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Subject: Re: Weekly Checkin And Update For Yall

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Kristina

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Date Posted: 19:08:04 01/31/24 Wed
In reply to: Cath to Kristina 's message, "Re: Weekly Checkin And Update For Yall" on 17:26:47 01/31/24 Wed

SO nice to hear from you, Cath! So going back to schooling and since I teach English in my homeschooling I am going to try and be better organized in how I structure and format these longer responses lol

I will not make you wait, I will START with the real good stuff, I can tell you really like to read this with your hubby cuddled up in the evenings, likely after bedtime spankings? lol It reminds me of being a tween and teenager, ALWAYS wanting details from mom ovr anyone she spanked or from my friends and ESPECIALLY friends lil brothers about the discipline they got!

SOAPINGS
So the first bit of homeschooling is from 9am to about 11, I use a spare room in our finished basement, put a desk for miss mommy, and they each have a desk too and a small chalkboard on wheels.

I bought them proper school uniforms, so yep, even at home they wear him nice pants and a shirt and she wears a blouse and school skirt to her knees, and lovely hair in pigtails, she looks just darling

Not like me in HS shortening that kilt when mom was out of sight, but thats another story! Shhhh dont tell momma Cath, please! shell paddle if she finds out I used to do that LOL

So Katie started out doing ok with our math work, but I could see her frustration building. RED ALERT ! BATTLESTATIONS! MELT DOWN IMMINENT! Have you seen that movie Inside out? lol

I kept rubbing her back and saying just breathe sweetheart, I was trying to show her how to do things, and she was just beyond frustrated.

She scribbled with her pencil and went ARRRRGHHH! STUPID MATH I shook my head kind of smirtked not because she was frustrated but I said "Now Katie, we are not a pirate. What do we do when we have a problem?" "she mumbled "use words" I took her chin firmly lifted her head up "eye contact when speaking to mommy please"

I said pardon, I didn't hear you? "use my words mommy"
"yes thats right sweetheart, I am not going to punish you for being frustrated. I am going to punish you for not even trying to use words, and for the bad language. You will be getting a good soaping and paddling young lady."

I took her by the ear, stood her up, marched her up to the bathroom swatting her all the way. Went into bathroom I ran the water and lathered up the soap and told her "take off everything Katie, we dont want to mess up your pretty uniform with snot and soap do we?"

She folded everything neatly, set it on toilet lid. I said "good girl, now get over here and on your footstool so we can soap that naughty mouth of yours!"

I bent her over the sink, took the bar and cloth in my hands , she stared at it bottom lip quivering... "Katie, you know that kind of language you used is not acceptable, other kids may say SMACK "STUPID" SMACK SMACK But we do not in this house!"

I gently but firm enough put my hand on the back of her neck and said "Open. Tongue out little missy!" She did as asked, thankfully.

I scrubbed her tongue for a few minutes, then scrubbed under it, she was retching and so there was alot of suds and drool starting. she was kinda grunting and moaning, not a winded horse yet lol

I continued to scrub as i was lecturing her "oh katie you do look cute blowing soap bubbles. oh yes we are learning now, I think we are SMACK SMACK STARTING to get somewhere!"
tears in her eyes, sobbing starting, the sounds she was making Cath, this one is not like a horse, its more like a pig huffing and snorting kinda thing when they are eating real fast? I dont know how else to describe it. I believe i sounded like a cat coughing up furballs as a girl lol

"GOOD GIRL thats it, let all those naughty words out of your mouth.. " drool allll over her chest and tummy, I took a break letting her catch her breath , lathering up the bar again,

"look in that mirror Katie, that is a naughty girl getting her mouth washed out by her mommy! That is the face of a girl who is going to have a sound paddling and put down for a nap! You need a nap for that attitude, lil lady!"
Now, I told Katie to go and fetch the baby oil and her brother, she started to yell for him and I said "dont you dare young lady, go and GET him" and swatted her medium hard but playfully

She came back sniffling and still drooling was so cute, she tried to wipe the slip away but i smacked her hand lightly and said "sorry sweetie, you leave that there"
I had Matthew put the clothes in the hamper, and he sat on the toilet lid, quietly watching, he did have a hint of a smirk, but he was rapt and well you know what happens to boys, he was still in his slacks, noticably.

I scrubbed out lil miss Katie's mouth again this time not doing much talking, but scrubbing and smacking her thighs and bottom some.

I had Matthew stand to the side, and said to him not to worry he wasnt getting soap, this time. I put her over my knees and oiled her bum down to mid thigh. I picked up the paddle and said "now young lady, lets paddle this BARE BOTTOM and warm you up for your nap!"

Set timer, feeling generous gave her 8 minutes. But it was a FIRM paddling, a nice shade of red, but as always no hint of bruising.

she was kicking, and fussing still blowig bubbles, crying hard and squealing as I paddled. Once done, had her over knees for five minutes, rubbing her back and bottom. "shhhh its ok Katie its all over now, such a brave girl.. mommy loves you" "im sorrreee mommmyy" "shhh its alll forgiven now sweetie"

I took her to her room, tucked her in with hug and a kiss and left her to nap an hour. I watched some shows with Matthew. Then when she woke up we talked about it all.

What do you think ?

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Subject	Author	Date
Re: Weekly Checkin And Update For Yall	Cath to Kristina (Wonderful Report)	22:53:35 01/31/24 Wed
Re: Weekly Checkin And Update For Yall -- Kristina, 23:41:32 01/31/24 Wed