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Christian Family Discipline
Welcome to the board! This is meant to be a safe space , so please don't be judgmental or rude to others. This forum is run by my husband and myself who work with young people at church. It is for families who believe in raising children biblically, including discipline. For us to share experienced and learn from one another. Couples practicing Christian Domestic Discipline are also welcome, but please keep focus on raising children.

Subject: Checking In


Author:
Kristina to Cath (Concerned)
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Date Posted: 11:02:18 01/23/24 Tue

Hello Cath , just wanted to say hello and check in wince we missed hearing from you last night :) hope all is well and we hear from you some more soon!
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Subject: Pastors wife


Author:
Kristina to Cath and others
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Date Posted: 16:40:13 01/27/24 Sat

Oh lovely Cath, i have a suggestion, I usually do this on Sundays, taking them to the spanking room BEFORE service to give a hand spanking as a warning?

might be a good thing for yours

And YES Cath please ALL the juicy step by step details of the pastors wife spanking please.

But I also have a request, I posted some questions and I in particularly wanted to hear your answers.

So could you PLEASE take some time this evening when kids are in bed, make a few medium to large posts and some smaller ones? then you can relax and not have to worry bout posting too much if you arent able to get on during the day?
id personally love it and would return favor!

You are my most active poster and its wonderful

smaller ones on anything youd like but I think you have great ideas as much as everyone else, and it should be discipline focused of course but doesn't have to be spankings..

But id love to hear about the pastors wife and Jimmy, those questions, but i am dying to hear how you do punishments on the day to day, how often, procedures etc. I am sure youll have some interesting insight, and questions to ask!
Subject: Kids and Tv/Movies


Author:
Kristina
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Date Posted: 17:09:59 01/26/24 Fri

So of course, raising Christian families is about so much more than discipline and spanking. Was wondering what everyone and their particular church members believe in terms of kids watching tv shows and movies with potential unchristian messages

At our home, the kids get screen time you can't avoid it these days, but its half hour on weekdays , supervised, and only after chores and house duies are done.

And I am very careful about what they are allowed to watch. any good suggestions?

on weekends its an hour, spaced out of course , and usually most of that is spent watching something as a family, the kids love movie night lol

Also for those with older kids what is the consequence if they do get caught watching a show thats not allowed?
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Subject: The Household Activity Log Jan 24


Author:
Kristina
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Date Posted: 18:25:18 01/24/24 Wed

keep in mind we homeschool. LOL

8AM
I got up and got my coffee. I went into Katie's room
she was already out of bed and was changing out of her pjs, so she just got 20 swats with me holding her arm and
a loving pat to her jeans once dressed and a forehead kiss "wait for us at the breakfast table please"

Now Matthew, I went in, flicked light on said cmon sleepy
head time to get up, didnt budge. reached under blanket
playfully grabbed his leg and shook said cmon, lets go. gave him thirty seconds after that, so not really a warning.

I yanked those covers off so fast, he jumped up saying
ok mommy im up!! I said oh no, tooo late young man,
you know you listen first time!

So he went over my lap for a full length nude hand spanking. Sigh stubborn boys. I also dressed him myself
like he was a toddler and made him hold my hand to
march downstairs.

845 or so by then. Daughter had gotten juiceboxes for her
and brother when we got there, i decided to be nice and
made them choc chip pancakes.

so i wont do a whole hour by hour thing, just the highlights now.

homeschool is done in a lil room in the finished basement
i converted to a lil school room. it went from 9-12
Some bible study, history, and lil bit of a game to work
on spelling.

it was fun, but there was a moment where i saw my son was
not paying attention, so I said "since you arent paying
attention matthew, hopefully your sister will pay attention to your spanking.. dramatic pause.. because
SHES GETTING ONE TOO"

she tried to whine and say it wasnt fair she hadnt done
anything, and I said, I know, but a warm bottom always
makes you both focus so much better sweetie. Mommmy knows
best!

I did see a lil smirk but she was being careful not to show too much joy but I did wink at her as I took him
over my knee.

yes, just less than couple hours after the first! it was one of those days for him I guess!
I gave him a medium length lexan paddling and he was howling and promising to pay attention, which he did well with rest of the morning!

he was in the corner during hers. then she did her corner
time and matthew helped me clean up the school papers.

