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Subject: Re: Cooperation

Author: Emily

[ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 19:40:39 11/05/23 Sun In reply to: Jasmine 's message, "Re: Cooperation" on 13:49:03 10/18/23 Wed >With my 9 year old son Luke, I have discovered that >when he truly acknowledges guilt for an action that >warrants a spanking (perhaps half the time), he is >fully cooperative and pulls his pants down without >being asked. Other times, he'll hesitate and ask if >he really has to be spanked, etc. and there is a delay >before he acquiesces and drops his pants when told to >do so. Punishment is the same under both >circumstances, twenty smacks with a hairbrush on the >bare buttocks, but the times he has issues accepting >guilt, the affair takes more time. That's hard when they are not ready to accept what they did wrong. No child wants the consequence but learning to accept their responsibility I think is important. Do you just spank anyway or do you continue to talk with him untill it seems he has accepted his guilt? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]