this week in the church hall and the kids were able
to socialize and run around the gym to burn energy

There was one child who was pulled aside, a boy of 12 who mom was swatting while matching to the ladies room, came back with puffy eyes rubbing his bottom, but in much better spirits to share with his friends!

Everyone else on best behavior.

Katie has improved in math , which she had been struggling and frustrated with, resulting in a couple mouth soapings this week, well more than a couple, but i explained yes shes frustrated but there are healthy respectful ways to express that, not temper tantrums and calling it "STUPID TIMES TABLES" :) We all have our moments.

I wonder though, hey Cath could you ask your mature oldest what her opinion of Katie's childish behavior? Maybe coming from an older girl shed even better see the error in her ways

Overall cleanliness like with a lot of young boys, Matthew is working on, he got one particular memorable paddling for leaving a lot of pee on the toilet seat that I then sat on!

We do have one rule that some may say is silly or unimportant or miniscule but I see it as practice to follow specific instructions, I have them when come in the door, take shoes off and place hem neatly side by side with laces tucked into the shoes. Its cute seeing them rush to correct it when I clear my throat at the entryway

Anyway, I hope that everyone's family and children, are safe happy, and warm bottomed matching a warm heart! By all means everyone, feel free to give us updates, we would all love to hear it I am sure!

-Kristina
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Subject: Instilling Godly Self Confidence In Our Kids


Author:
Kristina
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Date Posted: 18:12:01 01/26/24 Fri

This has been a big one for husband and I, we want our kids to be confident, but children of the world are taught to be confident in themselves and what they can do, but the Christian perspective is that we can do everything through Christ who strengthens us.

During bible times we talk about these things, but we talk about and model them day to day also.

As a man thinks in his heart, so is he (Prov. 23:7)

i like to show them what God thinks of them that they are a beloved child of God, and forgiven in his eyes, that they were beautifully and wonderfully made.

I am always having both try new things whether its a new sport or activity, new foods, new ways of following rules, all of the above.

But also some of the things they do that of course earn a punishment, us parents could stop them from doing it, but its better when its not life threatening to let them make mistakes,

Allow them to fail, follow through on the consequence then i comfort them and we talk and find ways they can avoid the spanking next time, ask them what THEY think they can do as well

And then tell them keep trying whatever it is and you will succeed.

Just because you fall of the bike and scrape your knee you dont stop bike riding forever!

some biblical facts to encourage your kids with

Gods love is everlasting, unconditional and he wants to be close to you and us close to Him
God knows your heart, so talk to Him .

God stitched you together in your mothers tummy he has prepared every step for you

No matter what you do wrong, mistakes you make God will never stop loving you and neither will mommy or daddy.

Would love to hear everyone's thoughts!
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Subject: QUESTION PERIOD


Author:
Kristina (Inquisitive)
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Date Posted: 15:37:13 01/24/24 Wed


ok as promised, a questions only post, everyone is welcome and encouraged to answer the ones that apply to them

Oh and I forgot to mention one thing bout mouth soaping
there is a gum. thats been made since the forties. its called THRILLS. their slogan is "it still tastes like soap!" and it really does, its an option when you are out, because you really shouldnt use liquid soap .
its on amazon or ebay i think

Do your kids friends know they are spanked?

do you have spanking privileges for any friends visiting?

if you have company and have to spank, is it really close family and friends who can witness?

were you parents spanked as kids and if so do your kids
enjoy hearing tales of your mischief?

what do you think is the greatest benefit to this type
of discipline?

what hobbies do your kids and you have, and you as a family?

what is something non spanking related youd like help and
advice with?

did the father of your kids or husbands know you were
spanked as a kid when you met? Mine did, mom told him
stories. lol

DO you practice modest dress when raising your kids, if so what does that mean for you?

if your child used the Lord's name in vein what would
the punishment be?

Does your church have messages or sunday school lessons
on obedience and discipline? how do the kids react
hearing them?
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Subject: Re: Sunday Morning Soaping


Author:
Kristina (Pleased and Excited)
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Date Posted: 15:23:22 01/29/24 Mon

This deserves its own thread!

Cath, though this is a christian forum, I will definitely allow you and encourage the type of details here, because you are a married couple, and we should show Christians have healthy loving and steamy relationships too.

I do think, in my experiences, including believe me with my hubby Mark , that truly marriages that keep the flame alive, a big contributor to that is alot of the families use spanking either in a DD context, but more importantly with their children, if not both!

It is part of our duties so you shouldnt dread it.. enjoy the love and togetherness that being on the same page raising children brings.

So I am glad my help is helping with your marriage , but also that clearly communication and love and understanding are getting stronger with your whole family too. I am so very proud of two of you.

I am also proud of how well the children are adjusting to all this, please take them for some ice cream or a special dinner or something they enjoy as a reward and make sure you verbally praise them oh so much

Wuestion in general about all three of the kids, theres something I have coined "Regression Behavioral Therapy" that ive found is great with older kids, I see kids trying to grow up far too fast and this helps them be able to be kids way longer and not worry about grown up stuff as much.

