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Author: Anne1 |
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Date Posted: 09:30:54 02/10/24 Sat In reply to: Cole 's message, "Re: Confession Time & My Family’s Story" on 17:09:35 02/06/24 Tue >We may have chatted on other forums, but my son is 9 >and wets his bed. We don’t punish for the wet bed >but we do punish for not cleaning up. For a while he >was getting very lazy about it all. He was peeing in >his pull-up before bed and leaving wet pull-ups on the >floor. So we started doing DD with him too. Now he is >back to undies during the day unless he has an >accident. But no more pull-ups at night. We diaper him >every night after his bath and then change him in the >morning. Either myself, my wife, or my 12 year old >daughter baths and changes him. > > >>Hi everyone! >> >>I’m Jen but I was posting here under the name >>Heather. I have three wonderful boys that are 5, 7, >>and 10. We are your typical Christian family who >>believe in first time obedience and traditional >>parenting which includes spankings. But we also >>practice something called diaper discipline (I’ll >>explain more later). This form of discipline is >>admittedly controversial. >> >>I was posting under the name “Jen” for years on >>diaper discipline forums but most have little activity >>and many conversations are on subjects that don’t >>deal with DD and can be frankly concerning. I still >>wanted to share with likeminded parents who believe in >>old fashioned discipline but recognized that DD stuff >>found on other forums could be offensive. So out of >>respect to others I changed my name and never >>discussed DD here. However, I decided to take a risk >>and confess that we use DD and explain what it is and >>isn’t. >> >>Diaper discipline is a gentle way of maintaining >>discipline and reinforcing taking personal >>responsibility and encouraging growth. The focus is on >>gentle. Yes, spanking is involved if the child >>doesn’t cooperate but when the child does it is not >>necessary. >> >>Putting an older potty trained child in diapers and >>age regressing them serves as a reminder to behave and >>act their age. For example instead of a child having a >>sore bottom for the day to remind them to behave they >>could wear a diaper which they feel very self >>conscious about. DD also helps to reinforce that the >>parents have total control over everything including >>the potty. There are many many other benefits that I >>can write paragraphs on but in the interest of >>simplicity I’ll talk about how we got started and >>our rules. >> >>My three boys have struggled with bedwetting and >>encopresis. When my 10 YO was a toddler I was >>researching discipline and stumbled upon DD. After >>years of potty training, encopresis and bedwetting I >>found it to be the perfect tool for discipline. >> >>The boys would have accidents and not tell an adult. >>They didn’t take personal responsibility. >> >>So how does DD work in our house? >> >>First and foremost I want to stress the boys wear >>regular underwear like 95% of the time. They wear >>underwear to school, sports, friend’s houses, etc. >>They are normal athletic fun loving boys. >> >>The 5 & 7 YOs wear pull-ups during the weekend, while >>traveling or special events like holidays or weddings. >>While at school the teacher reminds them to go to the >>bathroom, they have a potty schedule. >> >>What can trigger DD? >> >>Repeated regular accidents, hiding soiled clothes, >>lying, or acting overly immature. We can also do DD >>whenever we see fit too. >> >> >>Our household rules for DD are simple (these apply to >>the 10 YO too but he rarely needs it). >> >>If they have an accident in underwear and tell an >>adult then they wear a Pull-Up the rest of the day, no >>spanking. >> >>If they have an accident in a Pull-Up and tell an >>adult then no punishment. >> >>If they have an accident in either underwear or a >>Pull-Up and don’t tell an adult, hide it, or lie >>then it is a spanking and DD. >> >>Under DD: >>Diaper stays on and cannot be removed and must be used >>They can ask to be changed only once. No means no! >>We might increase the punishment by adding extras like >>bottles, bibs, pacifiers, playpen etc. >> >>The 7 YO is small for his age and very comfortably >>fits in a Huggies Size 6 diaper and Pull-Ups now makes >>a T5-T6 so he will have a couple of years left in >>Pull-Ups. >> >>I really believe in DD. We rarely need to do >>maintenance spankings (haven’t done one in nearly 2 >>months) and it’s a great way to keep them under >>control. DD is the ultimate way to discipline and control your tweens and teens . The humiliation factor is high and most boys and girls will do anything you want to avoid it . Unlike spanking it is a very gentle form of discipline and if you all out baby them it gives you lots of bonding and loving experiences . Sometimes it becomes a lifestyle where the child reverts back to being your baby and willingly gives you control . This means your baby is secure from all the bullying and teen angst of puberty and is secure in your love and care . It is also a great way to prevent masturbation [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] |
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