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> > >Helen, I agree spankings can/should be very >embarrassing as well as painful, hence bare bottom >spankings. > I'm curious about you saying such embarrassment can >be "measured and enforced." You mention faces >turning red in shame (long before bottoms are red) and >in my experience my face actually felt hot when I >blushed while having my panties pulled down. And Mary >mentioned hearing embarrassment in boy's voices before >she spanks them. > Any other ways you "measure" embarrassment ? > > And deliberate enforcement of shame can take many >forms Aside from no-pants exposure, lectures can >re-inforce a boy/girl's embarrassment with words >making them feel childish naughty and emphasizing >"bare bottom" etc. > I remember my ears turning red while scolded and >sentenced to "be spanked until you cry like a baby" >etc. > Other ways you expand embarrassment ? > > Of course , the most powerful shaming to many is >being spanked in front of an audience, especially in >front of peers you think? Any experiences with this? > My sister-in-law, Anne, deliberately spanks her >son/daughter in front of each other and any other >relative, so I've witnessed my nephew/nieces' extreme >embarrassment when bared and spanked in front of me >and sometimes several others. > > Especially in early teens both of them would blush >bright red, shiver weep plead in palpable dread when >facing a roomful of aunts/unlces/cousins staring and >anticipating watching the kids stripped naked below >the waist and spanked to bawling kicking. > Anne also had a few methods of making such spankings >extra mortifying. > > You have any ideas/experience in that regard? > > > > > > > >>It certainly can make a difference but it doesn’t >>have to. One can make a spanking just as painful with >>underwear staying on especially if an implement is >>involved. >> >>The way bare bottom spanking most “hurts” more is >>mentally, particularly for a modest child. People >>mostly specify how painful a spanking is but won’t >>discuss the embarrassment involved, or will keep it as >>a byproduct or afterthought. It is something that can >>be measured and deliberately enforced, and I would >>argue it’s the most important factor of a spanking >>for serious misbehavior. Think of how a child’s >>buttocks become more and more red from being spanked. >>The same way that can be a measure of pain, a >>child’s face will involuntarily blush red with >>embarrassment when sentenced to a punishment they will >>find, well, embarrassing. The most effective >>punishments will produce a blushing, beet red faced >>child before the first spank is even administered. >> >>The most effective spankings I have witnessed or >>enforced have been the ones where the child started >>crying not so much from physical pain, but from how >>shameful they found the experience from being >>undressed and having their naked lower halves exposed. >>This obviously is many times more embarrassing when >>the spanking is enforced in front of witnesses, >>particularly other children close to the same age. >> >>I have also found that after a certain age (10 is a >>general rule) tween kids tend to find the whole >>experience of having to submit to specifically an old >>fashioned over the knee bare bottom hand spanking to >>be mortifying. It’s seen as a punishment for little >>kids, and it is. The problem is that the ~10-13 year >>old age range often hold the belief they are no longer >>little kids, which ironically often leads to them >>acting “too big for their britches”.
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