Took them to McDonalds, it is rare I do so, believe me, its crap, but a nugget happy meal sometimes is a joy for them for some reason lol

part way through, i didnt wanna make son be my himself, so he had to come in the ladies room with us cos we all had to go . it was empty, and my daughter commented something like "noones here!"

My response? youre right there isnt anyone around..
bent her over the sink playfully but the smacks were 20 firm ones, dress up panties down. some ouches from her and a lil sniffling but not too bad. matthew got a break this time, just one playful swat on his jeans

1-2 was a bit more class stuff finishing with prayer to help them have wisdom to let these school lessons be remembered

They did their own thing playing in rooms, my daughter
reading on the sofa, that kind of thing and they were amazing angels. I praised them for that of course and they had big grins

I did swat legs and such when theyd come out or walk down hall for bathroom or to just say hi and get a hug, etc
but it was quiet until 430

I do this sometimes to keep them out of the way, and not bothering me bout whats for dinner. which is corner time , but i let them sit on wooden chairs for it because its not a punishment. so half hour in corners while i made dinner.

we ate dinner, had a phone call with daddy, and they enjoyed that we always try to have one every night if
hes on the road.

at dinner, i asked how their bottoms were, and they both
blushed , she said it was nice and warm that she coould "feel the love tonight" which led to breaking into song... lol

matthew said he thought his wasnt even pink anymore, so i said "show us" he didnt want to but his sister was chanting "show us show us" :) it wasnt pink, but i reddened it with 20 slaps hehe they werent super hard some playful ones in there too

all was quiet until bed again. we did have some talks but i cant remember the whole convo and this post is already real long (sorry people lol)

it was my idea to do these reports though, but if someone besides us two ladies wants to do same for their homes
that would be great!

Bedtime.. bath was uneventful they went to wait in their
corners.

I went in, they turned around from corners , which is allowed, i smiled because when matthew saw
the lexan in my hand his hand went right to rub
his bare bottom! hehe

I sat on the bed, and called them over
one on each side of me hand on their botoms
and back, soft rubs n pats as i said i love you
but its bedtime which means time to apnk.

"go sit in your comfy chair in the audience, matthew" "yes mommy"

I puther over my knee, oiled up her bottom and thighs
commenting how shiny it made her buns, i asked "does it
sting alot more with oil?"
she shyly nodded, but i informed her, my mom sometimes
used vaseline, which was sticky so her paddle would
stick to the butt a lil bit each smack... man that memory.. *rubbing my pj bottoms hehe

I pinned her legs and hands in position,
and I went to town doing my usual up one side
and down the other pattern, i was in top form
swatting fairly firm last night!

she was sobbing by the end having already gone
through the sobbing, then bawling, then back to sobbing
blew her nose wiped her tears and they switched.

when matthew came over he already had a few tears
silently falling , i hugged him and told him they are both very brave and i am proud of how well they
accept bedtime spanking. he said i love you mommmy
and i melted hehe

but i was still gonna spank!
he handled it well. I mean the hand ones here are only
like thirty swats total, but they are medium
and pretty hard ones mixed in.

This time I had him go first for the lexan.
I set the timer and set to work, with him
laying on tummy on bed. 20 minutes that paddled
worked his bottom backs of thighs and inner thighs too.

I talked softly whole time "we are getting there"
"oooh a pretty shade tonight honey!" "youre sooo brave, thats it, let it all out, mommys here.."
"nearly done now sweetheart"

Katie was just reading her book, which I didnt mind,
but if she thinks I didnt see her smiling behind that book, shes out of her mind lol it was cute

Matthew would never, when I put her in diaper position for her paddlings, he pays super close attention lol
cant for the life of me figure out why.. ;)

she did well too, bawled like a baby of course.

so cuddles with each of them was lovely tonight, just applied lotion and chatted about what feelings they feel
during bedtime spanks.

This night my son said he felt worn out cos he had lots of spanks during day, but he said he was gonna sleep like
a rock :) he fell asleep like 10 minutes after i started chatting and snuggling

My darling girl said she felt very warm , but she said she actually likes the paddle better cos the brush is very heavy and hurts alot more ;) i told her i know from
experience.

as i soothed her and did lotion i told her about the time
my mother spanked me on a park bench when i was about ten
right there fully bare with her brush because i was being
rude to other kids :P

the kids love to hear stories of me in trouble, how about yours?

anyway thats how my day went, thoughts?
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