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Subject: Embarrassment Can Be Very Powerful

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Helen
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Date Posted: 11:18:24 12/26/24 Thu
In reply to: Pam 's message, "Spanking" on 18:44:30 12/19/24 Thu

It certainly can make a difference but it doesn’t have to. One can make a spanking just as painful with underwear staying on especially if an implement is involved.

The way bare bottom spanking most “hurts” more is mentally, particularly for a modest child. People mostly specify how painful a spanking is but won’t discuss the embarrassment involved, or will keep it as a byproduct or afterthought. It is something that can be measured and deliberately enforced, and I would argue it’s the most important factor of a spanking for serious misbehavior. Think of how a child’s buttocks become more and more red from being spanked. The same way that can be a measure of pain, a child’s face will involuntarily blush red with embarrassment when sentenced to a punishment they will find, well, embarrassing. The most effective punishments will produce a blushing, beet red faced child before the first spank is even administered.

The most effective spankings I have witnessed or enforced have been the ones where the child started crying not so much from physical pain, but from how shameful they found the experience from being undressed and having their naked lower halves exposed. This obviously is many times more embarrassing when the spanking is enforced in front of witnesses, particularly other children close to the same age.

I have also found that after a certain age (10 is a general rule) tween kids tend to find the whole experience of having to submit to specifically an old fashioned over the knee bare bottom hand spanking to be mortifying. It’s seen as a punishment for little kids, and it is. The problem is that the ~10-13 year old age range often hold the belief they are no longer little kids, which ironically often leads to them acting “too big for their britches”.

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Re: Embarrassment Can Be Very Powerful Mary to Helen 11:46:26 12/26/24 Thu

Re: Embarrassment Can Be Very Powerful -- Larry-G_88, 14:45:17 12/26/24 Thu

Re: Embarrassment Can Be Very Powerful Sammi 20:54:09 12/26/24 Thu

Re: Embarrassment Can Be Very Powerful -- Megan, 22:12:37 12/26/24 Thu

Re: Embarrassment Can Be Very Powerful -- Helen to Megan, 12:10:47 01/01/25 Wed

Re: Embarrassment Can Be Very Powerful -- Mary to Helen, 13:17:10 01/01/25 Wed

Re: Embarrassment Can Be Very Powerful -- Helen, 20:23:32 01/01/25 Wed

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>It certainly can make a difference but it doesn’t >have to. One can make a spanking just as painful with >underwear staying on especially if an implement is >involved. > >The way bare bottom spanking most “hurts” more is >mentally, particularly for a modest child. People >mostly specify how painful a spanking is but won’t >discuss the embarrassment involved, or will keep it as >a byproduct or afterthought. It is something that can >be measured and deliberately enforced, and I would >argue it’s the most important factor of a spanking >for serious misbehavior. Think of how a child’s >buttocks become more and more red from being spanked. >The same way that can be a measure of pain, a >child’s face will involuntarily blush red with >embarrassment when sentenced to a punishment they will >find, well, embarrassing. The most effective >punishments will produce a blushing, beet red faced >child before the first spank is even administered. > >The most effective spankings I have witnessed or >enforced have been the ones where the child started >crying not so much from physical pain, but from how >shameful they found the experience from being >undressed and having their naked lower halves exposed. >This obviously is many times more embarrassing when >the spanking is enforced in front of witnesses, >particularly other children close to the same age. > >I have also found that after a certain age (10 is a >general rule) tween kids tend to find the whole >experience of having to submit to specifically an old >fashioned over the knee bare bottom hand spanking to >be mortifying. It’s seen as a punishment for little >kids, and it is. The problem is that the ~10-13 year >old age range often hold the belief they are no longer >little kids, which ironically often leads to them >acting “too big for their britches”.
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