Basically, you would change some of the tone of voice and level of words you use, to speak to them more like children of 8 or 9, and you change some rules as well, earlier bedtime, holding hands when out, more supervision, that sort of thing, regressing them a little bit in some areas.

what do you think?

Are they getting up easier now that they know if they dont ull be paddling? lol my daughter some days and that darn alarm.. and me as a teen hehe

A winded horse awww well what a good girl, struggling but trying her very best. Yes it is a lovely sight and even though some may think it sounds mean, the sounds are so adorable! But it does not need to be said how certain sounds are especially intriguing to a man like Tom lol poor guy

I like that you are now paddling as you swat, i bet that paddle is almost always in your hand lol do u happen to have a photo of it maybe u could upload someplace or just link to it on the spot you bought it?

how do u like the lexan, were u smacking pretty hard, like skin flattening and buns bouncing?

Standing out of the way, what a great idea, and doing these soapings as a family, wow what a great way to have the kids and you bond together, even when its just mommy and them its great too

Are your kids like mine rolling eyes and eeeeeew when you are all kissy and affectionate with tom lol its all teasingly of course, not spank worthy teasing lol

What were their reactions seeing you kiss and giggle like teenagers watching them spit and such in the tub? it reminds us of our childhood doesnt it, did tom has strict mom and or dad? lol

I am glad you and Tom got some loving time in, how was church btw? did anyone at the church get brought out and then brought back rubbing bottoms? oh and what do u think of the suggestion to spank before service or like u did this time, a paddling or spanking before leaving each Sunday for service?

I also think , inviting the ladies who gave him his special session, or one of them at least over now and then to "visit" with Jimmie in front of the family, could be beneficial for all

But how were the games? LOL
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Subject: An update for Cath n everyone!


Author:
Kristina (Happy)
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Date Posted: 23:17:03 01/28/24 Sun

Ill post more later today but can you ask Jimmy for me, does he STILL have a crush on Annette and the lovely ladies who helped out other day, after his big spanking event, or does he have MORE of one now? hehe

Thank you for this Cath, and also You don't have to give us a giant update every time, but you are wonderful to hear from and to me at least you inspire wonderful motherhood

However LARGE posts when you can are fabulous , but hey even if once every day or two it were a couple paragraphs on how the children are doing? that would be lovely.

Are you keeping a log of discipline? that would be lovely to share.

Oh and I also brought my son to somebody for a spanking. One of my church lady friends who Matthew just adores, well she introduced me to her mother who was visiting, her mother is an old school caring older woman, she is in her 60s.

But I was informed over tea at our place that her mother is very good with little boys (from karens brothers growing up)

Sunday afternoon we went for a visit, Matthew was treated like a naughty boy from forty years ago , and my oh my, alot of nudity and inspection, corner time in various positions.

He had his bare bottom hand spanked by both karen and her mother, she assisted in undressing him and comforting him etc.. also felt my lexan of course, and karens mother gave my son a short few whacks with the bigger bathbrush,
he was told this is for once you turn 10 lol his eyes were wide and he swore to be SUPER GOOD

I think it was good for him.

Katie had her mouth soaped and bottom paddled a couple times hen he was gone, for some reason she was in a huffy mood yesterday

anyone have any questions please ask!

Thanks cath and everyone here for supporting myself and everyone else! but we should try and all post more often where possible please! :)

Blessings
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Subject: A fresh start to discipline


Author:
Bailey
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Date Posted: 09:30:42 01/29/24 Mon

Good morning to each Christian mommy here. I’m Bailey, 31, mom of 2 girls 8 and 10. I’m a stay at home mom and my girls are are homeschooled and a co-op day on Thursday with other kids in our church. Prior to having children I was an insurance adjuster and decided that motherhood was more important than working away from home while my kids are growing up.

My husband and I have known each other basically our whole lives. Grew up in the same church, got married there and still belong there. Ours is much like anyone else’s here….conservative values and beliefs. Our pastors are very much pro spanking and strongly believe in traditional Christian values for families. We feel blessed to belong to such a wonderful church and church family.

I personally feel like it’s time to reevaluate our discipline practices and routine with our girls. Currently it’s the familiarity of totally bare over my lap or on their bed face down. Or over my husband’s lap, etc. As they are getting older I feel like we must consider that they may need further guidance or structure. So I’m simply asking for any advice, opinion etc that is being asked in sincerity . What works best for you…what doesn’t?

As additional information we practice the same traditional ways as any of us do. Regular enemas, rectal thermometers, suppositories, etc. Just basic stuff that conservative parents follow for the kids well being.

I’m grateful to Kristina for this forum. Her comments and encouragement to me have been so inspiring. And to others who have posted here, it has been a privilege to read how much God is blessing this group of women. Kristina has suggested that I should provide my contact information for anyone who felt that they would like to respond privately or not publicly. I most certainly respect that!
Trillian is: Baileybird31
Email is : Baileybird2001@gmail.com

Blessings on each of you and your family

Bailey
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