AS REQUESTED PART ONE KATIE -- Christian Family Discipline

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Subject: AS REQUESTED PART ONE KATIE

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Kristina

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Date Posted: 17:45:51 02/07/24 Wed
In reply to: Cath to Kristina 's message, "Re: Discipline/Life Update! PLS POST TOO" on 16:03:44 02/07/24 Wed

Now this is why we need to go back to how it was in forties and fifties, children just knew they got spankings, and thats how it was, everyone got them, and they still ran off and played every day and had close relationships with parents, yes dads needed to be in kids lives more as women often took care of raising kids, but in that area I think most parents now understand that need.

Kids accept and adapt quickly, they dont think I or mark are super mean or anything the have laughs and giggles even when dealing with the topic of spanking.

And it wsa a wonderful day for me because I feel so motherly, feminine, i feel like im a good mother and doing as God wants me to and as hubby wants me to, as a parent, but Cath can we include more discussion of our faith and church in our lives on here id like that alot

I also REALLY want to beg your husband to let us communicate privately, you could make a whole new email with a VPN on a secure encrypted private email provider just for these discussions, I just am enjoying working together and encouraging eachother, that would continue here even if we discussed in private too, but sometimes i think of i should e..oh yeah have to post on forum if i want to talk to Cath about x or y... Your family is wonderful Cath and darling husband, and I am very big on keeping things confidential between families, other than what we choose to share public.. anyway on with the post!

Somehow I think while Mattie is glad mommy will be here for him and always be on his side , he wishes i was a lil less thorough lol

Well, hes in the tub as i write this from bathroom on my laptop lol i plan on posting it when in a bit once i get them warmed and into bed, with lots of tickles and hugs and kisses tonight i think, we will go for some ice cream or a treat on weekend WITH DADDY cos theyve been so good. My man will be home for this weekend, get Saturday afternoon and sunday at church too! he is going to be done the long haul away from home for weeks driving in June, and have earned money to not have to be away so much! so excited! Gonna pinch his bum and run away lol

But I asked Matthew just now what he thinks when I soap him, he said "yucky! lol i asked but you know mommy does it cos she loves you ?" "Yes mommy but why does love have to taste so yucky?" LOL but I can tell when hes shifting foot to foot biting his lip he is thinking yes similar to what you said all nervous.. But he also sometimes giggles and i giggle too when he really starts blowing bubbles, so at least hes not in distress during out sessions.

Speaking of which Cath if I post the link to the Thrills soap gum will u try it? let me know if its a goood addition for times u go out and cant soap right away hehe OH Cath I am sure you too, but I used to be one of those whod warn and warn and wait days before stopping attitudes
Yes, I said to Katie "sweetheart, we have talked about this OVER and OVER again and you are a big girl now nearly ten. I know you want to be a big girl and do it all yourself but you cant"

she of course said something like "I AM a big girl" lol I said in some ways you are sweetie , but you are still a child, and you act like a child, like with these tantrums. You are allowed to be frustrated and upset and even angry, but you know you are to use your words, and if you cant, take three deep breaths before you react."

"what else could we do here, Katie?"
"I dunno " she said kinda lightly stomping foot.. you know the one right Cath, not disrespectfully so but just kinda moves feet up n down lol
"Well sweetie, you can pray for Jesus to help you be calm" because when you are calm you think more clearly and the answers will come easier. "OR you can.. ASK MOMMY FOR HELP You know I am here for you both"

BUT You are NOT a big girl yet, so lets go to your bedroom to talk about that fact. I brought her hand in hand to her room, some crocodile tears already. "ooohhh hoooo momma"
so, I stood her there and I said "because you arent such a big girl, little girls do not do things for themselves," as i pulled her shirt up and over head. I helped her out of her skirt, then socks, and her Little Mermaid panties. she didnt even try to cover this time.

I took her over my knee for about five minutes, only medium swats and more spaced out so I could talk during it. "do you still feel like a big girl, katie? "noooo!!!" "how do you feel?" "i said how do you feel sweetie?' "like a babyheeeeeheee!" "thats right like a little baby girl getting her bare bottom spanked. You ask for help young lady, you do NOT throw a baby tantrum!" then finished with a fast flurry.

Marched to the master bathroom in my room, stood her at the sink and lathered up her personal bar. I was telling her how its ok to be a little girl, that she should enjoy being a kid as much as she can. Math sucks "tongue please" but it is important sweetie. My mom spanked me alot to help me with my struggles too, but unlike you mommy didnt try hard enough!"

scrub gag gurgle drooling soap.. I paused so she could catch breath, I thin sometimes katie you try too hard, and then you are hard on yourself, you need to practice and mommy and daddy and teachers will all help and we can get there...

I scrubbed her good after i lathered again, gently had my hand on her lower back, making sure to get lots of yummy suds happening.

I brought her back to the bedroom, I had her hold onto her favorite stuffed animal bunny, i put some very light music on in the background, i felt bad for her , she was going to take a nap after after all, but I knew it had to be done

Matthew didnt watch but listened to every bit of it from his room next door.

I applied baby oil to katies bottom and thighs like always, i put her in diaper position, she held her legs apart, not all the way back about half way. Enough to pull her bottom tightly. So I paddled her real good set timer for ten minutes. slow at first... a swat every few seconds as i comforted her and told her she needed to be brave for me. those were just stingy for a couple minutes. Then I went real fast only medium spanks. half way . halfway down the right thing , down towards the bed and did that bum cheek then back up other side and repeat.

I paused a minute so she could catch breath i rubbed her light red thighs and bottom as i comforted her, she was doing soo good! but she had needed this. Then finish with fast and hard spanks with paddle.

I threw paddle onto the bed then jumped on the bed and pulled her into a huge hug her laying on my chest. she was saying how sorry she was and i said i know baby its all over now, i love you im so proud "you got me good mommma!" "yes i did hon, is it nice and warm to the touch?" "yah, i like when its warm after it helps me sleep !" and yes whole time rubbing soothing lotion into her.

Then yeah she took an hour nap :)

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AS REQUESTED PART TWO MATTHEW	Kristina	18:06:04 02/07/24 Wed